FabSwingers.com forum: Birth Order

By *adet OP Man
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

So if you have siblings where do you come in the birth order?

And do you think it has any bearing on someone's personality type?

Just curious to see if there is a trend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the youngest & learnt from my elder siblings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the middle of three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngest of 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him - only child

Her - middle

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

I'm the eldest...and it has totally shaped me... I'm always the responsible one on a night out... that alone is a scary fact.

Never lost a person, phone, keys or shoes mind....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngest of 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the middle from a 2 digit sibling large family.

Yeah, I don't think my mum owned a TV.

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Youngest of 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngest of 3 here, i cant remember the age gaps cos i seperated myself from that side of the family and dont care to remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Middle child. I do certainly conform to some of the things said about middle children.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"I'm the eldest...and it has totally shaped me... I'm always the responsible one on a night out... that alone is a scary fact.

Never lost a person, phone, keys or shoes mind...."

I'm the youngest, but I'm also like that.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Youngest of three here to. Seems to be a pattern emerging.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

The youngest of 9

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Eldest of three... I buck the trend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the third of four.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Dicks eldest of 2

I'm youngest of 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the older brother - my parents were much stricter with me & they had a lot more expectations..

When my younger brother came along, they pretty much didn't have the same energy left anymore and they kind of let him do what he wanted.

As a result, I think about things very carefully before I do them. My younger brother will rush out and do things without much thought..

So yes, although I've only presented anecdotal evidence, I think it does effect your personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the one and only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First out of 2

Honestly dont know how it shaped me tbh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm the oldest I have a load of brothers, I am also the oldest of this generation in my family. I can't say if its shaped my personality but I reckon its brought out certain traits that I possessed anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the youngest learnt very quickly keep things to your self never followed them I definitely have there traits but very rarely show them.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I'm the older brother and my parents were far stricter with me.

My younger sister had it much easier and she was definitely the favourite. If I wanted to do something or get something, the answer was "why do you want to do that". My sister never had that and was supported more in her hobbies etc.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"I'm the older brother and my parents were far stricter with me.

Snap.

She's doing the graft now mind you... I was pushed to be independant... she's (happily) back at home worrying about Mum.. I just wander in twice a week for a visit

and I'm not mean..talk to Mum every day...

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm 7 of 9.

Not really

I'm 3 of 6

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I’m the youngest of 4. Definitely get away with the most

I’m also the most laid back and least likely to have a meltdown!

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By *astcoast2000Man
over a year ago

Newcastle County Down

8th youngest of 9

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

2nd of 3. Born 12 minutes after my Brother.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

What's the trend

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By *adet OP Man
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

"What's the trend"

That some people have really big families

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngest of 3

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Youngest of 3

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"What's the trend

That some people have really big families

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm second born of 4.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Both babies in siblings order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngest of 5 and only girl

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're both the eldest. I have one younger sibling and Mr KC has two younger siblings.

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

I'm the youngest of 4.

And the most rebellious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2nd youngest of 5.

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By *inxybWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Number 6 of 6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the eldest of 2 John is 4th of 8 kids

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’m the youngest of 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m oldest if 2. I’m like Dad, calm and takes stuff in my stride. My Sister is like Mum, thinks she’s ‘Alpha’ but knows considerably less than she thinks she does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second of Five, oldest was only 10 months older, we were in the same year at school he was highly intelligent, I was always made to feel the dumb one by some teacher so never bothered trying to compete, so yes this affected me in my younger years

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

1st of 3… I broke all the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

middle of 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the youngest of 4 and there's a bigger age gap between me and the next youngest than the next youngest and the oldest. Think that's why I'm still seen as the baby

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

Eldest of 2

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Eldest of 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the eldest of 3, her

The only one, him.

I do think it affects my personality, I had so many expectations placed on me x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Second and youngest

I'm also the youngest grandchild

Got spoilt lol

Like to have things my own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One older sister, 52. I'm considered the black sheep of the family

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I'm the youngest of two. I got away with all sorts. Birth order AND my nature combined. I remember watching my brother in our teen, formative years and learning from his mistakes. It made me pretty savvy.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’m 3rd of 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the oldest, the oldest son and the oldest grandson …. My role is to protect and not be over bearing. Sometimes they need to learn by themselves … sometime you have to step.

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Youngest of 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The middle 137. And no.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

C: first born; always was an independent child who wouldn't be told what to do

K: youngest of 2 - he's very chilled out

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I am youngest. Sadly older brother and sister passed away.

Brother was 18 years older than me

Sister was 12 years older than me

Hence at family get togethers my mother used to refer to me as the mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the oldest. There’s 11 and a half years between my sister and I. We’ve never argued and I love her and look out for her as if she was my baby to begin with. I used to steal her out of her cot every night and take her in my room to sleep on my chest, once I woke up and couldn’t find her and she’d slipped down the side of my bed. She was fine though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the youngest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the youngest, I only have a brother, hubby is third youngest of 8.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a very complicated family.

7 of 8 but not all from the same parents.

Hubster is first of two.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm the youngest of four and got away with murder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oldest of three blood siblings, 4th youngest of 10 if you include my step-siblings that joined us nearly 8 years ago.

I've always been responsible and organised. Always looking out for others and being one that they turn to. Can be a blessing and a burden at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oldest of three blood siblings, 4th youngest of 10 if you include my step-siblings that joined us nearly 8 years ago.

I've always been responsible and organised. Always looking out for others and being one that they turn to. Can be a blessing and a burden at the same time. "

I have picked my sister up twice from hospital when she’s has her stomach pumped from alcohol poisoning when she was in her teens. Also from a police cell when she was caught pinching from Claire’s accessories and bit the shop owners hand when she chased and grabbed my sister. She was a menace. Always picking her up from here there and everywhere early hours but that was more me telling her never walk anywhere alone, always ring me.

But she’s turned out beautifully. Psychotherapist who did a stint at broadmore prison, worked in the cancer ward in Cardiff. She works for new pathways for the police where she does medical exams on sexual assault victims the swabs and what not. She’s now doing her thesis in uni for something else. She’s a lovely lovely young woman.

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Eldest of 5 here, as is Pixi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically youngest, one older sibling with large age gap.

But parents adopted when I was a teen so I became middle child.

I'm a spoilt princess!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Oldest of three sisters and a total black sheep

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm the oldest. I definitely had more pressure from my parents growing up. They relaxed a lot more with my brother. Its possible it contributed to my excessive perfectionism but who knows.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm in the middle 2 older and 2 younger x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Oldest. I am the most chilled and nothing seems to faze me. Best mates with younger siblings they have had their ups and downs with each other. I've been the peace maker on many occasions when we were younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the youngest of 3.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm a twin and last to be born out of 5 siblings

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Im the eldest of 4.

I always had to be the responsible one, looking after the others.

Nothing has changed, I'm nearly 50 and they still come to me with their problems.

Also my mother was fairly strict with me but number 4 got away with anything.

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