FabSwingers.com forum: Disappearing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am totally gutted! Been chatting to a couple for a good few days, getting to know each other, swapping pics, even a face pic even though I’m married, arrange a hotel meet for next Wednesday and then they disappear! How rude and so bloody annoying. Why do people do that? Why not just say, sorry change of mine, nice chatting but not for us thanks!

Too much to ask these days I guess. Thoughts people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they changed their minds?? Something terrible could have happened!

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Welcome to the joy of..

Men pretending they're a couple

Or straightforward twats...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know they changed their minds?? Something terrible could have happened! "

It amuses me that this is often a go to thought on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you know they changed their minds?? Something terrible could have happened!

It amuses me that this is often a go to thought on here

Tbf, I would assume it was just a bloke that had got his wank fodder but ya know... Or, if it actually was a couple, they had just changed their minds and chickened out of just saying so... But ya know Ya just dunno, right?

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

I blame the bermuda triangle again lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"How do you know they changed their minds?? Something terrible could have happened!

It amuses me that this is often a go to thought on here

I know that manners cost nothing and if they changed their minds a quick message to say so would have been adequate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to the joy of..

Men pretending they're a couple

Or straightforward twats..."

You know, that never occurred to me. Could even be just the male half of a couple indulging in fantasy without the female half having a bloody clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to the joy of..

Men pretending they're a couple

Or straightforward twats...

You know, that never occurred to me. Could even be just the male half of a couple indulging in fantasy without the female half having a bloody clue."

Yeah I think that happens often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was probably a guy not a couple !

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By *pottydog46Man
over a year ago

rainham

It’s soooo bloody rude and annoying isn’t it, being ghosted, especially after all that effort.

Yes a message to say change of mind would be annoying too, but at least you can put it behind you and then move on rather than a few days of hoping and checking for messages etc.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"I am totally gutted! Been chatting to a couple for a good few days, getting to know each other, swapping pics, even a face pic even though I’m married, arrange a hotel meet for next Wednesday and then they disappear! How rude and so bloody annoying. Why do people do that? Why not just say, sorry change of mine, nice chatting but not for us thanks!

Too much to ask these days I guess. Thoughts people?"

He'd finished his wank and you were no longer needed.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much to ask these days I guess. Thoughts people?"

It's irritating, but just be thankful that you didn't actually book the room, and you weren't sitting in it waiting.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I had exactly this in my early Fab life.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Was deffo just a horny bloke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot on here are just out for the thrill of the chase, bored sofa wankers with no intention of actually meeting. When they get firm arrangements made its bail out time, unfortunately wasting the time of those of decent character.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot on here are just out for the thrill of the chase, bored sofa wankers with no intention of actually meeting. When they get firm arrangements made its bail out time, unfortunately wasting the time of those of decent character. "

Yeah very true. Well lesson learned I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Too much to ask these days I guess. Thoughts people?very true

It's irritating, but just be thankful that you didn't actually book the room, and you weren't sitting in it waiting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s soooo bloody rude and annoying isn’t it, being ghosted, especially after all that effort.

Yes a message to say change of mind would be annoying too, but at least you can put it behind you and then move on rather than a few days of hoping and checking for messages etc."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you know they changed their minds?? Something terrible could have happened! "

Oh yes of course. Something terrible has happened, but wait, let’s remove our profile from fab before we do anything else

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