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What improved your quality of life so much, you wished you did it sooner?

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By *drian Hardthrob OP   Man
over a year ago

Worcester

I stopped working more than 40 hours a week and quit smoking

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By *W_RedMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Talking about mental health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes. Quit smoking. A very Long time ago now, but wow, what was I thinking taking that habit up?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Similar to you we both stopped working at age 57. I still did a few contracts here and there Mr N stopped altogether. We sold up, downsized and moved to the seaside. Far and away the best decision we ever made on a life quality level.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Getting away from my husband.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh yes. Quit smoking. A very Long time ago now, but wow, what was I thinking taking that habit up? "

We smoked up until we were 30. We were talking about it this morning actually wondering how on earth anyone can afford it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ending my marriage and also running.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changing my eating and exercise lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopped masturbating everyday and several times a day

Its just nicer to let it build up

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

WFH

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Divorcing my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told my ex to leave. X

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Going self employed, and eventually achieving a status where I became the organ grinder rather than the monkey, or putting it more bluntly, became the fucker rather than the fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes. Quit smoking. A very Long time ago now, but wow, what was I thinking taking that habit up?

We smoked up until we were 30. We were talking about it this morning actually wondering how on earth anyone can afford it."

Aren’t they over a tenner now? I stopped when it was £2.50 ish for 20 embassy no1. (There’s a throw back to my college days) how on earth people don’t clock on to the be Idota of quoting I don’t know.

I have never looked back, just like most Quiters

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh yes. Quit smoking. A very Long time ago now, but wow, what was I thinking taking that habit up?

We smoked up until we were 30. We were talking about it this morning actually wondering how on earth anyone can afford it.

Aren’t they over a tenner now? I stopped when it was £2.50 ish for 20 embassy no1. (There’s a throw back to my college days) how on earth people don’t clock on to the be Idota of quoting I don’t know.

I have never looked back, just like most Quiters "

I can't remember how much we used to pay but we decided to stop when we went swimming at 30 years old and were overtaken by the oaps swimming club while we clung breathless to the side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I decided to finally embraced my inner self and really love myself x

A decision that saved my life for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i had known about hypertension and the damage it can do i would have had my bp checked before it almost killed me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Looking for jobs globally rather than locally , ironically they tend to be mostly work from hone

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Buying my bass guitar and synthesizers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes. Quit smoking. A very Long time ago now, but wow, what was I thinking taking that habit up?

We smoked up until we were 30. We were talking about it this morning actually wondering how on earth anyone can afford it.

Aren’t they over a tenner now? I stopped when it was £2.50 ish for 20 embassy no1. (There’s a throw back to my college days) how on earth people don’t clock on to the be Idota of quoting I don’t know.

I have never looked back, just like most Quiters "

I cant understand how anyone could afford to buy packs of cigarettes either, im currently 8 weeks into my stop smoking program after being a smoker for over 10 years but i smoked roll ups cos it was insanely cheaper compared to cigarettes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I decided to finally embraced my inner self and really love myself x

A decision that saved my life for sure "

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes. Quit smoking. A very Long time ago now, but wow, what was I thinking taking that habit up?

We smoked up until we were 30. We were talking about it this morning actually wondering how on earth anyone can afford it.

Aren’t they over a tenner now? I stopped when it was £2.50 ish for 20 embassy no1. (There’s a throw back to my college days) how on earth people don’t clock on to the be Idota of quoting I don’t know.

I have never looked back, just like most Quiters

I cant understand how anyone could afford to buy packs of cigarettes either, im currently 8 weeks into my stop smoking program after being a smoker for over 10 years but i smoked roll ups cos it was insanely cheaper compared to cigarettes"
mita funny how we almost all mention the benefits of saving money than expressing how much our health would improve first.

We know it healthier to quit, but the cost is the first thing I think about. Weird really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found a woman that gets me. M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking vitamin D. I take a combination pill of C, D and Zinc. Far less tired than I used to be.

On a grander scale; doing things for money that I actually like doing. Made that decision about 15 or so years ago. Work doesn't have to be miserable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 things...

1 discovery of Nandos..

2 learning to stop giving a fck about what other people think. Started to live without fear.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh yes. Quit smoking. A very Long time ago now, but wow, what was I thinking taking that habit up?

We smoked up until we were 30. We were talking about it this morning actually wondering how on earth anyone can afford it.

Aren’t they over a tenner now? I stopped when it was £2.50 ish for 20 embassy no1. (There’s a throw back to my college days) how on earth people don’t clock on to the be Idota of quoting I don’t know.

I have never looked back, just like most Quiters

I cant understand how anyone could afford to buy packs of cigarettes either, im currently 8 weeks into my stop smoking program after being a smoker for over 10 years but i smoked roll ups cos it was insanely cheaper compared to cigarettesmita funny how we almost all mention the benefits of saving money than expressing how much our health would improve first.

We know it healthier to quit, but the cost is the first thing I think about. Weird really "

The same applies to sugar. They've had to tax it to try and get us to cut down on it even though we KNOW it's not good for our health.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Stopped feeling guilty for caring for myself as much as I did others.

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Transitioning!

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By *541Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Same as above quit smoking only been 3 weeks but already feeling way better and talking about mental health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes. Quit smoking. A very Long time ago now, but wow, what was I thinking taking that habit up?

We smoked up until we were 30. We were talking about it this morning actually wondering how on earth anyone can afford it.

Aren’t they over a tenner now? I stopped when it was £2.50 ish for 20 embassy no1. (There’s a throw back to my college days) how on earth people don’t clock on to the be Idota of quoting I don’t know.

I have never looked back, just like most Quiters

I cant understand how anyone could afford to buy packs of cigarettes either, im currently 8 weeks into my stop smoking program after being a smoker for over 10 years but i smoked roll ups cos it was insanely cheaper compared to cigarettesmita funny how we almost all mention the benefits of saving money than expressing how much our health would improve first.

We know it healthier to quit, but the cost is the first thing I think about. Weird really "

Lol yeah youre right, and weird thing is i actually liked smoking, i didnt care that it was bad for my health i just enjoyed doing it. Cant say i liked how it made me stink of ashtray though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming out as gay

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Taking the step to quit my job two years ago with nothing to go to, best thing I ever did and now a chilled soul even though still not working

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

I stopped eating inflammatory foods.

I now have cured my arthritic joints and I am back in the gym.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Leaving my ex. I wish I’d done it years earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Leaving my ex. I wish I’d done it years earlier. "

I came to post this! I have much less money and time, but wish I'd walked out five years before nonetheless.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Cutting contact with some horrifically toxic people.

I don't care if they're my family, friends, family friends, I don't want them in my life and there's no reason I need to continue to tolerate them.

Life has improved an enormous amount.

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By *0astMan
over a year ago

Discovering

Learning to seek help when you need it, often we struggle on determined and unwilling to accept and having the courage to say no to ppl.

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By *atie-friendlyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Finally taking the step to come out and transition, being able to be just me. Should have done it years before, but life has been the best since I started living as the woman I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ending my marriage and also running.

NBVN x"

Did you discover them both at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple but obvious, divorce!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ending my marriage and escaping, and starting to heal myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learning to speak more about feelings and the fact it’s OK to not be OK

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