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"Why’s it so hard for me to get meets on this site can you tell me what I’ve done wrong on my profile please " You’ve just gotta vibe man. Find people who are interested in conversation and go from there. It’s what I do and it works pretty well. | |||
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 ’ and out of all your pics, only 2 are of another part of your body. Change it up- seeing a dick in max 2 pics is enough.
3. You state you have a big dick before even your age-give it up!
4. Try get along to a social or get a well-known established profile to verify you if you’ve chatted/met in more recent times.
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"Your profile seems fine to me, I love all the pictures of your hard dick. Keep trying and I’m sure you’ll get a meet soon. " but women give out about to many cock pics | |||
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"Firstly, 1.Your profile is a wall of text-break it up with paragraphs. 2. the ‘dick by the remote is just ’ and out of all your pics, only 2 are of another part of your body. Change it up- seeing a dick in max 2 pics is enough.
3. You state you have a big dick before even your age-give it up!
4. Try get along to a social or get a well-known established profile to verify you if you’ve chatted/met in more recent times.
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"Firstly, 1.Your profile is a wall of text-break it up with paragraphs. 2. the ‘dick by the remote is just ’ and out of all your pics, only 2 are of another part of your body. Change it up- seeing a dick in max 2 pics is enough.
3. You state you have a big dick before even your age-give it up!
4. Try get along to a social or get a well-known established profile to verify you if you’ve chatted/met in more recent times.
Hope this helps.
Millie
You said it, so I don't need to. Perfect advice Millie
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On the plus side, I've seen profiles with more cock pics than you've got  | |||
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"Why’s it so hard for me to get meets on this site can you tell me what I’ve done wrong on my profile please " I'm no expert I hasten to add but had a another profile here previously (leicdave) that was reasonably successful. Some honest feedback which you may not like. So of the 22 photos you have 20 of them are of your dick. Women generally aren't interested in your dick, yes that hurts to hear as a bloke but they really aren't, pictures of you dressed nice, showing your bum, in grey trackies are going to be far more successful, believe it or not unless you are genetically abnormal all dicks are the same pretty much, it's about what you do with it and your personality. If you don't remove all the dick pics remove the one with the remote. Your text is just a wall of words break it up which I've done below for you, also remove the moron indemnities and warnings about copyright. They mean nothing are stupid and when I see them I don't want to connect with that person, many others feel the same. Your profile text broken up below: Hey thanks for taking the time to read my profile. I’m from Birmingham and travel a lot with work, I value my time off and want to meet other liberally minded individuals. I have startef to attend clubs really enjoying the club scene, and would like to meet like minded people who enjoy having a few drinks and a good time. I’m not into all the messing about sadly there is time wasters here and across the swinging community I'm not one and I hope you aren't Ok so I do have a fantasy which is, my fantasy is to arrange a meet with a couple and walk in with the male partner of the couple and catch the females with a dildo in your pussy ready and waiting for me to put my face there. I have very good stamina when having sex. I'm an Open and friendly guy who wants to enjoy sex I haven't used this site for a while now and came back during covid so verifications are old but now I’m back in full swing and ready to meet and hopefully build some good friendships  more than just a quick shag preferably I love to meet people and get to know them abit more things they like sexually over a drink and flirt hope to hear from you sexy fabbers and give you some pleasure I’m not selfish plus I’m willing to be filmed and do most things sexually as long as it’s not Piss and poo
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"There are so many of these threads created asking for advice on how to improve their profile and they all give the same advice over and over, I don’t know why anyone takes them seriously anymore. Surely if someone creates a thread like this then they have seen other similar threads or else they wouldn’t have thought to do it, which means they’ve either seen the threads but not bothered to read them even though they’re struggling for meets and the advice given could help them as well or they’ve seen the threads, read them knowing that some of the criticisms of that particular profile applies to theirs as well but not changed their profile in line with the advice.....then they create the same thread for their own profile with the same bad aspects in them that they’ve previously seen being criticised. I sometimes wonder whether they aren’t actually looking for advice but have just created the thread as a way to get attention and to get people looking at their profile...." Ngl, I did something similar to what you’re suggesting. But for profiles people never visit, this is a great way of getting personalized feedback. | |||
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"Your profile seems fine to me, I love all the pictures of your hard dick. Keep trying and I’m sure you’ll get a meet soon. but women give out about to many cock pics " Yeah, I know, I was being sarcastic | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback " Welcome mate clearly a decent fella taking it on without being offended. | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback " I know it’s difficult to express your personality through your profile. Feel free to check mine out, it should just be a quick introduction yo who you are and what you’re looking for. | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback " Very handsome Good luck xxx | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback " Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! " Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’....." Why? If he can't what's the point in that. | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. " He has changed it to ‘can accommodate’ though, that’s why I said it. I wouldn’t seriously advise someone to change to can accommodate if they can’t. | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. " Because women generally and it is a generalization see can't accommodate and presume the guy is married. It wrong but it happens. | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. Because women generally and it is a generalization see can't accommodate and presume the guy is married. It wrong but it happens. " Yes but why change it if its not true? I think you will find most women would have honestly than someone who can accommodate. | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. He has changed it to ‘can accommodate’ though, that’s why I said it. I wouldn’t seriously advise someone to change to can accommodate if they can’t. "  | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. Because women generally and it is a generalization see can't accommodate and presume the guy is married. It wrong but it happens. Yes but why change it if its not true? I think you will find most women would have honestly than someone who can accommodate. " Are you accusing him of lying about being able to accommodate now? Maybe his circumstances have just changed to allow him to accommodate now. | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. Because women generally and it is a generalization see can't accommodate and presume the guy is married. It wrong but it happens. Yes but why change it if its not true? I think you will find most women would have honestly than someone who can accommodate. Are you accusing him of lying about being able to accommodate now? Maybe his circumstances have just changed to allow him to accommodate now. " She could be physic like mystic meg. | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. Because women generally and it is a generalization see can't accommodate and presume the guy is married. It wrong but it happens. Yes but why change it if its not true? I think you will find most women would have honestly than someone who can accommodate. Are you accusing him of lying about being able to accommodate now? Maybe his circumstances have just changed to allow him to accommodate now. " I'm not accusing anyone of anything! | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. Because women generally and it is a generalization see can't accommodate and presume the guy is married. It wrong but it happens. Yes but why change it if its not true? I think you will find most women would have honestly than someone who can accommodate. Are you accusing him of lying about being able to accommodate now? Maybe his circumstances have just changed to allow him to accommodate now. She could be physic like mystic meg. "She has a name and there is no need for this I simply put up a comment. I wasn't responding to you I was responding to the person who said that they should change it! | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. Because women generally and it is a generalization see can't accommodate and presume the guy is married. It wrong but it happens. Yes but why change it if its not true? I think you will find most women would have honestly than someone who can accommodate. Are you accusing him of lying about being able to accommodate now? Maybe his circumstances have just changed to allow him to accommodate now. I'm not accusing anyone of anything! "So do you think his circumstances really have changed so that he can now accommodate where as he couldn’t before, and they just happened to change when he was told that it’s not good to say he can’t accommodate without an explanation why... If you don’t think that’s true then he was either lying before or he’s lying now... | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. Because women generally and it is a generalization see can't accommodate and presume the guy is married. It wrong but it happens. Yes but why change it if its not true? I think you will find most women would have honestly than someone who can accommodate. Are you accusing him of lying about being able to accommodate now? Maybe his circumstances have just changed to allow him to accommodate now. I'm not accusing anyone of anything!
So do you think his circumstances really have changed so that he can now accommodate where as he couldn’t before, and they just happened to change when he was told that it’s not good to say he can’t accommodate without an explanation why...
If you don’t think that’s true then he was either lying before or he’s lying now..."You are just surmising it may be that he can just accommodate for tonight because his housemates are out anyway this is pointless and I was responding to the parson who said he should change it and I was simply pointing out that you shouldn't change it unless it's true I did not necessarily mean the OP | |||
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"Thank you for all your feedback Oh final thing buddy cannot accommodate for a bloke is often a red flag consider putting an explanation as to why, it shouldn't be needed and it's double standards I know but it explains the unexplained. I live with mum and dad right now that's my explanation! Or even change your profile to say ‘can accommodate’..... Why? If he can't what's the point in that. Because women generally and it is a generalization see can't accommodate and presume the guy is married. It wrong but it happens. Yes but why change it if its not true? I think you will find most women would have honestly than someone who can accommodate. Are you accusing him of lying about being able to accommodate now? Maybe his circumstances have just changed to allow him to accommodate now. She could be physic like mystic meg.
She has a name and there is no need for this I simply put up a comment. I wasn't responding to you I was responding to the person who said that they should change it!"But I wasnt responding to you. I was talking to someone else on a open forum. There are lots of physic people about. I wasn't ruling it out that could be how you knew about the accommodation | |||
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"Try not hiding your verifications, make them public so as interested parties can see what others have to say about you. If people can see that you have a bit of street cred, if you are what they are looking for, they'll find you." Sometimes they are not hidden. If someone leaves the site or blocks for whatever reason the verification goes to but remains on your summary. | |||
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"There isn't a magic line you put in your profile that gets you meets. If you aren't someone's type then you aren't their type, simple. Most men forget you aren't guaranteed sex on here "Agreed. | |||
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