FabSwingers.com forum: How much kink how much vanilla. What are we here for?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bit of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are good in the right situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both it’s all about the other person

If they want to keep seeing me to build trust to get in to the kink side or do they just want a plain vinilla bang at me

As wouldn’t do kink with someone that I had just meet

Takes time and trust to get in to that so I know I be safe tied up blind folded and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kink all the way - vanilla is for the dating sites. However, there is a place for vanilla if it's going to develop into an FWB situation, start off slowly and build up to the kinky stuff as a journey together. In a one off, search for the kinkiest person you can find!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't come here looking for kink, but I'd be happy to find some. And vanilla too if there is chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Why label or try and compartmentalise, just do the things you enjoy with consenting partners.

Don’t worry about too much of one or not enough of the other, just sit back relax and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a time and place for both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't impose on women. Yes I prefer bdsm, however I'm fine with vanilla, it all depends on what the lady likes. I don't believe in forcing people to do anything that they don't want to.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

What's vanilla???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pure kink vanilla isn’t enough for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree and can someone please add the times and dates to my Google calendar....ASAP would be preferable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the mood and the person your with, flexible levels of nasty.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"What's vanilla???"

Ice cream, custard cream biscuits and the sex I don’t like

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"What's vanilla???

Ice cream, custard cream biscuits and the sex I don’t like

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"What's vanilla???"

Exactly. Too subjective. Just have fun I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's vanilla???"

Normal sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just see how it goes

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

Both

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"What's vanilla???

Exactly. Too subjective. Just have fun I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even sure why im on here right now! Waiting up for the mrs to get in, ill take vanilla tonight!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Not even sure why im on here right now! Waiting up for the mrs to get in, ill take vanilla tonight!"

Maybe your balls are full???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not even sure why im on here right now! Waiting up for the mrs to get in, ill take vanilla tonight!

Maybe your balls are full???"
That is very true!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Not even sure why im on here right now! Waiting up for the mrs to get in, ill take vanilla tonight!

Maybe your balls are full???That is very true! "

Knew it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not even sure why im on here right now! Waiting up for the mrs to get in, ill take vanilla tonight!

Maybe your balls are full???That is very true!

Knew it "
that can be a pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not even sure why im on here right now! Waiting up for the mrs to get in, ill take vanilla tonight!

Maybe your balls are full???That is very true!

Knew it that can be a pain "
Im up for going straight into doggy!

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By *JSwingsMan
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

Like mine with just a hint of kink........

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Mainly kink tbh

I am on a kink exploration journey, vanilla sex with many different people is just not what I want and I have a longterm regular partner for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mainly kink tbh

I am on a kink exploration journey, vanilla sex with many different people is just not what I want and I have a longterm regular partner for that "

Brilliant comment x

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