FabSwingers.com forum: Stalkers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who on here has had problems with guys or couples they've met and blocked making new accounts to watch them and how did they deal with it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep blocking them, it’s all you can do really. And don’t rise to them. Eventually, they may get bored and it make new accounts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just keep blocking them, it’s all you can do really. And don’t rise to them. Eventually, they may get bored and it make new accounts. "

Thats what I keep doing but it can get annoying being suspicious of profiles constantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just keep blocking them, it’s all you can do really. And don’t rise to them. Eventually, they may get bored and it make new accounts.

Thats what I keep doing but it can get annoying being suspicious of profiles constantly. "

I would of agreed with your man there, expect you've made a point. It's a matter of not knowing who you're really chatting with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one person on here that seemed absolutely obsessed and annoyed when I didn't reply (I'd never met him). I blocked him but he made another profile, again including the same Kik username and not looking in stealth mode.. I just keep blocking and reporting.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Block newbies op, I do that as I had a very annoying pest many years ago. It means they have to wait a few days to message, you could also block those who aren't site supporters, they might think twice if they have to pay a fiver everytime to try and get in touch.

I would also report them to admin.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I have one who keeps making new Kik accounts to msg me. I just block. I've taken alot of public photos off and only have actual friends on my friend list.

I did tell him to stop and that it was harassment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You would think a block would tell them it's unwanted attention..Some of them don't get the message...

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

That’s right, it’s only men and couples who can be stalkers on here

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Report them to fab and insist they do something , they have a responsibly. Block newbies and unverified if you are worried

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

This happened to a friend of mine who got so freaked out by the same guy coming back she left.

She said she couldn't trust a new conversation from then on as it may be him. So annoying and maddening and rather PATHETIC on those that do it. Ego is so fragile to some...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That’s right, it’s only men and couples who can be stalkers on here

She didn't say that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That’s right, it’s only men and couples who can be stalkers on here

She didn't say that. "

I certainly didn't say that..

Im speaking for myself not others..

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I have one who keeps making new Kik accounts to msg me. I just block. I've taken alot of public photos off and only have actual friends on my friend list.

I did tell him to stop and that it was harassment."

That's one of the reasons I deleted kik.

On here I've had one guy who I said I wasn't interested in, who kept setting up new profiles to tell me how fat I was (because that's news?).

I blocked newbies and unverified, but once it died down I unblocked unverified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've changed my profile name a few times... It's made no difference, he always finds me

I've got newbies blocked from messaging. I block everytime he messages, but every few months he makes a new profile - he always joins as a gold member

I've now got most of my photos as friends only and no public vids

I flip between showing /hiding my veris in case they get any fall out

I don't know what the answer is, other than deleting your profile and leaving. This is my second or third profile

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"That’s right, it’s only men and couples who can be stalkers on here

She didn't say that.

I certainly didn't say that..

Im speaking for myself not others..

So you agree it’s women as well? Just to be clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes years ago

But I had never meet the person I don’t think

evertime I made a profile I would get a message from the same blank profile saying

I know who you are wait till the guys at work see this

Went on for about a year

End up needing to crate a profile name it something else and put it’s based down south then block the profile and then pay to change my name to this and then change to the right place

This all took place back in 2015

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Can't say for other platforms, but here, could you change your name and profile picture? Drastic I know op, but it might be the best option you have, any veris will change automatically. Would change all public pictures and profile details.

Become a newbie and politely decline them and block before they get familiar with you again.

Sorry for your situation.

The Shadys xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Change filters so that nobody can contact you unless a friend. Then seek out the people who you want to chat with for as long as you want to.

Obviously report to Admin any profile that tries to get around your rules and blocks.

I'd change my name and location as well as turn off location sharing from your device, to prevent him trying to physically locate you in your area.

I'd also revert to largely meeting in clubs, as they have ID information for members as well as ensue that users behave appropriately.

These steps put control largely back in your hands. If you have a friend, you could also have a couples profile here, where you'd be less alone and perhaps looked for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m having problems with stalkers they keep finding the threads I post on

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