FabSwingers.com forum: Old fuddy duddy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get so many guys who first line is ' when are you free to meet' or if you reply its the next line etc.

Basically they presume you want to meet them without a chat about compatibility or photo exchanges. I know its a sex site, but are most people on here expecting people are on here for sex with anyone regardless.

Sometimes a question of what you are you looking for is answered " just some fun. Which could mean anything.

Call me old fashioned but I least want to have some chemistry before I have sex with someone. Am I in the minority, are most people here just wanting sex regardless. Is it a generation thing and am a old dinosaur.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No your not

Most people expect us to be sitting glamed up waiting to be fucked like some kind off free escort

And dare tell them they not the only one that day and be ready for fire being thrown at you

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely not in the minority.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Fab was originally more more sex based. Many men still see the word swingers and think the site is full of people gagging for sex, visions of orgies and kinky sex for all. I just think many men initially join with certain expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not old fashioned at all.. i keep geting members listed as tv/ts, who will open up with some form of compliment about how i look, and after i politely thank them, they suddenly start saying stuff like "i want you on top of me" or "put your cock in my tight ass"..

Like woah now just cos i politely thanked you for the compliment doesnt mean you can go from 0-100 like that

It is quite the turn off when someone assumes that a response is a green light for chatting dirty like that. Either theyre lacking thought about what ppl need for interactions or theyre just so desperate after being ignored so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are in a minority I am there with you. So many are so sleazy and crude in the opening messages as to not even be worthy of reply. I make no denial of, nor apology for my bi inclinations but even in this scenario there has to be a cerebral connection.....

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I totally agree op

On our couple profile, my partner was chatting to a couple. I was in bed and they asked if he'd go wake me up as they were horny and wanted to meet. This was a sat night about midnight!! Get real.

I only do socials first, after a fair bit of chat, check there's a connection and attraction.

That works for me, if others message asking to meet now, I use it as a filter that we are not compatible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I totally agree op

On our couple profile, my partner was chatting to a couple. I was in bed and they asked if he'd go wake me up as they were horny and wanted to meet. This was a sat night about midnight!! Get real.

I only do socials first, after a fair bit of chat, check there's a connection and attraction.

That works for me, if others message asking to meet now, I use it as a filter that we are not compatible. "

Some seem to think you look like your pics 24/7 all dressed up for action. For us part time dressers it takes 2 hours to get ready.

But like Natalie said you will get a message what you wearing at 3am, thinking you look like your pics. When your probably unshaven for a week and look like caveman

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