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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Ignore him xx

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Report and block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Report and block"

I have done

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…"
Just a nasty Troll! Well he has a shitty personality and he can't change that, You can't polish a turd so ignore him. x

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

He’s projecting his own shit

Late hubby was once told no thanks you’re too skinny .

I prefer it if the twonks let me know to block them before I’ve invested any time in them lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened… Just a nasty Troll! Well he has a shitty personality and he can't change that, You can't polish a turd so ignore him. x "

Thanks lovely, that’s very true x

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

M1 J22

Ugh. Some people are just horrible idiots aren’t they. From what I can see you look gorgeous x (that’s not a come on, just appreciating your lovely photo)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs op and for what I can see you have a beautiful booty

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Because some people are so miserable they want everyone to be miserable.

I had a random person message me to tell me what a slut I was the other week. I just thanked them .. apparently it wasn't meant to be a compliment

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened… Just a nasty Troll! Well he has a shitty personality and he can't change that, You can't polish a turd so ignore him. x

Thanks lovely, that’s very true x"
You are welcome lovely! I'd like to say what is his username but not a good idea on the thread. Omg i want to drag the bully it's not right x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He’s projecting his own shit

Late hubby was once told no thanks you’re too skinny .

I prefer it if the twonks let me know to block them before I’ve invested any time in them lol "

That’s what I thought…must be genuinely unhappy to be so awful..anyway I thanked him for his comments, gave him 10 out of 10 for his observation and asked if he was ok. He’s blocked now lol

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Because some people are so miserable they want everyone to be miserable.

I had a random person message me to tell me what a slut I was the other week. I just thanked them .. apparently it wasn't meant to be a compliment "
Hilarious! Be as slutty as you like. hahaha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ugh. Some people are just horrible idiots aren’t they. From what I can see you look gorgeous x (that’s not a come on, just appreciating your lovely photo) "

Haha thanks lovely…I wasn’t fishing (I’ve hidden most of my pics because of him)….more surprised than anything as we’d not even spoken before. Could have maybe understood if I’d ignored him or rejected a message but anyway…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hugs op and for what I can see you have a beautiful booty "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because some people are so miserable they want everyone to be miserable.

I had a random person message me to tell me what a slut I was the other week. I just thanked them .. apparently it wasn't meant to be a compliment "

Haha I would definitely take that as a compliment too

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

M1 J22


"Ugh. Some people are just horrible idiots aren’t they. From what I can see you look gorgeous x (that’s not a come on, just appreciating your lovely photo)

Haha thanks lovely…I wasn’t fishing (I’ve hidden most of my pics because of him)….more surprised than anything as we’d not even spoken before. Could have maybe understood if I’d ignored him or rejected a message but anyway…"

More likely he’s 16, been out for a drink in the park and a bit of coz with his mates after going sledging in the non existent snow and saw your photo and came in his pants cos he’s a virgin who has never seen a gorgeous woman’s bum before and the only thing he could say to cover his embarrassment in front of his mates was “you’re fat”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sad and bitter bully projecting own misery onto other. Unfortunately there plenty of that type out there. Sorry you were at the receiving end OP. Ignore and block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hun, the answer to your question of what sort of person messages that - a sad unhappy insecure one wanting to make others feel unhappy too.

His result- success, he's made you feel shit and you've taken your pics down.

Conclusion - reassess man is an arsehole, not gonna take ant notice, repost pics and stand proud, feel sorry for arsehole for being such a saddo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…"

Just a troll with nothing else to do but get off on trying to wind somebosy up. Genuinely don't even think about it. It's a very easy site to set set up a quick profile and do stuff like that x

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…"

I think I may have replied with, "And you're a cunt. I can lose weight, but you'll always be a cunt".

Block, report, delete. Give it no more thought. Carry on being a beautiful human.

Winston

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…"

You look fantastic Suzy, ignore the prick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s probably one of the Sat night / Sun morning druggies ...... so off their faces

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm sorry you went through that. Just ignore the dickhead. You look amazing

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…"

Because they are nasty twats and have a horrible personality and make themselves feel better but being nasty to other, just like the reason bullies are the way they are….. it helps support their low self esteem.

My mum always used to say….. if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all.

Ignore the naysayers and the trolls

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely ignore as mentioned they not worth it and horrible ones like this to be avoided, we all beautiful in our own rights sending hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore it, they do it for a reaction.

I got asked to take my profile pic down last night because it made him 'feel sick' well the block button easily takes care of that one now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some humans are just c*nts. Sad but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore it, they do it for a reaction.

I got asked to take my profile pic down last night because it made him 'feel sick' well the block button easily takes care of that one now "

I hope you javent changed your picture because of some knob. I think your profile pic is great!

As for the OP, most of the messages I get aren't very nice, sadly that comes hand in hand with what is essentially anonymous posting. Fire and forget horrible messages that can leave lasting pain for the recipient.

Steve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore it, they do it for a reaction.

I got asked to take my profile pic down last night because it made him 'feel sick' well the block button easily takes care of that one now

I hope you javent changed your picture because of some knob. I think your profile pic is great!

As for the OP, most of the messages I get aren't very nice, sadly that comes hand in hand with what is essentially anonymous posting. Fire and forget horrible messages that can leave lasting pain for the recipient.

Steve x"

Nope did I heck! Same picture. Never in the history of ever has any man told me what to do

Thank you

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I questioned someone on this once. He said it was to get a response as his messages usually get ignored. People are weird. I guess for some bad attention is better than none.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Are you happy with your body because I would be if I had an arse like yours. And I bet your getting more action than him so bugger him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To both Suzy and MissDreavus I can only apologise on behalf of the 99.9% of decent humans on here for what those pricks have done. A throw away comment can have lasting effects and one that's written and sent deliberately to someone they don't know is just abhorrent. That is not the actions of a normal human and there is no place for it on here or anywhere else. We can tell you to ignore them, but you will always remember and think before posting pics or other things that mean you have lost out on your enjoyment due to something those cnuts have probably long forgot. It's not fair in the slightest. You ladies are worth a million positive comments to his one derogatory snipe. Fk him! Or better still, let's hope nobody does ever again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…"

I had the same message last week OP. Wish I’d reported it now. Like you I’m strong enough to take it but there are some people who aren’t.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It's the trash taking itself out OP, block and realise that it has nothing to do with you, it's entirely on him.

Before I'd blocked messages from guys outside my preferred age range I got a message from a guy more than ten years older than I'm looking for, that just read "sorry, you're too BBW for me". Like you, I'd never interacted with him in any way or gave a flying fuck for his opinion, but it was great that he shared it so I knew to block him, problem solved.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…"
. As others have already mentioned block and report.Just stay strong mentally as lots of people don’t or can’t.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was probably after a reactions to be honest. I’ve had similar messages, usually after a string of messages asking to meet have gone unanswered, but have occasionally received them from people I’ve never spoke to also. Just block and forget it, not worth a second thought x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

For some it can be a power trip, as they believe by insulting others it puts them in a dominant position with the other person having to scramble to provide an answer.

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Some people are just nasty and enjoy trying to be unpleasant. The sad thing for them is that their lives will be a mess.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Just tell hi "That's cos every time I fuck your dad he gives me a biscuit"

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By *ayneKingMan
over a year ago

South East

Don't let the small minded bastard get you down. Everyone is beautiful especially YOU!

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I used to get upset by messages telling me I was fat until I owned that word and accepted that yes, I have fat. I stuck it in my profile too and after that I didn't get another 'You're fat' message, like they think we don't know so unless blocked I always used to thank them for letting me know. Most send their message then block so you can't thank them though.

Now I get messages telling me that I'm not fat. I'm not sure which are worse. The body shamers or the ones who call me a liar for calling myself fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just tell hi "That's cos every time I fuck your dad he gives me a biscuit""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just name him on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take it as a compliment. He felt so strongly about you that he had to message. He was desperate for a reply.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Probably a child, absolutely nothing to stop teenage boys creating accounts here

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

U get people like that now and again not often I must say! Really dont get what they get from it? Maybe down the line they got rejected by the recipient? Who knows? I had one couple days ago telling me some one should put me in a care home ! Made me laugh if nothing else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just tell hi "That's cos every time I fuck your dad he gives me a biscuit""

Be more insulting if you say Mum and not Dad!!

Also….one word….ASSHOLE - that’s what he is!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ugh. Some people are just horrible idiots aren’t they. From what I can see you look gorgeous x (that’s not a come on, just appreciating your lovely photo)

Haha thanks lovely…I wasn’t fishing (I’ve hidden most of my pics because of him)….more surprised than anything as we’d not even spoken before. Could have maybe understood if I’d ignored him or rejected a message but anyway…

More likely he’s 16, been out for a drink in the park and a bit of coz with his mates after going sledging in the non existent snow and saw your photo and came in his pants cos he’s a virgin who has never seen a gorgeous woman’s bum before and the only thing he could say to cover his embarrassment in front of his mates was “you’re fat” "

Haha well it was very immature so maybe you’re right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the trash taking itself out OP, block and realise that it has nothing to do with you, it's entirely on him.

Before I'd blocked messages from guys outside my preferred age range I got a message from a guy more than ten years older than I'm looking for, that just read "sorry, you're too BBW for me". Like you, I'd never interacted with him in any way or gave a flying fuck for his opinion, but it was great that he shared it so I knew to block him, problem solved."

Shameful aren’t they?! I get that we’re not for everyone but that’s the case for anyone…no need to take the time to tell us…anyway he’s blocked now x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just tell hi "That's cos every time I fuck your dad he gives me a biscuit"

Be more insulting if you say Mum and not Dad!!

Also….one word….ASSHOLE - that’s what he is!!"

Haha I so should have though of this reply!! Dam! That would have been hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U get people like that now and again not often I must say! Really dont get what they get from it? Maybe down the line they got rejected by the recipient? Who knows? I had one couple days ago telling me some one should put me in a care home ! Made me laugh if nothing else x"

I can genuinely say in all my years on and off fab…I’ve never had such an awful message. Not from someone I’ve never interacted with anyway or even someone that I have for that matter.

Thankfully the most on here are lovely

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my

years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…"

People are weird... had verbal abuse myself this weekend which has left me wound up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just take it as a compliment. He felt so strongly about you that he had to message. He was desperate for a reply.

"

Haha yes to this one!! Good way of looking at it. Thanks lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I think it’s a societal thing now and continues to get worse with the likes of this FB/Twitter etc. People like this chap can just randomly say awful things from their phone with no accountability. Sad really. Hope you have great Sunday.

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Block and report ,nice ass by the way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to get upset by messages telling me I was fat until I owned that word and accepted that yes, I have fat. I stuck it in my profile too and after that I didn't get another 'You're fat' message, like they think we don't know so unless blocked I always used to thank them for letting me know. Most send their message then block so you can't thank them though.

Now I get messages telling me that I'm not fat. I'm not sure which are worse. The body shamers or the ones who call me a liar for calling myself fat. "

Thanks for this….yes I do ‘have fat’ I like that way of looking at it. Don’t get me wrong I’m not offended by being called big, I state it on my profile and show pics so people who want to chat know exactly what to expect but was taken aback by the message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To both Suzy and MissDreavus I can only apologise on behalf of the 99.9% of decent humans on here for what those pricks have done. A throw away comment can have lasting effects and one that's written and sent deliberately to someone they don't know is just abhorrent. That is not the actions of a normal human and there is no place for it on here or anywhere else. We can tell you to ignore them, but you will always remember and think before posting pics or other things that mean you have lost out on your enjoyment due to something those cnuts have probably long forgot. It's not fair in the slightest. You ladies are worth a million positive comments to his one derogatory snipe. Fk him! Or better still, let's hope nobody does ever again! "

Thank you so much for your lovely post!

I must admit it did make me hide my pics but after speaking to all the lovely people here, I’m not going to let him bother me.

He didn’t have any verifications and went on to tell me he does horrendous on here after I said he must so popular being so charming and good looking haha xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my

years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…

People are weird... had verbal abuse myself this weekend which has left me wound up "

Sorry to hear that….try not to let it bother you. Yes, people can definitely be weird x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno if folk are frustrated or what but had more of those kind of messages where people just seem to be spoiling for a fight or just feel the need to be an utter fud via pm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…

I think I may have replied with, "And you're a cunt. I can lose weight, but you'll always be a cunt".

Block, report, delete. Give it no more thought. Carry on being a beautiful human.

Winston"

Yes to this!! Haha thanks lovely xx

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By *541Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Don't hide from these people there only power is your fear's and once you take that away from them you realise how meaningless they are to you

flaunt your shit and be proud of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your messages you lovely people! Sorry if I haven’t replied to everyone, I’ve tried but wasn’t expecting so much interaction tbh…think I’ll come and chat on here more often

Thanks again, you’re all amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got a message out of the blue saying hello we like you're profile etc. Went to message back and I'm blocked. Folk are odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore just a a…hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…"

Since covid its like a wave of incels have infected the site, obviously they don't have the personality and social graces to meet women in the real world (which means absolutely no chance on here). On here they can send abuse safe in the knowledge they can hide behind a computer screen.

Personally I would like to see far more accountability for those who send abuse to others online. The technology is there / can be put into place so when someone sends abuse for example like on fab PMs admin report it to an online hate division of the police, they then trace the abuser and dispatch police officers to the address to arrest and charge the individual (in front of anyone he / she lives with) and then leave them waiting to go to court and to then be publically named and shamed in the local press as an online abuser.

But... That would be in a perfect world sadly. The goverment doesn't have the will or the funds to make it happen. I'll say this though if it did 99% of the shithouses doing it would stop through fear of been caught and exposed.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hugs op and for what I can see you have a beautiful booty

Thank you "

Your welcome x

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

Not acceptable. He’s a jerk, and you are lovely

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Some just find it easy to be trolls behind a pc screen, block them and don't take any notice. It's the ones who insult you and block you first that annoy me, so you can't have your say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Op,

Try and rise above it and don't let these twats spoil your day.

They seriously aren't worth the effort.

As tempting as it is, don't respond... Just report and block.

Love who you are.

Lucy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey Op,

Try and rise above it and don't let these twats spoil your day.

They seriously aren't worth the effort.

As tempting as it is, don't respond... Just report and block.

Love who you are.

Lucy xx

"

Thanks lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some just find it easy to be trolls behind a pc screen, block them and don't take any notice. It's the ones who insult you and block you first that annoy me, so you can't have your say. "

Yes, this is annoying! Trolls are the worst!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not acceptable. He’s a jerk, and you are lovely "

Thank you you look amazing x

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Ugh... Just no need.

After an unsuccessful date many years ago, the guy told me I was chubby. I was a size 10 at the time. Much chubbier now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby says there's more to cuddle, assholes like that will be sad and miserable forever, ignorant gimp xx

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

Thank you, you are a lovely kind person to boost the egos of a pair of oldies xxxx

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I do wonder what must go through their minds. Only once did I get a message that was a torrent of abuse and insults from someone I had never spoken to. It was so random it made me laugh. But why? To what end? I guess some people are just total cunts. I imagined him to be very pleased with himself that he’d just upset me. He hadn’t in the slightest. I didn’t even block him. Sort of hoped he’d do it again so I could laugh at him. Randomly I do think I met him a while later in a club but was never quite sure else I would have exacted some cold and perfectly formed revenge

Vx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously some sad old twit who is pissed off at the fact he could never get to meet anyone like you.

Maybe he suffers small man syndrome too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Projection of frustration

Some men can't handle women calling the shots (sexually or otherwise)

Fab isn't a great place for those guys, especially when their 'charms' don't see them head first in barrel full of tits with the speed with which they thought they would

Bitterness soon shows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…

Since covid its like a wave of incels have infected the site, obviously they don't have the personality and social graces to meet women in the real world (which means absolutely no chance on here). On here they can send abuse safe in the knowledge they can hide behind a computer screen.

Personally I would like to see far more accountability for those who send abuse to others online. The technology is there / can be put into place so when someone sends abuse for example like on fab PMs admin report it to an online hate division of the police, they then trace the abuser and dispatch police officers to the address to arrest and charge the individual (in front of anyone he / she lives with) and then leave them waiting to go to court and to then be publically named and shamed in the local press as an online abuser.

But... That would be in a perfect world sadly. The goverment doesn't have the will or the funds to make it happen. I'll say this though if it did 99% of the shithouses doing it would stop through fear of been caught and exposed.

KJ"

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"So, just received a message from a delightful chap on here saying ‘you’re fat ffs’! Never spoken to this chap before and whilst it’s water off a ducks back (well, it stings a bit) it’s made me think about what kind of person would do that and why they’d go out of their way to send someone that?!

Anyway, happy to say that in all my years on and off fab that’s the first time it’s happened…"

You've never seen a Rolls Royce with skimpy upholstery.

Lady Astor

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's sad that people are able to act in this manner,but always remember it's not you that has the problem but them best way not to reply and just report and block as this helps the site and hopefully another facing similar x

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