FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Morning ..Friday

Jump to newest
 

By *rivateparts! OP   Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

It's a sad feeling when you wake up and people expect you to carry on and act happy, but actually they couldn't really give a shit about you.

I hate feeling alone and being ignored by people I classed as friends.

Yes I know I can be a pain in the arse, I also know my own flaws and faults.

Some people don't know how to ask for help or have difficulty expressing their feelings.

Depression sets in, as does feeling worthless!

Now you have a nice day, but spare a thought for those who are just going through the motions.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll second that OP

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"It's a sad feeling when you wake up and people expect you to carry on and act happy, but actually they couldn't really give a shit about you.

I hate feeling alone and being ignored by people I classed as friends.

Yes I know I can be a pain in the arse, I also know my own flaws and faults.

Some people don't know how to ask for help or have difficulty expressing their feelings.

Depression sets in, as does feeling worthless!

Now you have a nice day, but spare a thought for those who are just going through the motions. "

I have felt the same way before PP. Good morning and my filter is off if you want to have a moan. Or anyone else that’s feeling down today

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Morning PP

Remember cake is the cure for everything... sharing cake thoughts with you!

Morning fabulous Fabbers above and below

...nearly the weekend whoop!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very good Friday Young Private . Sending you a lovely kiss on your lips just for you . You can do it I know you can xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people in this world are users. They use you for when they want/need something but don't actually think about how you feel personally. If someone is showing you positivity and support then that shows they may be a good person. When times are hard , your real friends show who they are...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning PP aww sending boobie hugs to you, know can be hard we can have people around but still feel so alone too winter doesn’t help I feel, self care coffee chocolate xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ppl could feel what i felt there would be mass suicides.

Its like trying jump off the surface of water trying to keep my sanity after the life ive lived.

The neglect,and bullying as a kid, being the outsider wherever i am.

Ive always been a ghost... only very few see me...

I dont ask for help though, ive learned that asking for help i just become a burden to others. I dont expect amy kindness, not after everything ive experienced.

Ive seen the insensitive and fickle side of ppl more than ive seen any form of kindness amd compassion.

But if we are both drowning, use me to stay afloat, at least one us makes it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

Life can be harsh even brutal at times but try and catch a moment every day of happiness...it’s hard I know and I’m genuinely here for anyone who needs a chat, men, women I really mean it!

Stay awesome you lot

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember every tough day you get through, your already stronger than you think you are.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning PP and all others.

Depression is a crushing affliction that feeds on itself. It leaves you hollow and unwilling to engage with the world because you deem yourself invisible and unworthy.

Good friends and good people are just that. However, they aren't miracle workers nor mind readers, especially from afar. If you consider those people to be good friends, it's most likely because they are.

However, you need to take a breath, be brave and make that move to contact them when you need the support and help. They'll be there. They haven't forgotten you. They've just been getting on with things but they'll be there for you when you need it.

You need to do your part to fight that depression. It has to come from within. It won't happen overnight and you will have slip ups in your fight but you have to want to fight it and keep fighting it. It's not a battle, it's a prolonged war.

Don't expect others to keep lifting you without your own effort. They have their own battles to fight also but can still be the support you need.

The first step to take is to tell yourself that people care. It may seem like a 'lie' to yourself and you will need to fight that feeling. People 'don't care' is a lie perpetrated by the depression to fool you into letting it rule you.

My missives tend to waffle on and put War and Peace to shame. Imagine if I actually wrote a novel!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nked rascalMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

Morning PP, mate, no one is gonna preach how best to deal with it, everyone handles it in their own way, with it without help, as long as those motions are going forward and there’s a focus, keep strong fella, and anyone else going through shitty times. There’s smiles and laughter ahead

Morning everyone above and below, it’s frontal Friday, so have a good one

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending love to all who suffer with Depression xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bore da PP dear chap

I am here buddy , just woke up mate ans ill send you a message via other channels bud .

Always here for my vest fab pal

Good morning chums,

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling you PP

Boobs out again - I hope at least one smile from you x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there.

Good things are always only around the corner

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a refreshing change to see that there's actually sensitive, respectful and considerate people on here.

Hopefully PP and Tasteslikesin can see, just from a handful of responses to this thread, that there are still good people left in the world that want to help.

I also think, people that haven't been at total rock bottom and experienced the absolute darkness, crushing loneliness and crippling anxiety aren't A) Able to identify it in others and most importantly B) Be able to help those who are in this situation.

As many of you guys have already said...I'm here if anyone wants a chat, anytime they like xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bore Da

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Happy Friday you sexy fabsters x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason I don't have friends or keep people "close". They are bound to let you down and make you feel depressed. I make my own happy now and I am much better for it.

Always here to put some boobs in your box if that's what you need.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Very good morning to all you people out there. Have a nice day.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a sad feeling when you wake up and people expect you to carry on and act happy, but actually they couldn't really give a shit about you.

I hate feeling alone and being ignored by people I classed as friends.

Yes I know I can be a pain in the arse, I also know my own flaws and faults.

Some people don't know how to ask for help or have difficulty expressing their feelings.

Depression sets in, as does feeling worthless!

Now you have a nice day, but spare a thought for those who are just going through the motions. "

Hey PP...I’m really sorry your struggling, if it makes you feel any better I have been through it and I came out the other side so I know how your feeling now and there is light at the end of the tunnel. All you can do right now is put one foot in front of the other. If you need someone to talk to just reach out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Morning PP, good morning all.

Sending love and hugs to all of those struggling today, I know my anxiety isn’t great atm and it gets tiring waking up every morning and starting the fight to regulate yourself all over again x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Morning. Friday already !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Good morning PP and all others.

Depression is a crushing affliction that feeds on itself. It leaves you hollow and unwilling to engage with the world because you deem yourself invisible and unworthy.

Good friends and good people are just that. However, they aren't miracle workers nor mind readers, especially from afar. If you consider those people to be good friends, it's most likely because they are.

However, you need to take a breath, be brave and make that move to contact them when you need the support and help. They'll be there. They haven't forgotten you. They've just been getting on with things but they'll be there for you when you need it.

You need to do your part to fight that depression. It has to come from within. It won't happen overnight and you will have slip ups in your fight but you have to want to fight it and keep fighting it. It's not a battle, it's a prolonged war.

Don't expect others to keep lifting you without your own effort. They have their own battles to fight also but can still be the support you need.

The first step to take is to tell yourself that people care. It may seem like a 'lie' to yourself and you will need to fight that feeling. People 'don't care' is a lie perpetrated by the depression to fool you into letting it rule you.

My missives tend to waffle on and put War and Peace to shame. Imagine if I actually wrote a novel!! "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning PP and everyone

PP sending you a cwtch

Hope everyone has a great day, to say I am relieved it's almost the weekend is an understatement.

NBVN x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Good Morning PP and all.

Sending tidings of hope and a peaceful mind x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

[Removed by poster at 26/11/21 08:07:44]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Morning PP and everyone…never allow anyone to make you feel less than your worth big hugs to you xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The solution is, no friends, no problems..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Good morning to all. Sending lots of love and hugs to anyone who needs one today. X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top