FabSwingers.com forum: Can we be friends?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there anyone you'd like to be fab friends with on here but too worried about asking them in fear of being rejected? It may be someone you get on with in the forums or just whose photos you enjoy? Maybe they'll see this and give you a little Christmas treat in the form of a friend request?

I put my big girl pants on yesterday and asked. Thankfully they didn't block me and run away. Their friends only pictures were just wow as well

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Taunton

What a fantastic idea...I'm in a feel good Friday mood, I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has been a few people id like to have added over the last year or so if they pop up on here ill ask this time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask but never get added

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

lost

I'm always looking for new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

There is actually. Two, maybe three? The former I fangirl over their posts, admire their lexicon and think they're fantastic on the forum... but I don't want to be that weirdo who starts talking to you and you have to politely reply back else it'll be awkward.

There's one who I think I'd get on well with, we've flirted (my version of it) on/off for years but maybe it's better leaving it as that than sending the all important Friend Request.

Talked myself out of the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope can’t think off anyone

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes a few. I always feel a bit awkward asking to be friends.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We are always on the lookout for friends…but they’ve got to be people we are wanting to meet or we chat to rather than people thinking this is the Book of Face or just wanting to see our friends pics

Looking for local friends for social occasions as well as extras

BP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again shy to request, I usually tell them in conversation feel free to friend request

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've never had to ask which in itself really surprised me as they've always sent a request so must be doing something right connecting with them, words can be very powerful if used correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love adding fab friends but then I enter the realms of wishing people were geographically closer to me.

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

A few forum users are on my hotlist, pretty sure they would accept a friend request but I hadn’t ever considered it before… maybe I’ll ask over the weekend

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone wants to see what’s in my Friends Only gallery, don’t be shy, send a request!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh there is one and I adore her. I don't know why I never asked actually. If she pops in here I'll

As for men, if I feel they show me enough interest privately, if we chat, I'd just casually ask! If they are treating me "just" as a friend, then I don't . Usually gut feeling works here.

I always feel women have more rules about it.. hence the hesitation perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It worked. I invited him. He accepted.

I’m now on my own friends list. Result!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made a few on here over the years, but eventually they stop chatting. Typically, the ones I'd like to meet socially are too far away to be practical. Maybe, they were just being polite, I don't know, or maybe my messages get lost in others they receive. I don't bother now, just chat through threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have 1 friend on here it would be nice to have a few more.

So if you want to send a request please do.

I’m in

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"There is actually. Two, maybe three? The former I fangirl over their posts, admire their lexicon and think they're fantastic on the forum... but I don't want to be that weirdo who starts talking to you and you have to politely reply back else it'll be awkward.

There's one who I think I'd get on well with, we've flirted (my version of it) on/off for years but maybe it's better leaving it as that than sending the all important Friend Request.

Talked myself out of the OP.

Why are we not friends already?

I don't use my single profile often enough to see all your uploads so I'm going to be cheeky and try my luck

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Im in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are always on the lookout for friends…but they’ve got to be people we are wanting to meet or we chat to rather than people thinking this is the Book of Face or just wanting to see our friends pics

Looking for local friends for social occasions as well as extras

BP x"

This is how I feel too. I don't want to just accept a friend request and show pics of my face otherwise I would make them public.

I like to actually build a friendship, to chat, laugh, maybe flirt and then invite as friends...preferably with a view to meeting socially or more in time.

So I am happy to be counted in if there's anyone who would like to chat and get to know me better.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MissKinkyMinx needs to be my friend but if anyone else wants to send me one I'd be more than happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a great idea!!!

I'm only a little fish in a big pond so I'm not going to bombard you all with friends requests as I'm sur you'll all get lots but if anyone notices me I'm more than happy to accept

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I’d get to know you better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

Yeah sex meat. Fuck that.

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

There a couple of people I’d like as friends but to be honest I’m quite happy accepting friends request from nice people who like to chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There so many I’d love to be friends with! Like actual friends aswell not just to perv

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with. "

But what about the ones that interacted with you and you don't remember it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on quality of posts:

Mr NBVN

Birldn

Probs others to perv on private

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with. "

I agree I probably would like some sort of interaction before adding as friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not looking for new people to meet for sex, but it would be nice to have actual friends on here who are up for a chat and maybe no strings attached socials! I’m happy to chat to anybody but do tend to hold back because obviously most people don’t message you looking for friendship and I don’t want to waste people’s time if chatting is just a means to an end for them

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By *ewforestguyMan
over a year ago

England

There's a few in this thread.

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By *scobar67Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Add me girls / couples

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I have a huge friend list

I suppose a couple more won't hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with.

But what about the ones that interacted with you and you don't remember it

This is the 2nd time you reminded me of this. I'll now make a conscious effort in 2 weeks to rectify this..

Is this a veiled request btw?

Go on then !!

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I don’t have any FOPs so I don’t generally add people to my friends list. I just hotlist and inbox the cool ones

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Nice one, Am available ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. There are some I’d love to think we could be pals.

I may need to be braver. What’s the worst they could say…? ‘f’k off you perverted ass!’ .. I’ve had worse.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

I missed this !

Are they the apple of your eye?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not looking for new people to meet for sex, but it would be nice to have actual friends on here who are up for a chat and maybe no strings attached socials! I’m happy to chat to anybody but do tend to hold back because obviously most people don’t message you looking for friendship and I don’t want to waste people’s time if chatting is just a means to an end for them "

this is me right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me..."

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

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By *arriLadMan
over a year ago

North West

In for a bit

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Malmesbury

There are three very beautiful women (minds and bodies) so far on here that, if I was within their required age range and if I lived closer to them, I'd want to be friends with. Sadly life's like that but at least I get to "see" them on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

I missed this !

Are they the apple of your eye?

They are easy on the eye, very a-peel-ing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It worked. I invited him. He accepted.

I’m now on my own friends list. Result!

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By *weetcouple86Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We only accept friends if we’ve atleast chatted. We get a lot of guys that just randomly try to add us without any conversation they don’t want to be friends they just want to see pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

I missed this !

Are they the apple of your eye?

They are easy on the eye, very a-peel-ing!"

I apple-ud your wordplay effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

I missed this !

Are they the apple of your eye?

They are easy on the eye, very a-peel-ing!

I apple-ud your wordplay effort

I wouldn’t mind putting my Cox’s Pip in etc etc

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with.

But what about the ones that interacted with you and you don't remember it

This is the 2nd time you reminded me of this. I'll now make a conscious effort in 2 weeks to rectify this..

Is this a veiled request btw?

Go on then !!

I will stop now

you're still doing good though, there is a thing I've been reminding Lorenzo about for the past 4 years

It's going your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ps. Lovely idea Appletree

They’re awesome to the core

I missed this !

Are they the apple of your eye?

They are easy on the eye, very a-peel-ing!

I apple-ud your wordplay effort

I wouldn’t mind putting my Cox’s Pip in etc etc

I adore my wordy/witty friends. Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh, so its just to look at pics then, rather than getting to know me better?

I am hoping not?!

I wouldn't add anyone I have not interacted properly with.

But what about the ones that interacted with you and you don't remember it

This is the 2nd time you reminded me of this. I'll now make a conscious effort in 2 weeks to rectify this..

Is this a veiled request btw?

Go on then !!

I will stop now

you're still doing good though, there is a thing I've been reminding Lorenzo about for the past 4 years

It's going your way

My goodness.. 4 years.. its OK. I deserve this

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Sure friends are good to have. Share thoughts, ideas, humour. No problem with that.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for local friends for social occasions as well as extras

BP x"

Agreed 110%

Picture collectors are rife!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally always ask if its a no its a no

Dont have an issue with accepting requests though but would prefer a chat first

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

In a word: yes.

There are a few on here with whom I've chatted to with enthusing dialogue, and a few who traverse the Fab fora with much erudition.

But I never send a friend request; I can't help feeling it would be an imposition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in, great idea OP, and would be more than happy if you accept mine friend request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always in to find new sexy friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to add - I wouldn't say to just add anyone willy nilly. I like to get a feel of someone (no pun intended) which is often via the forum

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups. "

Wow.some people have to much time on their hands

always best to take precautions as can turn into a disaster boom goes private life

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Would love some fab friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for getting a friend.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Billy no mates here so this seems like a good idea

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Showing off now because I’m already friends with some lovely sexy people in this thread.

I’d be interested to know who else would be daft enough to be my friend mind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popping in x

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

I am always looking for new friends so happy to accept friend requests

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I'm always happy to have more friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few I would yeah.... Also be good to have some people to get to know, I like a good chat and seems many decent people on here.

I don't mind friend requests but if you're just doing it to look at my willy.... you're gonna be disappointed hahaha

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm unofficial friends with a few. I suppose a few more could be enriching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you'd like a friend that takes 8 years to reply then go ahead!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I'm unofficial friends with a few. I suppose a few more could be enriching

Sending a friend's request asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups. "

Yes I’ve had a message to say this was happening with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few I would yeah.... Also be good to have some people to get to know, I like a good chat and seems many decent people on here.

I don't mind friend requests but if you're just doing it to look at my willy.... you're gonna be disappointed hahaha "

Now wondering if that means there aren’t any pics of it or it’s generally just disappointing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's a few I would yeah.... Also be good to have some people to get to know, I like a good chat and seems many decent people on here.

I don't mind friend requests but if you're just doing it to look at my willy.... you're gonna be disappointed hahaha "

Damn it, there goes my friends invite out the window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few I would yeah.... Also be good to have some people to get to know, I like a good chat and seems many decent people on here.

I don't mind friend requests but if you're just doing it to look at my willy.... you're gonna be disappointed hahaha

Damn it, there goes my friends invite out the window

Just talked myself out of that one haven't I haha

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

I don't accept friend requests as I use my friends pics for people I meet

Generally if we are playing the getting to know game it's through messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a few I would yeah.... Also be good to have some people to get to know, I like a good chat and seems many decent people on here.

I don't mind friend requests but if you're just doing it to look at my willy.... you're gonna be disappointed hahaha

Now wondering if that means there aren’t any pics of it or it’s generally just disappointing

The mystery continues

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Their is a few I've chatted with,whom I'd like to be friends with.but I'm able to wait until something leads closer to the point of arrangements needs to be something positive.

Would people still keep a friend if the meeting doesn't go well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll open my friendship to folk today, why not

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Taunton

"Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x"

Fancy a friend fiddle

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x"

That's me out of the window then

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Ladies can we be friends ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a great question OP.

I’m not looking to ‘meet’ anyone or engage in sexual banter so that leaves me out in the cold somewhat on fab and quickly means people move on when they realise we aren’t going to meet.

I have found that I have been used in the past as a support system but nothing has been returned so they end up one sided.

I am always happy to make mutual friendship but because of my boundaries in place this becomes increasingly difficult.

So if anyone wants to have non sexual friendships, just normal ones, then please reach out

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Think I need to add I’m not going to accept random requests. If you’re not likely to be a meet then I’m not adding as a friend, and definitely not without chatting. Those on my hotlist I’ve had previous conversations with so that’s why I might suggest it to them. Sorry!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a great question OP.

I’m not looking to ‘meet’ anyone or engage in sexual banter so that leaves me out in the cold somewhat on fab and quickly means people move on when they realise we aren’t going to meet.

I have found that I have been used in the past as a support system but nothing has been returned so they end up one sided.

I am always happy to make mutual friendship but because of my boundaries in place this becomes increasingly difficult.

So if anyone wants to have non sexual friendships, just normal ones, then please reach out"

Luckily I've spoken to a few people that understand the boundaries when they see we're not looking for guys but will still chat like you would over coffee. It's nice, and a refreshing change.

Always happy to chat if you want too. I can reel my innuendos in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always up for new fabulous friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be friends with the lovely people from fab. I love to chat and you never know what might happen. Request away xx

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By *aughtycplStokeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

We are up for some new friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabulous idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few on here I'd love to get to know better but too often people assume guys automatically want to get their dick wet and don't want to just chat random shite and enjoy another person's company/outlook on life.

(And yes, it might lead there but it's not always the main aim!)

Always happy to chat with someone new

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By *irebrand 1263Man
over a year ago

near you

Friends please! Lets have some fun.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I tend to talk to people who aren't on my friends list, and don’t to those on it

For me being friends on here is simply to share/perv over friends only content and has no bearing on if we’d want to meet, or how we interact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a great question OP.

I’m not looking to ‘meet’ anyone or engage in sexual banter so that leaves me out in the cold somewhat on fab and quickly means people move on when they realise we aren’t going to meet.

I have found that I have been used in the past as a support system but nothing has been returned so they end up one sided.

I am always happy to make mutual friendship but because of my boundaries in place this becomes increasingly difficult.

So if anyone wants to have non sexual friendships, just normal ones, then please reach out

Luckily I've spoken to a few people that understand the boundaries when they see we're not looking for guys but will still chat like you would over coffee. It's nice, and a refreshing change.

Always happy to chat if you want too. I can reel my innuendos in

Innuendos are welcomed just don’t ask me what I’m going to do to you if I ever get the chance, you will be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Innuendos are welcomed just don’t ask me what I’m going to do to you if I ever get the chance, you will be disappointed

Do not ask the bearded guy to fuck you.... Popped it in notes and I've chucked a sticky note on my laptop too. Thanks for the warning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Innuendos are welcomed just don’t ask me what I’m going to do to you if I ever get the chance, you will be disappointed

Do not ask the bearded guy to fuck you.... Popped it in notes and I've chucked a sticky note on my laptop too. Thanks for the warning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anyone you'd like to be fab friends with on here but too worried about asking them in fear of being rejected? It may be someone you get on with in the forums or just whose photos you enjoy? Maybe they'll see this and give you a little Christmas treat in the form of a friend request?

I put my big girl pants on yesterday and asked. Thankfully they didn't block me and run away. Their friends only pictures were just wow as well

Tried that because it was someone I knew in real life not on fab and soon as they found out it was me they ran. Horrible feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve made a new fab friend from this thread and all I can say is wow. X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x

Fancy a friend fiddle

Oh I do like a good fiddle

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x

Fancy a friend fiddle

Oh I do like a good fiddle

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Here you go, oh fair maiden.

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Taunton

"Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x

Fancy a friend fiddle

Oh I do like a good fiddle

You might like to fiddle with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my big girl pants on yesterday and asked. Thankfully they didn't block me and run away. Their friends only pictures were just wow as well

Tried that because it was someone I knew in real life not on fab and soon as they found out it was me they ran. Horrible feeling "

Don't take it personally. They might just be private people.

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over a year ago

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Taunton

"I’ve made a new fab friend from this thread and all I can say is wow. X"

Who might this be

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I like being friends with people on here, in purely a platonic way. Means I can see of they've put a status up which maybe not very them so I like to check in on them. Also I like seeing their photos on my updates and even if we're platonic friends is nice to send a message saying it's a lovely picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any friends I've had usually die of boredom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like being friends with people on here, in purely a platonic way. Means I can see of they've put a status up which maybe not very them so I like to check in on them. Also I like seeing their photos on my updates and even if we're platonic friends is nice to send a message saying it's a lovely picture. "

I’d love to be your friend lovely lady. The world needs more people like you xx

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I pity anyone who sends me a friend request to see my friends pics - they're ones I get bored with or replace with nicer versions in my public pics!

There are people on here I'd love to chat to but I'm never sure how to start a conversation without sounding stalkerish and without being that tit who takes a forum conversation into private messages for no good reason. I do take advantage of the compliment threads to message sometimes, but not everyone joins in on them.

If anyone fancies having an over-chatty and more than slightly weird pal then do drop me a line!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Plus god I'm on one today. But I have young kids and a full time job. It's hard to get out and about to socials and such. So it's nice to have friends to chat to who are on your sexual wavelength even if you aren't going to get sexy with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (re)joined fab more to get to know people, and have friends I can be more open with... And have found that in spades. Probably more than I was expecting.

Always happy to natter to more ppl.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

If we've spoken or you'd like to speak I open to friends requests x

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

This!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x

Fancy a friend fiddle

Oh I do like a good fiddle

I beg your pardon

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Talked myself out of the OP.

Why are we not friends already?

I don't use my single profile often enough to see all your uploads so I'm going to be cheeky and try my luck

Ha, your luck trying is successful today! No idea why we're not friends already, going to resolve that now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww I love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like this idea, there are a few I would like to be friends with as I enjoy their forum contributions but haven't really spoken to them 1 to 1 enough to justify sending a friend request over. When it comes to pics, I'm very fortunate to have upgraded some from my hotlist to my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great shout OP, there certainly are a few, I'll have a wee peep through this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Especially the checking in.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I put my big girl pants on yesterday and asked. Thankfully they didn't block me and run away. Their friends only pictures were just wow as well

Also happy to make new friends on here. Those on my Fab friends list are a mix of those that I chat with or know in real life. Of those that I’m closer to the chat tends to be on other Apps. But it’s still good to connect. Especially with big socials coming along.

That invite includes men too. This is social after all.

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

There definitely are a few but I didn't want to overstep the mark. With most of them we only speak on the forum and I haven’t private messaged them at all and vice versa. I’m happy to accept friend invites if I partly know/have heard of you before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few i would love to be friends with but half the time my messages get left on unread...hot profiles must get hundreds of messages so i try not to take it to heart xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anyone wants to see what’s in my Friends Only gallery, don’t be shy, send a request!

Well I had one that wanted to peruse my friends only gallery! So thanks to that person (request accepted!). Applications still open but it’s a Black Friday special. All offers close at midnight tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of my fab friends are people who don't use the forums. I think there are maybe 2 at most on my list who do x

Fancy a friend fiddle

Oh I do like a good fiddle

Many a fine tune played on an old fiddle ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope no one sending me friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are a few, great idea op x

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

*Inbetweeners voice*

Oooo fab frieeends!

Haven't added any new ones for a long time now! Had the odd request here and there. But it's usually some bullshit profile where we've never spoken, either by PM or on the forums

I guess people like that mainly add for perving purposes? Not much to see in my friends-only though so they wouldn't gain anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to add - I wouldn't say to just add anyone willy nilly. I like to get a feel of someone (no pun intended) which is often via the forum

I like to get a feel of people too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't we be friends

I seen ya around for a long long time

I really remember you when you drank my wine

Why can't we be friends

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I quite like this idea.

It’s a weird thing how my friends list used to be people that I was meeting or those that I had met, now it’s increasingly full of people that are actually friends, without sexy times.

I’m trying to see it as a positive and not the slow loss of sexual activity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2.5 new friends today. I would say this has been a success

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm being brave and requesting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some that I have chatted with and some that I haven’t.

I wouldn’t say I’m wary in terms of causing offence from asking, more that I can be a bit flaky in terms of chatting so might not be giving what’s ‘expected’. I’ll fill your inbox one week, then nothing the next if I’m super-busy or just feeling quiet.

And I’ll admit it, being able to see each other’s Friends Only pics is something I like too, even if mine aren’t that special and I’m getting the better end of the deal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few couples i hqve spoke to a few time via the forums but they havnt popped up on here so guess im fresh out of luck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2.5 new friends today. I would say this has been a success "

I do need to ask. Who is 0.5 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2.5 new friends today. I would say this has been a success

I do need to ask. Who is 0.5 ?

Maybe it's 5 .5s....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2.5 new friends today. I would say this has been a success

I do need to ask. Who is 0.5 ?

Maybe it's 5 .5s....

It's a friend rating scale perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2.5 new friends today. I would say this has been a success "

You lucky sprout!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendzoning most of you all on a daily basis

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I just looked and found no-one from the forum asking to be friends - then realised I never posted on here. Oops.

Not that we have any friends only pictures so you'd not be getting much out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just looked and found no-one from the forum asking to be friends - then realised I never posted on here. Oops.

Not that we have any friends only pictures so you'd not be getting much out of it

Cancels request...

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Can you ever have too many friends to share

cake with??!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can you ever have too many friends to share

cake with??!!

What sort of cake?

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By *ocketrocket80Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Can you ever have too many friends to share

cake with??!!

Totally agree Emily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I had already posted on this ages ago but didn't...

I'm "friends" with two people on this thread, and enjoy the light hearted thirst free chats I've had with them. There's a lot to be said for a decent middle ground between forum amusement/fun/flirting and wanting to meet. Call it the friend zone if you will, I'm comfortable there (and, I would hope, behave pretty much the same as I do publicly here)

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I just looked and found no-one from the forum asking to be friends - then realised I never posted on here. Oops.

Not that we have any friends only pictures so you'd not be getting much out of it

It’s ok, I’ve not had one in over 4 hours

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Can you ever have too many friends to share

cake with??!!

What sort of cake? "

Ah well, now that's a whole other thread

... but here, even fussy cake sharers are welcome

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups.

Wow.some people have to much time on their hands

always best to take precautions as can turn into a disaster boom goes private life "

Yep gotta agree with this. I’m not on here looking for friends. I’ve got plenty of those already. I’m aware that there are people on here that have forged friendships and FairPlay to them. I’m here for NSA sex and if a friendship develops from that then great. I’m conscious so as not to muddy the water.This is a sex site. If your that interested in making friends then I would suggest using Facebook.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups.

Wow.some people have to much time on their hands

always best to take precautions as can turn into a disaster boom goes private life

I hate to say it but that’s a very narrow (and wrong) view of the site. It’s a swingers site, not a sex site. Swinging has always been as much about social interactions as sex, that means friendships.

You’re not a swinger? That’s fine! However you don’t get to tell others how to use the site that’s intended for exactly this purpose!

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups.

Wow.some people have to much time on their hands

always best to take precautions as can turn into a disaster boom goes private life

You’re not a swinger? That’s fine! However you don’t get to tell others how to use the site that’s intended for exactly this purpose! "

Who am I telling?.it’s my opinion and you either agree or you don’t.who made you warlord?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups.

Wow.some people have to much time on their hands

always best to take precautions as can turn into a disaster boom goes private life

If Fab was just a sex site, what would be the point of the forum? Plus I don't think other vanilla platforms are the place for talking about mfm for example. I think anyone using the forum is using fab as a social media platform.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Can you ever have too many friends to share

cake with??!!

Yes, because each additional friend means there will be less cake left for me

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By *urio77Man
over a year ago

northampton

"So not an actual friend, just to perve on their Friends pics?

I only accept those whom have connected with and meeting or met and have chatted with away from this otherwise it's pointless for me...

Yep, if I accept a friend request, it’s because I like the idea of us meeting up rather than to perve on each other.

Totally as their also need to be a build up of trust or goes pee-tong find your own images elsewhere

Or they pass your pics round their 'secret' offsite chat groups.

Wow.some people have to much time on their hands

always best to take precautions as can turn into a disaster boom goes private life

That’s a good point well made and I stand corrected. I didn’t think of it like that and your comment has highlighted my ignorance. I apologise. You’ve made me look at the site in a different more positive perspective. So thank you

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I thought I had already posted on this ages ago but didn't...

I love those sorts of chats. Some of my favourite ongoing conversations are with people I'll probably never meet, doesn't mean we can't have a natter and a laugh, and support each other when needed.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *ocketrocket80Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Can you ever have too many friends to share

cake with??!!

Yes, because each additional friend means there will be less cake left for me

Haha

Just get more cake

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Looking for local friends for social occasions as well as extras

BP x"

We’re the same, even more so since Covid. There’s a few on our hotlist….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2.5 new friends today. I would say this has been a success

I do need to ask. Who is 0.5 ?

They are a full person but very very short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2.5 new friends today. I would say this has been a success

I do need to ask. Who is 0.5 ?

They are a full person but very very short

Aww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2.5 new friends today. I would say this has been a success

I do need to ask. Who is 0.5 ?

They are a full person but very very short

Aww

There is room to make it 3.5 by the way

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I don't mind being asked, I sometimes ask now and then and most times luckily they're happy to add me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2.5 new friends today. I would say this has been a success

I do need to ask. Who is 0.5 ?

They are a full person but very very short

Aww

There is room to make it 3.5 by the way"

I don't think there is a friend list limit;-)

Don't think we ever spoken? I find the Christmas usernames too confusing !

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I just looked and found no-one from the forum asking to be friends - then realised I never posted on here. Oops.

Not that we have any friends only pictures so you'd not be getting much out of it

It’s ok, I’ve not had one in over 4 hours

I've only had one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gained a couple so thanks OP

happy with both !

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Is there anyone you'd like to be fab friends with on here but too worried about asking them in fear of being rejected?"

No, I take rejection very well

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