FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think

By *ustfortheforums OP Woman
over a year ago

Do you think this is allowed or a good idea, basically I’m thinking of writing about the people who are having trouble meeting/replys. And writing a post about how and why others are not meeting or interested in them. Obviously it’s going to give advice as well. What do yall think??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s loads of this kinda thing on here anyway but if you think it’ll help the go for it.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

There are a lot of these threads but it can't hurt to have another if you've a successful technique you want to share.

Maybe in the Swinging Support and Advice section?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of these threads but it can't hurt to have another if you've a successful technique you want to share.

Maybe in the Swinging Support and Advice section?"

Good call, if you post here it’ll get spammed with sarcasm etc and lost. X

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I wish you well with this, sadly most don't pay attention.even when asking for advice and still wonder why nothing changes.

But hopefully it does something positive to help those who may require.

Good luck

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By *ustfortheforums OP Woman
over a year ago

"There’s loads of this kinda thing on here anyway but if you think it’ll help the go for it. "

Well I keep seeing posts from dudes, saying on every forum post that they are not getting any where. It’s more from a woman’s point of view, like why most women don’t reply or why they just read.

Because nine times out of ten it’s not the profile that’s the problem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generic advice, or specific to individuals?

There’s loads of generic advice out there. The specific advice could be useful on a case by case basis if done constructively.

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By *ustfortheforums OP Woman
over a year ago

"Generic advice, or specific to individuals?

There’s loads of generic advice out there. The specific advice could be useful on a case by case basis if done constructively."

Well it’s more the point of view from a woman’s perspective, like why that person hasn’t had a message back, why that person didn’t get a meet.

And what are some better options. Because I know how it feels being an outsider looking in and feeling like you are doing something wrong.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I don’t think this is a good idea, whilst your intentions are to help those who may struggle to meet people the responses could further impact someone’s self asteem..responses could come over derogatory when meant to be giving advice- the written word has no tone and can be misconstrued so easily - I think these types of threads can end up being derailed and never really reflective of the initial intention xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine to give your input if you wish but it would be from your perspective. Not every woman expects or wants the same on here so you can't speak for us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you aren't someones type, then no amount of advice is going to change that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generic advice, or specific to individuals?

There’s loads of generic advice out there. The specific advice could be useful on a case by case basis if done constructively.

Well it’s more the point of view from a woman’s perspective, like why that person hasn’t had a message back, why that person didn’t get a meet.

And what are some better options. Because I know how it feels being an outsider looking in and feeling like you are doing something wrong. "

Ok go on then I’m game and will take one for the team to see what it involves, then others might join in if they can see what the feedback looks like.

I can’t get my willy wet for love nor money on here since I rejoined, what am I doing wrong?

Thank you

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The biggest problem with any form of advice no matter how well meaning is how it is perceived by those asking for it or those it is aimed at.

Profile specific advice, if taken, then turns every profile into carbon copies where the person is just ticking boxes because others told them what they needed to do.

Generic advice as to why they aren't getting replies or meets is widely available all over the forums with literally hundreds of separate threads from successful guys giving tips to women offering helpful hints from a female perspective.

Despite all that there will always be people who have no interest in advice and will carry on as before.

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