FabSwingers.com forum: Biggest turn off?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Before meeting of course...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeatedly sending me face or dick pics. Or their own photo album with every message.

Just don't.

Don't even send me a face pic to start with because we probably won't be meeting anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a private message after I've made a comment or contribution to a forum thread. Does my head in. Grrrr.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Text speak and calling me bae.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Getting a private message after I've made a comment or contribution to a forum thread. Does my head in. Grrrr.

Oh god yes, I hate that. It's fine if the conversation has moved on and it would be awkward to reply then (or if the thread has closed), but otherwise just keep it to the forum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw you in Asda earlier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I saw you in Asda earlier.

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hahaha belter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Text speak and calling me bae."
who calls someone bae hahaha

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I saw you in Asda earlier.

I've had something similar...like, I know you!

Great next time you see me say hi....they have never seen me before in their life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I saw you in Asda earlier.

I've had something similar...like, I know you!

Great next time you see me say hi....they have never seen me before in their life

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I'd say that's so you message bk ha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text speak and calling me bae."

I agree text chat makes me cringe!

Also guys who tell you how rough they want to fuck you without a hello!

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Bad teeth or dirty nails

Constantly calling me babe /hun

Pushy people

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

That message, "what you in to" read the fookin' profile !!

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Yep! "What you looking for?".. having ignored absolutely everything on my profile.... it's far too long to read after all.. get told that a lot too... then they wonder about a lack of interest from me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Before meeting of course..."

Crap profile

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

"Yep! "What you looking for?".. having ignored absolutely everything on my profile.... it's far too long to read after all.. get told that a lot too... then they wonder about a lack of interest from me"

Yep, my profile is a load of bollocks simply for that reason ! Fucking donkey smuggler!

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Also Wuu2

You free now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also Wuu2

You free now "
that's a 4am in the morning text haha x

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Yep, my profile is a load of bollocks simply for that reason ! Fucking donkey smuggler!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

People's posts on the forum. Turns out it can put you right off people sometimes

LvM

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"People's posts on the forum. Turns out it can put you right off people sometimes

LvM"

Most definitely this

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I saw you in Asda earlier.

I've had something similar...like, I know you!

Great next time you see me say hi....they have never seen me before in their life

I'd say that's so you message bk ha xx"

Yes...I know.

It's good to see you on the forum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I saw you in Asda earlier.

I've had something similar...like, I know you!

Great next time you see me say hi....they have never seen me before in their life

I'd say that's so you message bk ha xx

Yes...I know.

It's good to see you on the forum

x"
ahh ty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neediness and messaging too much.

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By *adbod7519Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Ego, attitude, narcissism. Too many selfies with a ‘aren’t I gorgeous’ look on their faces puts me right off.

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By *oulivCouple
over a year ago

Newtown

When a couple who you have never spoken to or even seen before message you with a load of pictures and and say we are free tonight, like yeah ok we will drop everything just from that....

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

When they self proclaim they are a "professional" couple.

What a load of pretentious nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they self proclaim they are a "professional" couple.

What a load of pretentious nonsense."

I’m starting to think I am a genuine profesional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting a private message after I've made a comment or contribution to a forum thread. Does my head in. Grrrr.

Ok I will message

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Smoking for me

Will go along with that.

I was about to say hair smelling of fag smoke until I read the opening post carefully.

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

Because reading is hard when you are scrolling with just one hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People's posts on the forum. Turns out it can put you right off people sometimes

LvM"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting a private message after I've made a comment or contribution to a forum thread. Does my head in. Grrrr.

Prep for the onslaught of messages ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self absorbed. Shallow.

I remember someone describing themselves as being affluent.. that was off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inconsistent across their messages/posts/profile. Truth benders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also Wuu2

You free now "

Damn these are the basic go to, no? :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Before meeting of course...

Crap profile

What makes for a crap profile, asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw you in Asda earlier.

Waitrose darling

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty nails in pics

Dirty house in the background

Gaping bum hole pics

Going on about they’d like to buy you stuff or pay you

Talking to me like it’s not a couples account

Smart arses in the forum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Demanding immediate meets, without any discussion or flexibility whatsoever, nor consideration of my needs and situation.

I was in Australia 3 years ago and had a similar proposition. When informed I was there, the 'offer' was extended to the following day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teeth that have never seen a toothbrush or dentist and poor personal hygiene, with the exception of the dentist the other 2 are cheap and easily done.

I get that people may suffer medical conditions that affect both but for others it’s laziness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People's posts on the forum. Turns out it can put you right off people sometimes

LvM

Ditto

Starting to think there’s a little depth to this post , and others that agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw you in Asda earlier.

Waitrose darling

haha "

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By *ver the hill for fabMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Fish fanny klingons on the butt

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

If someone is a bit grubby

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"That message, "what you in to" read the fookin' profile !!"

Haha yes! And pictureless profiles...

... and what do I say about pictureless profiles on my fookin' profile text?!!!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

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I remember someone describing themselves as being affluent.. that was off putting.

Not much help if they can't spell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When her clit is bigger than your dick

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

A straight man randomly messaging and asking if I'll suck his cock.

Erm no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shitty ass as it stinks and there’s the end of the passion

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Me apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closet racist.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Text speak- as far as I'm aware, we're not paying per letter?

Bombarding with messages before you even have time to read and reply to the first one.

Living miles away but "happy to travel".

Discrepancies in profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dirty nails in pics

Dirty house in the background

Gaping bum hole pics

Going on about they’d like to buy you stuff or pay you

Talking to me like it’s not a couples account

Smart arses in the forum lol"

Hate those smart arses… especially the ones that are oblivious it’s then

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Smart arses in the forum lol

Hate those smart arses… especially the ones that are oblivious it’s then

You had me worried until I got to the 'oblivious' bit!

Maybe that's why I don't get many meets from Fab. However I tend to meet swingers in real life and then catch up on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I remember someone describing themselves as being affluent.. that was off putting.

Not much help if they can't spell!"

What does spelling have to do with it? Did I miss something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That message, "what you in to" read the fookin' profile !!

Haha yes! And pictureless profiles...

... and what do I say about pictureless profiles on my fookin' profile text?!!!"

I just sigh and regret opening the said message.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Closet racist."

Oh I thought after Trump's rants on Twitter, they are all out and proud?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mouth like a bucket of smashed crabs.

Or a fanny like a melted welly.

Or a face like a dropped pie.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

being asked to role play and pretend we are in certain scenarios...

No, I don't want to be called Mum or Auntie or Sister or Big cousin etc...

Cj doesn't want to be called Daddy or Uncle or Brother etc...

No we can't deal with dummies, nappies, talking like a baby, cuddly toys, safety blankies, school uniforms and so on, grow the fuck up if you want to get it on with us.

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello remember me we meet before in 20xx

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Ignorance....I despise ignorance, and jeez there are some extremely ignorant people on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eggy farts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum conformity for brownie points.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Not reading my profile for a start.

Being called slut or some other derogatory term by a complete stranger, especially as I don’t indicate that I enjoy that sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A straight man randomly messaging and asking if I'll suck his cock.

Erm no."

I get the opposite. The guys all seem to want to suck me. Bragging about how they could get it all in and deepthroat me.

I tell them it's 3 inches so it wouldn't reach the back of their throat. I really shouldn't double my size when messaging back though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty fingernails!!

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Forum conformity for brownie points. "

Try again .....brown nosed arse lickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude, disrespectful, no manners, sarcastic, list goes on..mm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long grey pubes……yuk!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A straight man randomly messaging and asking if I'll suck his cock.

Erm no.

I get the opposite. The guys all seem to want to suck me. Bragging about how they could get it all in and deepthroat me.

I tell them it's 3 inches so it wouldn't reach the back of their throat. I really shouldn't double my size when messaging back though

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Long grey pubes……yuk!!!"

Any pubes, be they blonde, brown, auburn, black, ginger, sliver, grey, white .....Where's the vomit/gagging emojee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling me babe, hun, love etc or wanting sex chat. Uuurgh, no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics that look like you don't partake in good personal hygiene, I can really turned off by nudes from women at times

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

No conversation other than “what are you up to tonight?”

I’m an actual person you know!

Oh, and liars.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

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I remember someone describing themselves as being affluent.. that was off putting.

Not much help if they can't spell!

What does spelling have to do with it? Did I miss something? "

It was a feeble attempt at a joke.

(Affluent v effluent)

Way beneath the standard expected on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This entire thread.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Unclean people or people who look like houses are unkempt as I feel that’s how they are about themselves also

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"This entire thread.

It would have helped if all contributors had bothered to read the opening post carefully. Most did but not all.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Unclean people or people who look like houses are unkempt as I feel that’s how they are about themselves also

Guests can't get access to the unkempt part of my house. Nor can I unless I move things aside or stack them up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This entire thread.

It would have helped if all contributors had bothered to read the opening post carefully. Most did but not all."

Well i think its somewhat open to interpretation, as in, at what point before meeting?

Either way, for anyone else reading this thread it probably feels like stepping out into a minefield of anxiety. The sheer level of negativity. At least thats how im seeing it. Theres already enough "this turns me off" on ppls profiles.

And no offence to some of you but some of these just seem petty.

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