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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With this dynamic, is it wrong to say the ball is in the man's court. For example it only happening if the partner receives pictures and videos. Kinda classing it as cheating if this isn't what happens because its not what was agreed. Or am I being stupid haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well firstly, hotwife and cuckold are not the same thing. They can go together, and often do, but don't always. A distinction many fail to make a probably the most common mistake or false assumption in swinging.

As you did ask about cuckold I'll focus on that. The cuck dynamic focuses on the female having control and using it to make the male "uncomfortable" sexually, however in fact the male gains excitement and satisfaction from that. All couples are different in how they go about it. Dynamics don't have specific set rules and guidelines, everyone has their own interpretation and style. Some wives deny the husband sex but flaunt their ability to have sex with other men independently. Some do it in front of their husbands to make them watch other men pleasure them when the husband "can't". Some do it while attempting to humiliate the husband as much as possible making them appear weak and pathetic, especially in comparison to a bull fucking her. This can go as far as name calling and making him lick up other men's cum while being further degraded and denied. They'll be plenty of other styles too...

Hotwives can just function independently. Some just have a free pass. They might gave sex with others without the husband knowing, a kind of ethical cheating in a way. But just an open relationship. Many tell their husbands of their meets and might share details etc. The wife is usually in control again here, but often with some influence from the husband.

Some hotwives swing with far more involvement from the husband. This is more of a Stag & Vixen dynamic. The husband might have a say in who she meets, watch, film, join in, control the meet to some degree, etc. No humiliation, unlike cuck. Control is usually shared with S & V. But some couples might give one or the other a greater level of control, again everyone is different. I have heard of some stags having full control of the vixen and choosing her sexual partners for her, but I think that's less common.

Hope that helps.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

As with any other kink in the world its not a case of "either or", it's a broad spectrum with people picking and choosing the parts they like and that work for them.

No two cuckold or hotwife couples are necessarily alike and what works for one might not work for another. As long as everyone's having fun it's all good

LvM

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Well firstly, hotwife and cuckold are not the same thing. They can go together, and often do, but don't always. A distinction many fail to make a probably the most common mistake or false assumption in swinging.

As you did ask about cuckold I'll focus on that. The cuck dynamic focuses on the female having control and using it to make the male "uncomfortable" sexually, however in fact the male gains excitement and satisfaction from that. All couples are different in how they go about it. Dynamics don't have specific set rules and guidelines, everyone has their own interpretation and style. Some wives deny the husband sex but flaunt their ability to have sex with other men independently. Some do it in front of their husbands to make them watch other men pleasure them when the husband "can't". Some do it while attempting to humiliate the husband as much as possible making them appear weak and pathetic, especially in comparison to a bull fucking her. This can go as far as name calling and making him lick up other men's cum while being further degraded and denied. They'll be plenty of other styles too...

Hotwives can just function independently. Some just have a free pass. They might gave sex with others without the husband knowing, a kind of ethical cheating in a way. But just an open relationship. Many tell their husbands of their meets and might share details etc. The wife is usually in control again here, but often with some influence from the husband.

Some hotwives swing with far more involvement from the husband. This is more of a Stag & Vixen dynamic. The husband might have a say in who she meets, watch, film, join in, control the meet to some degree, etc. No humiliation, unlike cuck. Control is usually shared with S & V. But some couples might give one or the other a greater level of control, again everyone is different. I have heard of some stags having full control of the vixen and choosing her sexual partners for her, but I think that's less common.

Hope that helps."

Pretty much this

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