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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Going by the number of profiles of women with face pic vs men with face pics, I have concluded fab women are gutsy. Men not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My former GF was so good with makeup that she could look like 20 different women. She could be on here and I wouldn't recognise her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My former GF was so good with makeup that she could look like 20 different women. She could be on here and I wouldn't recognise her. "

Lol hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be fair, if men did it.. their wives would recognise them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People might not agree with me. But I think women have a stronger backbone than men so they're happier to share more photos that would mean people recognised them.

Just my two cents, don't shoot me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Showing your face gets more fabs.

I personally don't think bits got anything to do with bravery. If you choose to show your face and are aware of *all" the possible outcomes that's great. If you show your face unaware or all the possible outcomes that's naivety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus half the female profiles are men or catfish .... Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also agree with the above. Women know they'll get more fabs showing a face pic. I'm happy with the handful I get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plus half the female profiles are men or catfish .... Maybe. "

I kinda think so too. Gut feeling

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also courage and guts is not about showing your face on the internet. It's about facing horrible situations and coping the best way you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus half the female profiles are men or catfish .... Maybe. "

Eh? Is this a thing??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m no psychologist but maybe it’s a spill over of the whole insta generation? I dunno, just speculating.

Across the more vanilla social media apps I get the impression that again it’s more the ladies that post lots of selfies etc compared to men (they seem to on Twatter anyway, even those I follow as supporters of my team on football Twitter) - “Off to the game!” - selfie. “Post match drinks” - selfie. The men not so much.

The endorphin hit of ‘likes’ etc is a big thing and while it applies to us all - men, women, non-binary etc etc maybe it’s more of a thing for women who society (rightly or wrongly!) seems to expect to have to look good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are these women with face pics?

The vast majority ive seen dont even have a head let alone a face

Not saying that i dont recognise a need for discretion is important though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be fair, if men did it.. their wives would recognise them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show my face so i get the shocker out of the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course the only issues with face pics of how do you know they are real or even a true representation of how that person appears?

I mean what if a guy posted 2 pics on the same day, one clean shaven and the other one with a full beard? How would you know which is the real one?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I show my face cos I have no reason not to! Not to get fabs! X

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It’s because of the general public reception of finding someone you know on here

Female = brave, sexually liberated, knows what she wants etc

Guys = ew what a pervert, creeping around on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going by the number of profiles of women with face pic vs men with face pics, I have concluded fab women are gutsy. Men not so much "

I like your mushroom hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s because of the general public reception of finding someone you know on here

Female = brave, sexually liberated, knows what she wants etc

Guys = ew what a pervert, creeping around on a swingers site "

That's 100% not the reaction most woman would would get! Slut, cow, prostitute would most likely be flung at us.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"It’s because of the general public reception of finding someone you know on here

Female = brave, sexually liberated, knows what she wants etc

Guys = ew what a pervert, creeping around on a swingers site "

The stereotypical reaction to people looking for casual sex is more often:

Women: slut/slag/easy - used with negative connotation

Men: lads, lads, lads! Get in there! - used with positive connotation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think it saves time if people can see what I look like. If anyone recognises me on here, what are they going to do in the non-Fab world? Tell my family? Maybe not, because that would mean admitting they're on here too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Going by the number of profiles of women with face pic vs men with face pics, I have concluded fab women are gutsy. Men not so much

I like your mushroom hat."

Thank you. It has an English name. It's called Pakol, you can find cheap ones for as low as £5, good stuff for the winte

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Showing your face gets more fabs.

I personally don't think bits got anything to do with bravery. If you choose to show your face and are aware of *all" the possible outcomes that's great. If you show your face unaware or all the possible outcomes that's naivety"

Well it is nearly Christmas.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've seen many female face pics on single male profiles, where the male doesn't show his face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, some have so much photoshop you wouldn't recognise them in real life anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen many female face pics on single male profiles, where the male doesn't show his face.

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They shouldn't get through like that. Everyone should be hidden in some way except the owner of the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be fair, if men did it.. their wives would recognise them."

Correct

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I'm just little me and no photos are shopped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show my face on here, always have.

I’m single & not ashamed to be on here. Plus I don’t have a public facing job so no issues with that.

I’m not brave or courageous because I do though.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"I show my face on here, always have.

I’m single & not ashamed to be on here. Plus I don’t have a public facing job so no issues with that.

I’m not brave or courageous because I do though."

I was about to say something similar.

Sexually liberated and not ashamed.

Most of my vanilla circle know about my lifestyle so I’ve nothing to hide.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nothing to do with gutsy. No way I’d show my face on here. My private life is private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m no psychologist but maybe it’s a spill over of the whole insta generation? I dunno, just speculating.

Across the more vanilla social media apps I get the impression that again it’s more the ladies that post lots of selfies etc compared to men (they seem to on Twatter anyway, even those I follow as supporters of my team on football Twitter) - “Off to the game!” - selfie. “Post match drinks” - selfie. The men not so much.

The endorphin hit of ‘likes’ etc is a big thing and while it applies to us all - men, women, non-binary etc etc maybe it’s more of a thing for women who society (rightly or wrongly!) seems to expect to have to look good? "

I have always had my face pics up, despite hating pics of myself... I wanted people to be sure they actually found me attractive, before messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Courageous? You make it sound like they are some heroes;-)

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

I don’t like advertising myself at all and the result is most men doubt I’m real. That or they immediately ask for naked photos of me. It’s a jo win so I just do what feels right for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Courageous? You make it sound like they are some heroes;-)"

Aren't we?? Bugger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Courageous? You make it sound like they are some heroes;-)

Aren't we?? Bugger! "

Just true to your spirit. Is that courage though ?

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Do you aye...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Courageous? You make it sound like they are some heroes;-)

Aren't we?? Bugger!

Just true to your spirit. Is that courage though ? "

Who knows?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time on fab I used to show my face on cam and that got me into enough trouble so no thanks.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Well, some have so much photoshop you wouldn't recognise them in real life anyway.. "

I have absoulutley no photo shop(dont know how to) no make up ever! And get recognized at least once a week usually at work or on my bike this week at the harvester by a man on next table! (Didnt speak got a message here) think he was with his wife! x

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