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"Just been thinking about my lack of success after years of being on here and wonder if there's any guys on fab who are in the same position who are feeling depressed by it? I'm not,but I reckon it could affect some people after trying for years and getting nowhere,messages constantly ignored,deleted,woman cutting contact after seemingly being on for meeting,etc." You need to put more effort into your profile! You have to stand out. Good luck x | |||
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"People respond best to well written profiles with photos. " This and also...what have you done to rectify this? If you don't change your approach or try something new.. the change won't magically happen. Try group socials or clubs. Easier for some to make friends in person first then transfer it to here. | |||
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"People respond best to well written profiles with photos. Agreed ![]() I have to disagree with this one! Whilst my profile may not be the best I think it highlights me and what I want and can offer, I’m photo verified and have face pics but yet….never get a response….but it doesn’t deter and I keep smiling! I think all should and not loiter on the feelings of rejection! Whilst there’s a lot of men on here there are a lot of women and there will be one (if not more) wanting what a guy has on offer!! | |||
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"Just been thinking about my lack of success after years of being on here and wonder if there's any guys on fab who are in the same position who are feeling depressed by it? I'm not,but I reckon it could affect some people after trying for years and getting nowhere,messages constantly ignored,deleted,woman cutting contact after seemingly being on for meeting,etc." We all get rejected or ignored on this site, regardless of what we do or how much effort we put in...it's just the reality of things, and you need some thick skin to be able to not let that affect you. | |||
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"People respond best to well written profiles with photos. " Yeah, I guess mine just sucks then. ![]() | |||
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"Depressed by strangers not replying to a message.. loosen up a little. Easy come easy go my friend!! This ain't a dating site.. People are naturally more picky.. ![]() Depression is a complex and complicated state of mind and it is directly linked to one's self esteem. Constant rejection can cause low self esteem and can cause depression The worst thing you can say to a person that might be depressed is to "loosen up" | |||
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"People respond best to well written profiles with photos. Yeah, I guess mine just sucks then. ![]() It is bulked out by being part of a couple and what you won't do. Your photos are back to 2016 and some are blurry. | |||
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"People respond best to well written profiles with photos. Yeah, I guess mine just sucks then. ![]() I appreciate the feedback and will work on that. Thank you for your honesty x | |||
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"Depressed by strangers not replying to a message.. loosen up a little. Easy come easy go my friend!! This ain't a dating site.. People are naturally more picky.. ![]() I've been near depression first hand.. This is the last place on earth you'd want to be. You need familiar faces, and good people with you.. Not text messages from a website. And being depressed is commonly experienced in life. Having depression however, is far far different. | |||
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"People respond best to well written profiles with photos. This and also...what have you done to rectify this? If you don't change your approach or try something new.. the change won't magically happen. Try group socials or clubs. Easier for some to make friends in person first then transfer it to here. " Very true if you don’t make the effort you can’t expect things to come ![]() | |||
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"You need to re adjust your expectations. I've never felt entitled to a response just because I want a response or feel I'm owed one. " Or don't have any expectations. Hopes are fine. | |||
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" Depression is a complex and complicated state of mind and it is directly linked to one's self esteem. Constant rejection can cause low self esteem and can cause depression " Same thing happens in nature. In Yellowstone park there is a smaller geyser that can never match up to 'Old Faithful'. He gets very depressed about it. Cause: Low sulphur steam. | |||
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"No. I come here to meet new people and possibly make new friends. If anything else happens along the way it’s a bonus. We all must remember people have preferences and we are not all looking for the same thing, so I just go with the flow and have no expectations " Similar outlook here with myself. ![]() | |||
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" Depression is a complex and complicated state of mind and it is directly linked to one's self esteem. Constant rejection can cause low self esteem and can cause depression Same thing happens in nature. In Yellowstone park there is a smaller geyser that can never match up to 'Old Faithful'. He gets very depressed about it. Cause: Low sulphur steam." ![]() | |||
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"Just been thinking about my lack of success after years of being on here and wonder if there's any guys on fab who are in the same position who are feeling depressed by it? I'm not,but I reckon it could affect some people after trying for years and getting nowhere,messages constantly ignored,deleted,woman cutting contact after seemingly being on for meeting,etc." You have to try doubly hard even socials and clubs as well. As a single guy on here and in the scene you have to remember your treated like shit by most people. You only have to do a forum search for that!. | |||
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