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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh don't worry it's not a rant!!

Just wondered if you suffered with nerves when meeting a single fem or a couple, or even in a group senario?

If you do how do you get over them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start off by overshadowing any nerves by over-talking because nobody likes awkward silences. Then I find that by just getting on with it and talking that I actually forget about being nervous and there's no problems.

The way I see it, even if you're shy it's better to just talk your way through it than to clam up and go quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do ... every time i get nerves that all part of the turn on for me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only nerves are prior to a meet the minute things are moving I feel fine. I thinks it's that moment of will they won't they! But I think you just have to be grown up and accept things if they don't happen. The nerves make it a bit sexier if you can get over them quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could I make you nervous sometime?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I pull my bag down tighter so it doesn't show

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could I make you nervous sometime? "

Are you flirting with me on an open forum??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pull my bag down tighter so it doesn't show"

Colostomy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could I make you nervous sometime?

Are you flirting with me on an open forum??

"

you make it hard not to

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I pull my bag down tighter so it doesn't show

Colostomy?"

are u taking the piss !?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a rule I don't get that nervous as I self talk and get in the right frame of mind! I can come across as being confident! Whether it would be the same in a large group/club environment I have no idea

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By *xy_guy300Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I think its only natural to have those pre-meet butterflies and in all honesty for me if i didnt get them there would be no point in meeting because it would mean im possibly not all that excited and by the person im meeting.....

When meeting anyone its about good conversation.

After a few minutes of getting to know a single female im alot more relaxed, butterflies are gone and im thinking about the various things she may like and how im going to get her off.

Tend to be more nervous if its a couple, only because its not just about impressing the lady but its making sure that hubby is comfortable and will accept you.

When it comes to groups, it doesnt tend to bother me because i know i can hold my own and very confident in my own abilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Its always something that im really aware of when we meet someone for the first time and try really hard to put the guys at ease if im getting nervous vibes from them

To meet up as a single with an established couple has got to be nerve wracking sometimes and thats on top the the excited butterfly nerves

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I pull my bag down tighter so it doesn't show

Colostomy?"

Yea you have to pull gently though. It's a right shitter if you rip em

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes it's got to be very nerve wracking for a single to meet a couple, and as honeypot said we too are very aware of this and try our up most to put him at ease!! After all we want him to enjoy it as much as us..,

So so you singles find it more nerve wracking meeting a couple as opposed to a single fem??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely more nervous meeting couples than singles. Not just the lady to consider. Think we like to make sure all boundaries are established before a meet. Maybe to much! But this is an act of nerves of not wanting to fuck up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will let you after I have had one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always a bit nervous, but then that is part of the excitement for me, I guess when that feeling goes then its time to quit

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I am comfortable in most social occasions as well as in meets but do get the butterflies in the stomach feeling every time.

Nerves are part of the entire process at first; as far as I'm concerned, if you didn't have them, you could be viewed as being over confident and that might count against you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous and then mental things start happening - there was a couple of incidents with someones chess table and pieces went flying - it sort of happens in a chain reaction sort of scenario .............. I dont think I am safe let out actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am comfortable in most social occasions as well as in meets but do get the butterflies in the stomach feeling every time.

Nerves are part of the entire process at first; as far as I'm concerned, if you didn't have them, you could be viewed as being over confident and that might count against you."

everything counts against me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take my mind off the meeting by picking my nose or biting my toe nails, works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel nervous with a new meet. Soon go once i get naked lol. Don't know why. I feel better on a repeat meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prior to a meet with a couple or a lady the butterflys do kick in with me but it's an exciting vibe. It's the anticipation of what may possibly unfold in the hours ahead. Usually more worried about hiding my bulge when walking to the peeps house, especially if there are neigbours about outside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A stiff upper lip and a stiff cock

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