FabSwingers.com forum: Would you consider an unplanned spur of the moment meet?

By *uscle88 OP Man
over a year ago

Potters Bar

Are there women that would choose to meet a man the same evening after a chat on fab the same evening. Just wanted to see what the general feeling around spontaneous meets was and what are your stipulations if doing so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do

But it’s normally a case off get up get ready and see how meny guys I can have in the one day

So if doing so probably expect not to be the first there that day

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No usually a social first x

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Mine usually are spontaneous these days, and daytime at that because, I'm also my mum's carer, and everything revolves around her for the foreseeable future. I've also often been lucky enough to get a spontaneous, short notice meet when couples have been let down by some time waster, daydreamer or wannabe.

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By *uscle88 OP Man
over a year ago

Potters Bar

I feel face to face communication stimulates the mind and only believe that you can only limit yourself to basic conversations ,over message or call it’s a lot more stimulating and powerful sexual chemistry when you build it through face to face interaction and also enhances physical activity too. If a conversation with someone had me wanting more then I defiantly would I’d say

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By *ohn123456789999Man
over a year ago

hastings

Have done a couple of these

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Depends on the chemistry

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Are there women that would choose to meet a man the same evening after a chat on fab the same evening. Just wanted to see what the general feeling around spontaneous meets was and what are your stipulations if doing so"
I'm sure some will

Some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only do spontaneous meets. has to feel right there and then.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

I just don't have the available free time to do spontaneous meets.

30 min cuppa socials are as spontaneous as I get with a stranger

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By *arren and AliciaCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Me personally (mrs) would prefer a last minute spontanious meet that way you don't have time to think about it and talk yourself out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl tried to do that with me 2 Saturdays ago, but I had other plans this evening unfortunately. So it can happen. Happens to me on tinder very often though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a social meet 1st but I would consider it lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met a few that ended up that way

It wasn’t the plan but they were explosive nights

They hadn’t done that before but they were amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd consider it if I was already dressed and ready to go, not shaving my legs on a maybe.

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

Yes, if we got along on either FaceTime/WhatsApp Video then yes - did that twice in the past, and we still see each other now! #VGFWB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On Fab no.

Met a guy last week in a shop and was fucking him an hour later. Totally unplanned but hot as fuck.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"On Fab no.

Met a guy last week in a shop and was fucking him an hour later. Totally unplanned but hot as fuck. "

Cheeky x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If my only interaction had been online I'd meet for a last minute social if I had time, but I'm not keen on inviting a total stranger into my home or going to theirs so it probably wouldn't go further than that.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I have done in the past. I wouldn't now as my dynamic has changed and I know I have put myself in some risky situations before. Thankfully nothing happened but i could very easily have been a statistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done in the past. I wouldn't now as my dynamic has changed and I know I have put myself in some risky situations before. Thankfully nothing happened but i could very easily have been a statistic. "

Jesus…not from this site I hope

But glad you came through unscathed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and it was by far the best experience I've ever had on here.

Not sure I'd be that brave again though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally no. I like to chat and get a feel for someone first unless I already know them.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Only ever broke my own rule once but it was all about her so I'm not in a hurry to repeat it.

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By *ostinstokeMan
over a year ago

tean

Has happened a couple of times, do like to get to know people first normally to save awkward moments!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not particularly spontaneous

If I’m meeting, then I want my hair and nails etc to be nice. That usually requires a bit of organisation.

It’s worth it though, as I feel so much better for it, and the effort usually goes down well too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Jesus…not from this site I hope

But glad you came through unscathed!!"

The meets were from here yes but it wasy actions that put me at risk at times. I met one guy without ever seeing a picture of him. Left the door open. Condom on thd bed and was blindfolded as he came in and fucked me then left.

Another guy bought drugs in and started taking them on my home.

I met a guy at his garage in the middle of a busy town.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

! I thought I was reserved at meeting new people. Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

! I thought I was reserved at meeting new people. Wow."

Oh I’m next level on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've done it, but very rarely! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

! I thought I was reserved at meeting new people. Wow.

Oh I’m next level on this

It would appear so!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

! I thought I was reserved at meeting new people. Wow.

Oh I’m next level on this

It would appear so!

It's the norm for some people.

I've only had 7 play meets in 5 years here so different degrees of spontaneity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only do spontaneous meets. has to feel right there and then."

This

I have done and it was great

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Have done it a couple of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally a good bit of pre meet interaction is required and that part is very enjoyable as well - getting comfortable over a load of messages and a social before hand, but if a status comes up with an offer that is time limited to the next hour or so, then that's very exciting and gives you a massive buzz. Totally different dynamic, but worth doing every now and again to cheer yourself up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

! I thought I was reserved at meeting new people. Wow.

Oh I’m next level on this

It would appear so!

It's the norm for some people.

I've only had 7 play meets in 5 years here so different degrees of spontaneity."

As time goes on, I'm being a lot more reserved. Works better for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

! I thought I was reserved at meeting new people. Wow.

Oh I’m next level on this

It would appear so!

It's the norm for some people.

I've only had 7 play meets in 5 years here so different degrees of spontaneity."

I’ve never been a spur of the moment kinda person so fab isn’t any different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With someone I’d already met, yes.

Someone new, probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a single lady, but we prefer to meet men this way. If the mood takes me I do a quick look on the meets page, see who is near, if they tickle my fancy you get an invite.... Take it or leave it. Cum then go....

Claire x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No. Holds no interest for me.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Usually no ...

But occasionally like tonight I just need to scratch that itch haha

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

It happens very occasionally. My first Fab meets was one of those with a couple.

LvM

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

. This

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

No. I like to get to know someone first.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I have done in the past.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Hell yes!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Had it happen once a couple had been let down and I offered to step in as they were nearby we agreed they came to my place fun and games .

Everyone was happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

. This

I am taking bookings for socials in 2023 this month and it’s not because I’m popular

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

I would say on most of my meets they start as a social but occasionally when the mood takes me and the right person pops up it can be spur of the moment for sure!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I have done in the past, not now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

. This

I am taking bookings for socials in 2023 this month and it’s not because I’m popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done…. Can’t say wouldn’t again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spontaneous for me is at least 3 months of chatting

. This

I am taking bookings for socials in 2023 this month and it’s not because I’m popular

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