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By *rhuges OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I travel quite a lot and set up hotel meets .

Never had any responses.

Just wondering if other guys find the same thing

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If it's arranged with someone I've been chatting to there's never been an issue but I can't see very many women being keen on meeting a random guy in an hotel room

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I'm not overly sure how many genuine women respond to a looking for meet (now or future dates) full stop ... I'm curious to know now too!?

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

If its with someone I've been talking to for a while & we have a connection i don't have a problem with it. Wouldn't feel safe with a short notice meetup though.

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By *uper SaiyanMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I travel a lot for work and find that getting a response is difficult.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I never respond to those messages that say I'm in a hotel near you etc, theyre usually only sent a day before or on that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel quite a lot and set up hotel meets .

Never had any responses.

Just wondering if other guys find the same thing"

I'd love a job where i got to travel and stay over once in a while

As for women meeting random men in hotel rooms, anything is possible, do you invite couples as well as singles ?

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"If its with someone I've been talking to for a while & we have a connection i don't have a problem with it. Wouldn't feel safe with a short notice meetup though."

This exactly.

My FB and I were essentially a hotel meet up, but only after lots of chat and a social meet first (which ended in his hotel, but that’s another story ).

It wouldn’t feel remotely safe to meet a random person for the first time in their hotel room. It’s nervy enough meeting in a bar or cafe and hoping they’re not a total creep!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I will with someone I know. A random person who happens to be in town, never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not an appealing prospect for me. I get messages weekly from guys suggesting I meet them at their hotel that day, the next day, the next week. Why would I put myself at risk to do that?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"If it's arranged with someone I've been chatting to there's never been an issue but I can't see very many women being keen on meeting a random guy in an hotel room"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I travel quite a lot and set up hotel meets .

Never had any responses.

Just wondering if other guys find the same thing"

Yes. I find you don’t get many responses.

I don’t put up requests, I find it a brave man/woman doing that, I can’t imagine my ego could take the rejection

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh I love being treated like a free sex worker!

Not.

The only time I would meet in an hotel is if it was with a friend and we were both staying the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers."

This

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've done this,

But it's also about building up the trust so can at times be a long process should this matter nope.because both are supposed to feel comfortable.But are loads who wouldn't meet in a hotel,and if is the case nothing ventured nothing gained nothing to worry about continue the journey to fulfillment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's arranged with someone I've been chatting to there's never been an issue but I can't see very many women being keen on meeting a random guy in an hotel room"

This. I've been invited on a few occasions to meet up with random fellas on their hotel. No way would I put myself at risk if I didn't know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers."

There are 1000s of guys on fab who due to working in different areas requiring overnight hotels stays, then message local women (to the hotel) to meet them that day / night or following evening in their hotel are literally trying to use fab female swingers as free sex workers.

If that's what you have to offer and are looking for put your hand in your pocket an pay for an escort.

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

There are 1000s of guys on fab who due to working in different areas requiring overnight hotels stays, then message local women (to the hotel) to meet them that day / night or following evening in their hotel are literally trying to use fab female swingers as free sex workers.

If that's what you have to offer and are looking for put your hand in your pocket an pay for an escort.

KJ"

Wow. That has really brought it home to me why I felt so upset the first time a man sent me a "hotel meet" message.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

There are 1000s of guys on fab who due to working in different areas requiring overnight hotels stays, then message local women (to the hotel) to meet them that day / night or following evening in their hotel are literally trying to use fab female swingers as free sex workers.

If that's what you have to offer and are looking for put your hand in your pocket an pay for an escort.

KJ"

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

There are 1000s of guys on fab who due to working in different areas requiring overnight hotels stays, then message local women (to the hotel) to meet them that day / night or following evening in their hotel are literally trying to use fab female swingers as free sex workers.

If that's what you have to offer and are looking for put your hand in your pocket an pay for an escort.

KJ

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?"

I'm sure there are women who do this too. It's equally disrespectful I think, but doesn't carry the same risk. Would you agree?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?"

And how often do you get that type of msg from a woman? Once in a blue moon?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

There are 1000s of guys on fab who due to working in different areas requiring overnight hotels stays, then message local women (to the hotel) to meet them that day / night or following evening in their hotel are literally trying to use fab female swingers as free sex workers.

If that's what you have to offer and are looking for put your hand in your pocket an pay for an escort.

KJ

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?

I'm sure there are women who do this too. It's equally disrespectful I think, but doesn't carry the same risk. Would you agree?"

I think it does for the women asking to meet. They don't know me or anyone they are sending random messages to so they still end up in an hotel room with an unknown stranger. The only difference is who is paying for the room.

And based on my own experience and my very first fab meet it is every bit as risky and dangerous.

I had to leave a room I had paid for because of the erratic actions of a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

There are 1000s of guys on fab who due to working in different areas requiring overnight hotels stays, then message local women (to the hotel) to meet them that day / night or following evening in their hotel are literally trying to use fab female swingers as free sex workers.

If that's what you have to offer and are looking for put your hand in your pocket an pay for an escort.

KJ

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?

I'm sure there are women who do this too. It's equally disrespectful I think, but doesn't carry the same risk. Would you agree?

I think it does for the women asking to meet. They don't know me or anyone they are sending random messages to so they still end up in an hotel room with an unknown stranger. The only difference is who is paying for the room.

And based on my own experience and my very first fab meet it is every bit as risky and dangerous.

I had to leave a room I had paid for because of the erratic actions of a woman."

Bloody hell!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?

And how often do you get that type of msg from a woman? Once in a blue moon?"

Personally I've probably received a handful in 5 years here but similar status updates are posted in my area from women on a weekly basis. Some say they are currently staying in a particular hotel and invite people to get in touch for further details

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?

And how often do you get that type of msg from a woman? Once in a blue moon?

Personally I've probably received a handful in 5 years here but similar status updates are posted in my area from women on a weekly basis. Some say they are currently staying in a particular hotel and invite people to get in touch for further details"

I know this is a cliche and cynical but a large proportion of those, if not all are men.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?

And how often do you get that type of msg from a woman? Once in a blue moon?

Personally I've probably received a handful in 5 years here but similar status updates are posted in my area from women on a weekly basis. Some say they are currently staying in a particular hotel and invite people to get in touch for further details

I know this is a cliche and cynical but a large proportion of those, if not all are men."

...or you may have to pay.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?

And how often do you get that type of msg from a woman? Once in a blue moon?

Personally I've probably received a handful in 5 years here but similar status updates are posted in my area from women on a weekly basis. Some say they are currently staying in a particular hotel and invite people to get in touch for further details

I know this is a cliche and cynical but a large proportion of those, if not all are men."

I'm not that naive. The ones I have received are from very well verified women. Some of who did post regularly on the forums at the time.

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Lanson

I've done ok with hotel meets - but as mentioned up thread it is usually with people i either already know or I'm already conversing with - not drop of the hat randoms

V x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?

And how often do you get that type of msg from a woman? Once in a blue moon?

Personally I've probably received a handful in 5 years here but similar status updates are posted in my area from women on a weekly basis. Some say they are currently staying in a particular hotel and invite people to get in touch for further details

I know this is a cliche and cynical but a large proportion of those, if not all are men.

I'm not that naive. The ones I have received are from very well verified women. Some of who did post regularly on the forums at the time. "

Apologies, I was referring to your comment about regular updates, not the women you've met.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"

In fairness there are also lots of women who do likewise. I've had a few messages just giving the name of an hotel and asking to meet or some whom I've only exchanged a couple of messages with telling me they would be in my area the following week if I would like to meet in their hotel?

And how often do you get that type of msg from a woman? Once in a blue moon?

Personally I've probably received a handful in 5 years here but similar status updates are posted in my area from women on a weekly basis. Some say they are currently staying in a particular hotel and invite people to get in touch for further details

I know this is a cliche and cynical but a large proportion of those, if not all are men.

I'm not that naive. The ones I have received are from very well verified women. Some of who did post regularly on the forums at the time.

Apologies, I was referring to your comment about regular updates, not the women you've met."

I haven't met any of them. All requests like that are refused. I agree though about some of the status updates although the vast majority of those are all very well verified.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Never would meet a stranger in their hotel x

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I don't message 'on spec'.

Sometimes when I've been chatting for a while and we are too far apart for it to be a convenient journey I suggest a hotel.

But I've stopped doing it now because they usually bottle it and I kept getting stuck with cancellation fees

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve never done it but I know Fab women who have.

One particular friend let herself into a bedroom. Stripped to her lingerie. Laid on the bed blindfolded, waiting for a guy she had never met before.

I actually think it was a dumb thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've responded to a couple of meet requests similar to this and went on to have a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not worth the hassle . Nothing will happen . Go out and try and find someone or find a local escort and definitely get laid .

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By *rhuges OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I travel quite a lot and set up hotel meets .

Never had any responses.

Just wondering if other guys find the same thing

I'd love a job where i got to travel and stay over once in a while

As for women meeting random men in hotel rooms, anything is possible, do you invite couples as well as singles ?"

Absolutely I actually prefer couples

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By *rhuges OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

There are 1000s of guys on fab who due to working in different areas requiring overnight hotels stays, then message local women (to the hotel) to meet them that day / night or following evening in their hotel are literally trying to use fab female swingers as free sex workers.

If that's what you have to offer and are looking for put your hand in your pocket an pay for an escort.

KJ"

I never mail specific ladies it's on in the set up meetings

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"

I'm not overly sure how many genuine women respond to a looking for meet (now or future dates) full stop ... I'm curious to know now too!? "

A friend of mine has responded to several hotel meets with guys staying in Lake District hotels, she’s done very well from them. I’ve never had any success while staying in Birmingham or Liverpool hotels for weekenders, and listing up meets

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"It’s not worth the hassle . Nothing will happen . Go out and try and find someone or find a local escort and definitely get laid ."

Listing up a hotel meet takes 2 minutes and costs nothing, so it’s always worth a try

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers."

Same goes for the solo men who receive 1am booty calls from couples staying in local hotels and “are you free to visit us now?” I call them the ‘Any cock will do’ brigade. Yet another example of the one way street of respect in Fab…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

Same goes for the solo men who receive 1am booty calls from couples staying in local hotels and “are you free to visit us now?” I call them the ‘Any cock will do’ brigade. Yet another example of the one way street of respect in Fab….."

How would couples have the phone number of a single man unless he had shared it? Presumably not complete strangers? I'm not condoning the behaviour of couples - I think treating anyone like they're sex on tap and nothing else is wrong.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

Same goes for the solo men who receive 1am booty calls from couples staying in local hotels and “are you free to visit us now?” I call them the ‘Any cock will do’ brigade. Yet another example of the one way street of respect in Fab…..

How would couples have the phone number of a single man unless he had shared it? Presumably not complete strangers? I'm not condoning the behaviour of couples - I think treating anyone like they're sex on tap and nothing else is wrong."

I think he's referring to messages on fab rather than a text. I have received a number of them from complete strangers that just say, number and facepic before we will put you on the to do list. And once again from couples with 50-100 veries. The last time it happened I asked if this approach ever worked for them and the reply was yes every time. It was then my loss when I blotted their spotless record.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

Same goes for the solo men who receive 1am booty calls from couples staying in local hotels and “are you free to visit us now?” I call them the ‘Any cock will do’ brigade. Yet another example of the one way street of respect in Fab…..

How would couples have the phone number of a single man unless he had shared it? Presumably not complete strangers? I'm not condoning the behaviour of couples - I think treating anyone like they're sex on tap and nothing else is wrong.

I think he's referring to messages on fab rather than a text. I have received a number of them from complete strangers that just say, number and facepic before we will put you on the to do list. And once again from couples with 50-100 veries. The last time it happened I asked if this approach ever worked for them and the reply was yes every time. It was then my loss when I blotted their spotless record."

I interpreted booty call quite literally then.

I guess if it works for them, why would they stop doing it. Some single men are up for it. Just as some single women are up for it. What I dislike most about the site is the presumption that ALL women must be up for XXX "because it's a sexy site" . And the same goes for men. There's a very clear line between those who seek sex and those who seek intimacy here.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

Same goes for the solo men who receive 1am booty calls from couples staying in local hotels and “are you free to visit us now?” I call them the ‘Any cock will do’ brigade. Yet another example of the one way street of respect in Fab…..

How would couples have the phone number of a single man unless he had shared it? Presumably not complete strangers? I'm not condoning the behaviour of couples - I think treating anyone like they're sex on tap and nothing else is wrong.

I think he's referring to messages on fab rather than a text. I have received a number of them from complete strangers that just say, number and facepic before we will put you on the to do list. And once again from couples with 50-100 veries. The last time it happened I asked if this approach ever worked for them and the reply was yes every time. It was then my loss when I blotted their spotless record.

I interpreted booty call quite literally then.

I guess if it works for them, why would they stop doing it. Some single men are up for it. Just as some single women are up for it. What I dislike most about the site is the presumption that ALL women must be up for XXX "because it's a sexy site" . And the same goes for men. There's a very clear line between those who seek sex and those who seek intimacy here."

It's not always just about those two options. It's about being treated as a human being rather than a number. Some people assume that all men are just happy to be approached and will jump at every opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

Same goes for the solo men who receive 1am booty calls from couples staying in local hotels and “are you free to visit us now?” I call them the ‘Any cock will do’ brigade. Yet another example of the one way street of respect in Fab…..

How would couples have the phone number of a single man unless he had shared it? Presumably not complete strangers? I'm not condoning the behaviour of couples - I think treating anyone like they're sex on tap and nothing else is wrong.

I think he's referring to messages on fab rather than a text. I have received a number of them from complete strangers that just say, number and facepic before we will put you on the to do list. And once again from couples with 50-100 veries. The last time it happened I asked if this approach ever worked for them and the reply was yes every time. It was then my loss when I blotted their spotless record.

I interpreted booty call quite literally then.

I guess if it works for them, why would they stop doing it. Some single men are up for it. Just as some single women are up for it. What I dislike most about the site is the presumption that ALL women must be up for XXX "because it's a sexy site" . And the same goes for men. There's a very clear line between those who seek sex and those who seek intimacy here.

It's not always just about those two options. It's about being treated as a human being rather than a number. Some people assume that all men are just happy to be approached and will jump at every opportunity. "

Before I joined Fabs, I just thought that was the default.

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By *hynot3Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Got to be a social first surely…..would be mad just to go to someone’s hotel room….do people expect this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done this,

But it's also about building up the trust so can at times be a long process should this matter nope.because both are supposed to feel comfortable.But are loads who wouldn't meet in a hotel,and if is the case nothing ventured nothing gained nothing to worry about continue the journey to fulfillment."
I've also done this, and it's my preference really.

And it was a process of building up trust through online chit-chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my good lady likes to meet in hotels as we can't accommodate

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I can't see very many women being keen on meeting a random guy in an hotel room"

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not something I’d ever do.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

Same goes for the solo men who receive 1am booty calls from couples staying in local hotels and “are you free to visit us now?” I call them the ‘Any cock will do’ brigade. Yet another example of the one way street of respect in Fab…..

How would couples have the phone number of a single man unless he had shared it? Presumably not complete strangers? I'm not condoning the behaviour of couples - I think treating anyone like they're sex on tap and nothing else is wrong.

I think he's referring to messages on fab rather than a text. I have received a number of them from complete strangers that just say, number and facepic before we will put you on the to do list. And once again from couples with 50-100 veries. The last time it happened I asked if this approach ever worked for them and the reply was yes every time. It was then my loss when I blotted their spotless record.

I interpreted booty call quite literally then.

I guess if it works for them, why would they stop doing it. Some single men are up for it. Just as some single women are up for it. What I dislike most about the site is the presumption that ALL women must be up for XXX "because it's a sexy site" . And the same goes for men. There's a very clear line between those who seek sex and those who seek intimacy here.

It's not always just about those two options. It's about being treated as a human being rather than a number. Some people assume that all men are just happy to be approached and will jump at every opportunity. "

Exactly this mate! I like to think I am more than just a cock with the ability to get itself from A to B

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I get messages nearly every day "I'm staying in a hotel, are you free to meet" I'm not just sat at home, all dolled up waiting on a msg from a random who's passing through.

If you want to do this, plan in advance and at least try and start up a conversation, also agree to a social. Women on here are not free sex workers.

Same goes for the solo men who receive 1am booty calls from couples staying in local hotels and “are you free to visit us now?” I call them the ‘Any cock will do’ brigade. Yet another example of the one way street of respect in Fab…..

How would couples have the phone number of a single man unless he had shared it? Presumably not complete strangers? I'm not condoning the behaviour of couples - I think treating anyone like they're sex on tap and nothing else is wrong.

I think he's referring to messages on fab rather than a text. I have received a number of them from complete strangers that just say, number and facepic before we will put you on the to do list. And once again from couples with 50-100 veries. The last time it happened I asked if this approach ever worked for them and the reply was yes every time. It was then my loss when I blotted their spotless record."

I was referring to messages in Fab mate

I once received this message from a couple late one night;

I’m horny and more so on c*ke, so if you have any, I’m yours……

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The messages that I get for this are very different from the regular ones - and the overall standard isn't incredibly good - but the hotel ones inevitably require me to fulfill them but under the guise of me having a nice trip to a hotel, as if I'm being offered a spa day or better.

They always show their unsuitability and having picked me because I'm nearby.

C'ome and give me a blowjob' is a common theme of these generous offers.

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By *illing to please46Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I was stopping in a hotel last weekend so I popped on here to see if anyone was close lucky for me there was a lady stopping just a few doors down from me so we met for a drink and enjoyed a wild night together in her room she had purposely gone there to meet a guy

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We've met many decent guys in hotels over the years, had lots of fun and never had a problem. Having said that, we always take time to get to know anyone we're considering meeting both by message here and socially in person before getting to the hotel stage. That and avoiding engaging in dirty chat/cam seesions, just seems like common sense to us as the fakes and chancers can't be bothered. Arranging to meet a stranger after, possibluy, just a short sequence of messages is liable to be a problem for anyone and result in disappointment or worse. It's best avoided in our opinion, especially for single women.

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