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Spotting someone you know on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How did you feel - shocked, surprised, intrigued....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the usual intrigued.. just have a look at their bits and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you spot someone you know don’t message them saying you know them or use their real name without disclosing who you are.

This has happened so many times to me and I find it massively unfair and creepy when people do this. Especially when they don’t have any pics themselves or say who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you spot someone you know don’t message them saying you know them or use their real name without disclosing who you are.

This has happened so many times to me and I find it massively unfair and creepy when people do this. Especially when they don’t have any pics themselves or say who they are. "

Is it never a worry that they’ll tell, then you’re talk of the town?

That’s maybe the second biggest thing that stops me from being ‘all in’.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"How did you feel - shocked, surprised, intrigued....?"

I rubbed one out looking at photos of their starfish, then made sure I explained it all to them in exquisite detail the next time I saw them!

After all they are on a fuck site, so they shouldn’t be shocked!

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

I received a message from someone I know in the real world via this site.

He gave the well we know each other we may as well play and go to parties together...

I blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ultimate nightmare. My location when in mobile tells me all I need to know about who's on around me, and it freaks me out, as they will certainly know who I am!! I think the time honoured "close your eyes and pretend you never seen it" is the best practice in this, the most unusual of circumstances. In the end though, they can suspect, but until it's confirmed it's only a hunch..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could find that lass a few doors down on here tbf, wouldn’t mind seeing what she looks like in the buff.

As far as I’m aware it’s never happened, and I hope nobody has ever recognised me. If they have they’ve kept their gob shut, which is the way it should be! (Unless it’s you a few doors away in which case hit me up and let’s do it in the bushes by the garages … )

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

A week ago or so we received a message from a lovely single lady, I messaged her back attaching a face pic of the two of us and let’s just say we both could not stop giggling over the fact our kids used to hang out together and I’ve shared many a bottle of wine with her over the years, the three of us do intend to meet for a coffee but we just won’t tell the kids!!!

It really was a shock for me because never ever would I have thought she was such a dirty minx

Ms

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"How did you feel - shocked, surprised, intrigued....?"

It surprises me more when people have face pics then are shocked that people recognise them

R

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Wouldn't interest me because between here and away off here are two sides of everyone's lives it's all about respect!!!!

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton

I’ve recognised 2 girls from my year at school on here. I messaged them to say hi and that what happens here stays here. They were totally cool with that. Then I recognised one of my best mates,that was funny as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh shit I bjust shsggdd him. He caught mr when I’m wrecked I been to. A rave. And got back as he was finishing work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh shit I bjust shsggdd him. He caught mr when I’m wrecked I been to. A rave. And got back as he was finishing work "

Nooooooo!! I hope to God it was at least a good shag ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assumed you meant the guy from your work who stood you up, but maybe I’m wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assumed you meant the guy from your work who stood you up, but maybe I’m wrong."

I assumed the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened twice for me and once someone else recognised me.

First time she'd put face pic as her profile by mistake, she quickly changed it. I did message, told her she'd served me a pint in the pub earlier. We chatted for while, were mates off here, but sadly I managed to upset her so we don't really talk now

The second was another local woman but profile been inactive about 2 months so never made contact.

The one who recognised me was someone only exchanged few messages with. Sent face pic and she said "You work at ...." I said yeah and she replied "lucky escape" and not heard from her since. So can only assume it's someone from work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t search through fab enough, but I suspect I could/would find someone I know if I crawled through the search function.

I’d only be shocked or supposed depending on who it was.

I can categorically say up to this point, I’ve seen nobody from my real life on fab.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

They've not messaged but if I see someone I know I generally block them.

Someone within a quarter mile messaged and we both agreed that was far too close!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All 3. Even more so if they have ‘personal’ pics lol

Not so much if they think they know me-although it’s a thrill if they call me by my full name and ask lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than knowing someone who gave you spots

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

All three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We not recognised anyone one on fab yet, but very recently we in a swingers club and as we sat drinking hubby pulls out my boobs and kisses and a couple sit next to us and she and I reconise each other as she is my boss x

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Lanson

Not recognised anyone myself - a few profiles on "who's near" are 2/3 minute walk away so I often wonder who they are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh shit I bjust shsggdd him. He caught mr when I’m wrecked I been to. A rave. And got back as he was finishing work

Nooooooo!! I hope to God it was at least a good shag ..."

Omg I thought I posted this on my thread!

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We were shocked the first time it happened and almost deleted our account on the spot.

Now we take a more pragmatic view. If they’ve found our profile they have no right to be shocked or upset as they are on here too!

We assess the likelihood of a meet and then either chat or block depending on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone I know on here sees me, they're here too, so what's the worst that can happen? If they out me to people, they're outing themselves. If they contact me, I can choose whether to engage with them, politely say I don't mix in this circle with people I already know or block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. They're just another fab member that enjoy the finer things in life

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We message and verify them, if it’s not well received they’re usually the types that leave the site, we’re proud of who we are, we quite enjoy seeing people we know in “compromising positions” this may be seen as calling folk out but we see it as calling each other out, we’re all nosey, why aren’t we honest about it?

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