FabSwingers.com forum: What turns you off?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all like being turned on…but what makes it all come to a stop? What’s your biggest turn off that makes you say - ‘nope, not gonna happen now!’?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Drama of any kind

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Drama of any kind"

This ^^ and also arrogance

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Smokers and drug users (same thing really)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they underestimate me in any way.. most extreme form would be negging I guess.

When they are full of themselves and openly convinced I must be lusting after them. Arrogance isn't sexy mate.

When they talk crap about ALL their exes. That's a turn off and a red light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene.

Distasteful views.

Beliebers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

No hope for me then…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

No hope for me then…

Why wouldn’t there be? You’re lovely

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

Agree, my favourite is "to many, to much" instead of "too many, too much"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying how afterwards you'll cuddle me....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

No hope for me then…

Why wouldn’t there be? You’re lovely

You used ‘you’re’ correctly, I was testing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

U dnt fmacy a fuk thn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What turns me off?

Being tickled, I lose all concentration and mojo at that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they catch me watching through the window

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"If they catch me watching through the window

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was that you

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Being overly d*unk

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Just some one rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance . Can’t stand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cleanliness is biggest for me. Or pushy to the extent of annoying x

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By *killsMan
over a year ago

Never Never Land

Minging teeth ie not brushed. It makes me want to gip and go nowhere near them

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Those with a amazing portfolio of pics who become immediately ugly as soon as they open their mouths or start typing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A total lack of humour lifeless people rust on piercings and girls who dont like anal fisting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

U dnt fmacy a fuk thn?

I wil mak a excepshun 4 u

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

U dnt fmacy a fuk thn?

I wil mak a excepshun 4 u

I think someone is getting their mucking fords wuddled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A total lack of humour lifeless people rust on piercings and girls who dont like anal fisting "

God forbid, eh? Frigid bitches!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

U dnt fmacy a fuk thn?

I wil mak a excepshun 4 u

I think someone is getting their mucking fords wuddled"

Don’t you mean ‘there’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A total lack of humour lifeless people rust on piercings and girls who dont like anal fisting

God forbid, eh? Frigid bitches!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

U dnt fmacy a fuk thn?

I wil mak a excepshun 4 u

I think someone is getting their mucking fords wuddled

Don’t you mean ‘there’?

No, he’s right. I can’t help myself lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obnoxiously burping, my fanny automatically shuts down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this might sound rude and not come across well, but not sure how else to put it.

But, people being totally unrealistic. I'm sure this could cover many things, and I know it sounds a little strange on a site that covers fantasies on a daily/hourly basis.

A for instance is needed.......

From looking at our pictures and profile.....what would possess a 60+ year old to send us a "trying my arm" message with a horrible British bull dog neck looking crumpled up penis peeking out a greying hedge of pubic hair attached to entice us in!

It just wastes so much time, and we like to reply with at least a no thanks to anybody that messages us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Obnoxiously burping, my fanny automatically shuts down."

Straight after chugging a pint in one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

U dnt fmacy a fuk thn?

I wil mak a excepshun 4 u

I think someone is getting their mucking fords wuddled

Don’t you mean ‘there’?

No, he’s right. I can’t help myself lol x"

He was indeed right. I was joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance and dirty blinds/curtains

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get turned off by people ranting.

I should have thought more about that before starting this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oneupmanship

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

Totally this

And also a lack of sense of humour. If someone is dead serious and boring in their messages I lose interest quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance and dirty blinds/curtains"

Yeah, I just saw a shower pic with dirty grouting. Not good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

Totally this

And also a lack of sense of humour. If someone is dead serious and boring in their messages I lose interest quickly"

I am totally with you there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get turned off by people ranting.

I should have thought more about that before starting this thread

You really didn’t think this through, did you?

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

When you’re getting down and dirty and the ex rings to sort out child care arrangements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bad kisser!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance and dirty blinds/curtains

Yeah, I just saw a shower pic with dirty grouting. Not good!"

I don't mind dirty grout, my bathroom needs re done

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

them being Dishonest prior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth, its the first thing I would notice and If I dont want to even kiss them, its a non starter!

On here, any of the 'isms', poor attitude, lack of good humour in the messaging or posts they make x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with no sense of humour and GAA fans usually turn me off

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By *iscreetMan_UKMan
over a year ago

nearby

When chatting…

People who have really, really long profiles, especially ones with the percentages on or the Sydney University disclaimer.

Pics of men in women’s underwear.

“Big Cummer”

People who describe themselves as Kinky and only want to talk about very taboo stuff.

Meeting in reality:

Body odour.

Dirty houses.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"I know this might sound rude and not come across well, but not sure how else to put it.

But, people being totally unrealistic. I'm sure this could cover many things, and I know it sounds a little strange on a site that covers fantasies on a daily/hourly basis.

A for instance is needed.......

It just wastes so much time, and we like to reply with at least a no thanks to anybody that messages us!"
If you don't ask you don't get

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Defo bad teeth. If a woman isn't gonna brush her teeth what's the rest like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not meeting up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being asked what turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they say "hello" to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Political or pushy preachy of their belief types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being exactly what i want

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Nit picking and 'rules lawyering' attitudes. I like to speak freely with the person listening knowing me well enough to know my intent and then not taking things out of context.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Defo bad teeth. If a woman isn't gonna brush her teeth what's the rest like?"

Do people actually not brush their teeth?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

liars

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

People who say they will do anything and have no limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mentally: arrogance and dishonesty

Physically: too much body hair. Not a fan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that keep on and won't take no for an answer

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Arrogance is top

Uneven teeth/bad teeth...they are a total turnoff.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Lies

Arrogance

Ignorance

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

"Political or pushy preachy of their belief types

This, and also people who come across self obsessed and arrogant. Those that disrespect our relationship, instant turn off!!

Miss pc

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

"Defo bad teeth. If a woman isn't gonna brush her teeth what's the rest like?

Do people actually not brush their teeth?!

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definitely

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Arrogance - no, I can't travel halfway round the country to meet you in half an hour.

Poor hygiene - really puts me off.

Ignorance. Real turn off.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

"Defo bad teeth. If a woman isn't gonna brush her teeth what's the rest like?

Do people actually not brush their teeth?!

Yup, have had a meet ruined by really foul breath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene or breath, rudeness, desperation, lack of confidence, condoms, no sense of humour.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Really moany too specific wants.

Bad attitude, not being nice.

Lack of a similar sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any type of mess or uncleanliness, poor hygiene, uneducated, intoxicated, no sense of humour, boring, being common, acting like a child…… Other than that I’m quite easy going.

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Arrogance, dishonesty and rudeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirt (not to be confused with filth

). I was once really keen on a girl and we'd been flirting for weeks. After a good night out she invited me back to hers. It wasn't a Palace and not up to my expectations in the cleanliness department, but she was young and I thought maybe she had better things to do than clean. Anyway, I went to use the bathroom and good god I've never seen anything like it in my life. I actually spewed. It was disgusting. That was a big turn off and I made a sharp exit!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty fingernails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance..

Lateness & the inability to stick with plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few things for me:

Hygiene

Presentation for a meet - I've made an effort (= overdressed compared to following descript) and the fella arrives in shorts, tee shirt and sliders.

Pushy behaviour - actually pushes me in the opposite direction.

There are others I'm sure....

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

D*unkeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say gushy fake messages turn me off "you're so gorgeous". When I know it's being said to a dozen other women and they can't even see my face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"D*unkeness."

Is this a basketball reference?

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By *atie-friendlyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Poor hygiene, pics people take in the toilet, hairy scrotums and Willy's that look as though they need to see a doctor about.

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By *ew sensationMan
over a year ago

widnes

Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good grooming is a must...close mindedness, arrogance,

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Arrogance

Entitlement

Lack of humour and intelligence

The ability to converse seems lost on many x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Guy I met for a social referred to sex as "yumyum".

That was pretty massive turn off right there.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

"Guy I met for a social referred to sex as "yumyum".

That was pretty massive turn off right there."

That would so change everything!

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !"

What if they proudly declare they've peed?

Asking for a friend...

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Calling me Baby, princess

Bad teeth

Not smelling nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !"

That's squirting. They're not pissing themselves and it's involuntary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !

That's squirting. They're not pissing themselves and it's involuntary."

How annoying is it when they still think we're peeing ourselves? I'm not into watersports AT ALL (done it, didn't like it), but gushing and squirting is an amazing feeling.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Loud aggressive people with too high opinion of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all like being turned on…but what makes it all come to a stop? What’s your biggest turn off that makes you say - ‘nope, not gonna happen now!’?

Fake moans. I was in a gangbang once and I knew the lady was tired but wanted to keep up the bet, so she was moaning fake moans and that's how I started laughing while doing it. Passed her off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all like being turned on…but what makes it all come to a stop? What’s your biggest turn off that makes you say - ‘nope, not gonna happen now!’?

Fake moans. I was in a gangbang once and I knew the lady was tired but wanted to keep up the bet, so she was moaning fake moans and that's how I started laughing while doing it. Passed her off

Pissed*

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

That's me done for then

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

No hope for me then…

Why wouldn’t there be? You’re lovely

That's me done for

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Hygiene, a mouth full of bad teeth,just don’t fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, inability to send a message I might want to read. Text speak, lack of sentences, calling me pet names instead of my actual name, sending pics of your private parts before I've even said hello.

Off here, smoking, drugs, excessive alcohol, swearing, general rudeness, bad hygiene, finding out your photos are 20+ years old.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bracknell (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

When you know someone hasn't bothered with what their first impressions will be ...shabby or worn clothes, or stinky work wear (couldn't be bothered to change attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !

That's squirting. They're not pissing themselves and it's involuntary.

How annoying is it when they still think we're peeing ourselves? I'm not into watersports AT ALL (done it, didn't like it), but gushing and squirting is an amazing feeling. "

I don't like it at all but fair play to you! Being shamed for something that your body does without your control is not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !

That's squirting. They're not pissing themselves and it's involuntary.

How annoying is it when they still think we're peeing ourselves? I'm not into watersports AT ALL (done it, didn't like it), but gushing and squirting is an amazing feeling.

I don't like it at all but fair play to you! Being shamed for something that your body does without your control is not nice. "

No, it's not nice. I'm lucky to have two regular guys who love it when I gush and they can't get enough of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !"

Men who shame women's bodily functions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone telling me what to do.

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By *ew sensationMan
over a year ago

widnes

Its watersports at the end of the day , if the lay admits their into that then i decline their offer to play , just find it a huge turn off when im covered in piss !

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By *ew sensationMan
over a year ago

widnes

"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !

Men who shame women's bodily functions.

Its only shaming when she lies about enjoying watersports

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its watersports at the end of the day , if the lay admits their into that then i decline their offer to play , just find it a huge turn off when im covered in piss !"

Oh my good God!!!!! I'm so bored of reading this sort of thing. If it felt like I was there peeing myself, I'd die of embarrassment. I've taken a break during sex and gushing to go to the bathroom for a wee because the urge to wee felt so different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its watersports at the end of the day , if the lay admits their into that then i decline their offer to play , just find it a huge turn off when im covered in piss !"

No, it's not. Perhaps listen to the women who know - this isn't something women have control over. To shame someone for it is, I repeat, not very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its watersports at the end of the day , if the lay admits their into that then i decline their offer to play , just find it a huge turn off when im covered in piss !

No, it's not. Perhaps listen to the women who know - this isn't something women have control over. To shame someone for it is, I repeat, not very nice "

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Smokers and drug users (same thing really)"

This ^ 100% regardless of hotness & personality.

I can still like you but we’ll never bone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swearing in every sentence.

Smokers.

Alcohol abuse or drugs use.

Body odour.

Won't give BJ ...very important ????.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

No manners

No sense of humour

Bad hygiene

Time wasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !

Men who shame women's bodily functions.

Its only shaming when she lies about enjoying watersports "

So if a woman gushes/squirts/cums (whatever you want to name it) you put this in the same category as some would call watersports? Ie peeing on you?

I’m just trying to clarify what you said

We all have that thing that turns us off. For me, when she fuma like that, it’s a massive turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !

Men who shame women's bodily functions.

Its only shaming when she lies about enjoying watersports "

it could be her first time too. It didn't happen to me until I was in my 30s and quite unexpected. Did I lie? No. And it's not same as urine. Even if contains traces of it. Stop spreading myths.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Poor hygiene is number one! rude people are always a turn off too.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Its watersports at the end of the day , if the lay admits their into that then i decline their offer to play , just find it a huge turn off when im covered in piss !"

So you’re saying that you know better than a woman does about her own body? That you’re willing to contradict anyone’s personal experience, just because you think that you can’t be wrong?

Arrogance is a huge turn off for most people, just saying

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

When you get that feeling that they’re spouting more shit than a sewage works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get that feeling that they’re spouting more shit than a sewage works.

I am going to adopt this saying

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Rude and or ignorant people, there’s no need for it.

Also I can go off someone very quickly just by something they say or do.

It doesn’t happen often but it has made me distance myself in the past

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Poor hygiene, bad manners, excessive swearing during conversation.

A person that comes across as though they are better than others is such an unattractive trait in any gender, I really don’t like that.

Feet. It’s a big no to the feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullshit! Nothing worse than being fed loads of codswallop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loud

Arrogant

Calling me babe

Telling me you're going to make me cum really quickly and over and over again by finger blasting me. Actually that makes me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You, OP.

I'm just kidding

Lack of humour/sarcasm.. I know it's such a trivial thing but if whit and jokes go over people's heads then I feel like the unattractive one in the end.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You, OP.

I'm just kidding

Lack of humour/sarcasm.. I know it's such a trivial thing but if whit and jokes go over people's heads then I feel like the unattractive one in the end. "

If people don’t get you, then they don’t get you!! ?

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By *ohnj21Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Husband coming home early from work

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By *ohnj21Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"You, OP.

I'm just kidding

Lack of humour/sarcasm.. I know it's such a trivial thing but if whit and jokes go over people's heads then I feel like the unattractive one in the end. "
agree

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By *ohnj21Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Finding out your new gf has a big cock then you and forgot to mention it when chatting

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By *axine500Woman
over a year ago

Dawlish

100% agree with you, poor grammar and bad spelling is a turn off. If they can't even use a spell check then I suspect that they can't be bothered to put some effort into meeting me so I DELETE them. Maybe not fair but those are my rules and I'm going to stick to them.

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"We all like being turned on…but what makes it all come to a stop? What’s your biggest turn off that makes you say - ‘nope, not gonna happen now!’?

People who lie or miss lead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loud

Arrogant

Calling me babe

Telling me you're going to make me cum really quickly and over and over again by finger blasting me. Actually that makes me laugh!"

"I'm gonnna make you squirt all nite babe"

(I've paraphrased

)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loud

Arrogant

Calling me babe

Telling me you're going to make me cum really quickly and over and over again by finger blasting me. Actually that makes me laugh!

"I'm gonnna make you squirt all nite babe"

(I've paraphrased

Yes, that as well!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loud

Arrogant

Calling me babe

Telling me you're going to make me cum really quickly and over and over again by finger blasting me. Actually that makes me laugh!

"I'm gonnna make you squirt all nite babe"

(I've paraphrased

)

Yes, that as well!!!

"
better to make em squint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loud

Arrogant

Calling me babe

Telling me you're going to make me cum really quickly and over and over again by finger blasting me. Actually that makes me laugh!

"I'm gonnna make you squirt all nite babe"

(I've paraphrased

)

Yes, that as well!!!

better to make em squint

Gotta be the finger blasting innit

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I know a lady who had to stop seeing a nice guy because his shower curtain was minging.

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

Poor hygiene, grammar and manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene. Red flag being raised during conversation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a lady who had to stop seeing a nice guy because his shower curtain was minging. "

Severe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !

Men who shame women's bodily functions.

Its only shaming when she lies about enjoying watersports

it could be her first time too. It didn't happen to me until I was in my 30s and quite unexpected. Did I lie? No. And it's not same as urine. Even if contains traces of it. Stop spreading myths. "

I was 50 when it first happened to me. And, it doesn't happen every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

^ This, plus rough looking fingernails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women who can't communicate

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I know a lady who had to stop seeing a nice guy because his shower curtain was minging.

Severe!"

Depends how minging it was I guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be seeing how bad a home is. If you turn up and it isn't clean, sorry may sound judgmental but if you can't take pride in where you live what's your intimate areas going to be like

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

The conversation getting round to their maxed out credit cards, mortgage arrears, and other distressed circumstances etc after the third date of waking up next to each other.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Arrogance.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It has to be seeing how bad a home is. If you turn up and it isn't clean, sorry may sound judgmental but if you can't take pride in where you live what's your intimate areas going to be like

Fanny before Floors is my motto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a lady who had to stop seeing a nice guy because his shower curtain was minging.

Severe!

Depends how minging it was I guess!"

It's an easily solved problem tbh but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People using the word "titties"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People using the word "titties""

Oh my, that’s just turned me off

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Arrogant people who want everything on their terms.

Narcissists who believe they are god's gift.

Fake friends.

The ones who open the conversation with, "are you free now" and disappear or block if you say, "well sorry but not right now"

These are a few of my least favourite ones

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

So many things……

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

A bad attitude

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Me me me self obsessed types! Also bad manners and cocky over confidence is a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually some political opinion that I was trying to avoid knowing about.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Smoking, no matter how gorgeous the woman, it’s a proper turn off.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Smoking, no matter how gorgeous the woman, it’s a proper turn off. "

Wana cig

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

We agree completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who think a session in the back of their filthy work van is a winner.

Bad personal hygiene

Smokers

Drug users

Scruffy clothing

Arrogance

Theres loads more but thats enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has to be seeing how bad a home is. If you turn up and it isn't clean, sorry may sound judgmental but if you can't take pride in where you live what's your intimate areas going to be like

Fanny before Floors is my motto!"

Thanks, made me chuckle reading that

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

•

You and me both. Grandma versus Grammar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Poor spelling and grammar.

It’s important to a geek like me!

•

You and me both. Grandma versus Grammar.

Sex v Six?

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Brexiteers and or Anticovid folk.

No thanks

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Smokers and those who try to lie. Nice to be clean too just for respect really. Just be polite not much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty fingernails

Pubic hair that warrants a place in Kew Gardens!!!

The unclean

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"That's me done for then"

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Why?

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By *pottydog46Man
over a year ago

rainham

Lack of punctuation and nose rings. Makes me think I am looking at a bull.

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