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By *addy bare OP Man
over a year ago

lakeside

Can a guy be too nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he doesnt mind being friendzoned

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Over nice Yes as it can be unusual to be expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, when I’ve engaged with someone who is too nice it feels Incongruent

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

It depends on the stages of the relationship, but more often than not there are other things that lead to people losing interest.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, nobody can be too nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define "nice".

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also being nice to a woman doesn't entitle anyone to sex with her.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Can a guy be too nice? "

As the old saying goes Nice guys finish last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, nobody can be too nice. "

This one!!

You shouldn’t have to change who you are to please others….if they can’t accept that being nice is how you operate then it’s their loss!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you mean by nice.

Overly keen and heavy on the compliments is a no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never. I love a nice guy but I do also like a bad boy. Mix it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a guy be too nice? "

From experiences I’ve had…….no.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

You can't ever be too nice.

You can be a doormat though and that's turn off.

There's a big difference between the two.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Can a guy be too nice?

As the old saying goes Nice guys finish last. "

They don’t with me. I’ve had my fair share of arseholes and I’d much rather knock around with a nice guy.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You can't ever be too nice.

You can be a doormat though and that's turn off.

There's a big difference between the two. "

Yea I agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What do people mean by too nice by the way?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm nice ...just saying

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t understand this concept. I like nice humans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t understand this concept. I like nice humans. "

People usually say too nice instead of you’re overbearing/smothering me because it sounds nicer

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

If you are nice because you want something...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can a guy be too nice?

As the old saying goes Nice guys finish last. "

They really don’t.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I got sacked for being too nice

seriously.

I'm always really nice and people take huge advantages... Wish I was more assertive ...

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I don’t understand this concept. I like nice humans.

People usually say too nice instead of you’re overbearing/smothering me because it sounds nicer "

Exactly.. but I’m very literal so I’d say and put those kind in a different category. I’ve never not liked someone for being genuinely nice..

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

No as long as that's just him and his norm. No ulterior motives.

Yes if he's behaving that way purely to get some minge action.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Nice or respectful?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Like many things, if you have to remind people that you are nice it's usually a good sign that isn't the image you are projecting.

In the same way that calling yourself an alpha means you definitely aren't one, calling yourself nice or decent or genuine can often be interpreted as being anything but.

Actions speak louder than words.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yes when they are too nice people become suspicious (think that’s anyone though not men!)

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No its refreshing

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Mixed responses on here. I’ll just keep being myself and if I come over as nice or not, I’m still being me.

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Mixed responses on here. I’ll just keep being myself and if I come over as nice or not, I’m still being me."

Best thing to do otherwise people will see straight through you....

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Like many things, if you have to remind people that you are nice it's usually a good sign that isn't the image you are projecting.

In the same way that calling yourself an alpha means you definitely aren't one, calling yourself nice or decent or genuine can often be interpreted as being anything but.

Actions speak louder than words."

I always seem to agree with your words

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Nice is a. Word that could mean many things.

You can't be too decent or respectful of others. It should be standard.

People will interpret behaviour and motives. Some may perceive someone as too wet, not showing character etc, if they are too giving and hidden behind a facade that's sickly sweet, such that others don't get a sense for who someone is.

Charm, being pleasant, positive and considerate are all attractive attributes.

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

Nice encompasses so much, just be a decent human, be kind and genuine

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Like many things, if you have to remind people that you are nice it's usually a good sign that isn't the image you are projecting.

In the same way that calling yourself an alpha means you definitely aren't one, calling yourself nice or decent or genuine can often be interpreted as being anything but.

Actions speak louder than words.

I always seem to agree with your words

Is it cos I is nice?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Like many things, if you have to remind people that you are nice it's usually a good sign that isn't the image you are projecting.

In the same way that calling yourself an alpha means you definitely aren't one, calling yourself nice or decent or genuine can often be interpreted as being anything but.

Actions speak louder than words.

I always seem to agree with your words

Is it cos I is nice?

Hahaha could be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite a nice wo man

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

If it is in your nature to be nice, polite and respectful then no

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By *addy bare OP Man
over a year ago

lakeside

I'm guessing we all know this friend is actually me,thanx for the hints and advice guys n girls.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Umm, my first instinct was to say ‘no’, a guy could never be too nice. However if they were a complete walkover, it might affect how others treat them. And may lead to a lack of respect, which isn’t attractive in itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but so can a girl.

To the right person though, you will be perfect, just as you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Nice guys win in the end. I know I certainly did when I met TinderGirl

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Define "nice". "

This

A really 'nice' guy that is setting you up for a rough time is not nice at all.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

No! A nice guy is better than a twat. Lol

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Can a guy be too nice?

As the old saying goes Nice guys finish last. "

No they don't...ask bearded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Umm, my first instinct was to say ‘no’, a guy could never be too nice. However if they were a complete walkover, it might affect how others treat them. And may lead to a lack of respect, which isn’t attractive in itself."

Is being too nice correlated to being a walk over or is that down to lack of self esteem?

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