FabSwingers.com forum: Picky swinger?!

By *oulfulSinner OP Woman
over a year ago

Chester

Just airing...

just been sent a message that simply read

'Wooooooooh nothing worst than a picky swinger' ... followed by a block, all because I said I wasn't interested for the 2nd time in 5 weeks?

I didn't realise that firstly, declining an offer makes someone picky or that secondly, swingers fuck anything with a pulse?

What's going on with people?! So frustrating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've declined a meet? The audacity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply with "I politely declined x number of weeks ago" and then block them. No opportunity for snippy comments in return.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've declined a meet? The audacity!

Honestly the audacity here is shocking sometimes surely the question deserve only one answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just airing...

just been sent a message that simply read

'Wooooooooh nothing worst than a picky swinger' ... followed by a block, all because I said I wasn't interested for the 2nd time in 5 weeks?

I didn't realise that firstly, declining an offer makes someone picky or that secondly, swingers fuck anything with a pulse?

What's going on with people?! So frustrating! "

I know the feeling, some people just can't take rejection

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

People don't like rejection. It makes some act out.

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I hear you OP. Repeat messages from people I've politely declined are pretty much a daily occurrence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hear you OP. Repeat messages from people I've politely declined are pretty much a daily occurrence."

Il try again next week maybe

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I declined and other times i have been declined , there's nothing wrong on it as everyone have their own preferences , to me is a question of acceptance and move on to the next

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Errrr, I’d shag anything with a pulse.

Just saying like

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I block after the third time they msg me.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I block after the third time they msg me."

Three messages is a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally - I would rather a 'picky' person because:

A - they actually like ME

B - I REALLY value my sexual health

So good for you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Errrr, I’d shag anything with a pulse.

Just saying like

Your dirty talk is next level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block after the third time they msg me."

I havnt messaged you three times

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By *oulfulSinner OP Woman
over a year ago

Chester

"I block after the third time they msg me.

Three messages is a relationship

This is hilarious!

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By *oulfulSinner OP Woman
over a year ago

Chester

"Personally - I would rather a 'picky' person because:

A - they actually like ME

B - I REALLY value my sexual health

So good for you OP

Thank u, couldn't agree more

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By *oulfulSinner OP Woman
over a year ago

Chester

Thanks all, I don't really post on forums but I'm glad I did. I just think people are so unnecessarily rude, glad I'm not the only one, thank y'all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've declined a meet? The audacity!

How very dare you!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all, I don't really post on forums but I'm glad I did. I just think people are so unnecessarily rude, glad I'm not the only one, thank y'all x"

It's just sour grapes as they're missing out. Not every understands they can't be everybody's beverage of choice.

Don't worry about about it and the fact they've blocked you has saved you the effort of blocking them. So it's a win.

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By *oulfulSinner OP Woman
over a year ago

Chester

"Thanks all, I don't really post on forums but I'm glad I did. I just think people are so unnecessarily rude, glad I'm not the only one, thank y'all x

It's just sour grapes as they're missing out. Not every understands they can't be everybody's beverage of choice.

Don't worry about about it and the fact they've blocked you has saved you the effort of blocking them. So it's a win.

Exactly... I'm not sure which is worse, that or declining and then being asked why? I wouldn't dream of it!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

... Well at least they can chat to you on here and clear any pent up feels.

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By *lairekTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

"I block after the third time they msg me."

Is that like the Swinger's remake of Scrooge?

"Marley, is that bulge under your nightgown a candle?"

I'm thinking Netflix top 10, as a minimum

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I usually block people if I don't receive a reply after the 3rd message I send

Mxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your doing it wrong, anything with a penis you should meet straight away. Us women should stop being so picky and ride like we are at the stables.

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By *oulfulSinner OP Woman
over a year ago

Chester

"Your doing it wrong, anything with a penis you should meet straight away. Us women should stop being so picky and ride like we are at the stables."

Whaaaat? Why hasn't anyone told me this before? If only I'd known! Haha x

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

"Errrr, I’d shag anything with a pulse.

Just saying like

A pulse! Good grief man you realy are picky!

Just not falling appart should be enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hear you OP. Repeat messages from people I've politely declined are pretty much a daily occurrence."

Yes I agree, it's almost as if I'm on some kind of carousel.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I said I wasn't interested for the 2nd time"

Block after the first no thank you

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Basically guys are dicks .. most are spoiled kids who think the word "No" is a challenge rather than a rule..

So all I can suggest is reply "fuck off" and Block

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By *av3r1ckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Just airing...

just been sent a message that simply read

'Wooooooooh nothing worst than a picky swinger' ... followed by a block, all because I said I wasn't interested for the 2nd time in 5 weeks?

I didn't realise that firstly, declining an offer makes someone picky or that secondly, swingers fuck anything with a pulse?

What's going on with people?! So frustrating! "

I totally understand your situation I got called a prick and shouldn't be on here and tinder should be more my thing because I said no thanks

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By *av3r1ckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

That's what the duck tape is for!!

"Errrr, I’d shag anything with a pulse.

Just saying like

A pulse! Good grief man you realy are picky!

Just not falling appart should be enough. "

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By *oubletroubleCouple
over a year ago

South West

I always say yes, that way I don't offend anymore.

John x

On the other hand Janet is fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your doing it wrong, anything with a penis you should meet straight away. Us women should stop being so picky and ride like we are at the stables."

Stables.... jodhpurs and riding boots - yes please

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

People are so entertaining. Just laugh it off. There are some entitled pricks on here who think it's instashag.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We find that 1 meet makes them automatically think it's an open invite for future meets.

They learn that hounding us only gets them blocked.

So we're picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some very funny responses here

If someone messages again after I've declined I tell them so and then block. Life is too short. If they pay for the site they can see they've messaged already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine Swingers fuck everyone who asks.

Poor guy was offering sex because everyone knows that Swingers get really ill if they don't get fucked every day. He was being kind and caring and got rejected.

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