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As you get older what becomes....

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

...easier!?

There must be some benefits to getting older, surely??

We've mentioned the opposites in the other thread ...

How about the fact as you get older it's easier not to give a damn, and you're wiser to seeing through the BS ... for starters

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport

As I've got older, I know what a woman needs..sexually in particular. I'm still learning though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being grumpy and getting away with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and you tell people that's Bull... Also I have no bother in saying what I feel to be right... I respect people more... I don't wast time on dick heads apart from telling them they are dickheads

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I've found we have stopped worrying what anyone else thinks about us and we are just living our best lives, pleasing ourselves.

If we aren't anyones cup of tea, so what? Move along. Nothing to see here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I've got older, I know what a woman needs..sexually in particular. I'm still learning though! "

Pray tell what is it exactly what women want sexually?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choosing function over fashion. Flat boots and a cosy coat on nights out? Yes please!

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"As I've got older, I know what a woman needs..sexually in particular. I'm still learning though! "

...so better sex as we get older

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"As I've got older, I know what a woman needs..sexually in particular. I'm still learning though!

...so better sex as we get older "

Totally, it seems more relaxed and more liberating than when I was 17!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choosing function over fashion. Flat boots and a cosy coat on nights out? Yes please! "

Form follows function.........

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"As I've got older, I know what a woman needs..sexually in particular. I'm still learning though!

Pray tell what is it exactly what women want sexually?"

That would be telling! Every woman is different

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Being grumpy and getting away with it!"

...quite possible true for some

(Note: other dwarves are available )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.. Not giving a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm wouldn’t say that I always been “easy” ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Falling asleep on the sofa whilst watching tv

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Not giving a fuck certainly becomes easier with age! I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choosing function over fashion. Flat boots and a cosy coat on nights out? Yes please!

Form follows function........."

If this were 100% true then there wouldn’t be millions of homes with those beautiful but useless Alessi lemon squeezers.

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Falling asleep on the sofa whilst watching tv"

...afternoon naps

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I can honestly say I'm far happier being older than when I was younger x

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By *ommander DomMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"Falling asleep on the sofa whilst watching tv

...afternoon naps "

Ive mastered this already!

Netflix and Naps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgetting something I reminded myself to do two minutes ago

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Falling asleep on the sofa whilst watching tv

...afternoon naps

Ive mastered this already!

Netflix and Naps "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joining not giving a fuck brigade.

Orgasms. Somehow I find them easier each passing year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not giving a flying f what people think about you.

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Forgetting something I reminded myself to do two minutes ago "

...maybe forgetting some things more easily could be a blessing

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Saying no

Not caring what other people think

Doing what pleases you

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Joining not giving a fuck brigade.

Orgasms. Somehow I find them easier each passing year. "

Truly? ...any idea why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiding your favourite foods.

There's noone to tell me off. Siblings used to grass on me for hiding my favourites at the very bottom of the box when I was younger.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Walking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a women- Having absolute confidence in your own sexual desires and needs and not afraid to discuss them and direct a man in how to best please you

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Saying no

Not caring what other people think

Doing what pleases you"

Damn, I was just typing 'saying no'

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Walking "

...so years of practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose inhibitions sexually don’t give a scooby doo what people think or say

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Walking

...so years of practice "

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keeping the lawn in decent condition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgetting something I reminded myself to do two minutes ago

...maybe forgetting some things more easily could be a blessing "

Oh I’m sure there is the occasional silver lining to it

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Keeping the lawn in decent condition."

...very practical

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

As you age you become more tollerant of the opinions of others, be they stupid or bright, and less inclined to think of every battle as one to be fought to the death. That calmness and maturity gives you time to think and react appropriately.

In a way Mark Twain summed it up. "When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years."

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By *ommander DomMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Getting a free bus pass

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By *herubchubWoman
over a year ago

Nr the sea

Easier to stop tolerating the BS and standing up for yourself! So so much easier when older and you care less what others think of you! (family and dear friends excluded!) x

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Your taste improves, for everything, surely

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe


"As a women- Having absolute confidence in your own sexual desires and needs and not afraid to discuss them and direct a man in how to best please you "

Totally this!

I’ve definitely become much more in control of what I want, I’ve pushed more boundaries in the last month than I have in my life, and I give no shits what anyone else thinks.

I think I’ve also become a much more considerate lover to whoever I’m with, mainly because I’ve relaxed more about sex in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...easier!?

There must be some benefits to getting older, surely??

We've mentioned the opposites in the other thread ...

How about the fact as you get older it's easier not to give a damn, and you're wiser to seeing through the BS ... for starters "

Decisions. Able to be much more decisive.

Worry. Not giving so many fks what other think and letting that bind.

Calmer. Don’t get as excitable, but also find it easier to stay calm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At our age we find that my wife is finding it increasingly difficult to have penetrative sex. The natural vaginal lubrication is not there and we have to increasingly have to use lubricants. We have found that used open bottles unless kept refrigerated and clean can cause vaginal irritation. We tend to use replens which the NHS have subscribed for us.

Old age sex is not that easy. We persevere but we are in the end days.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

To not actually give a fuck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Lots of things become easier as you get older. As confidence and experience increases it's easier to deal with difficult situations or awkward people. For a lot of us our financial situation is easier and therefore life in general.

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By *mily36C OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Lots of things become easier as you get older. As confidence and experience increases it's easier to deal with difficult situations or awkward people. For a lot of us our financial situation is easier and therefore life in general. "

Hopefully true for most... finances get easier or we learn the value of things

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Car insurance gets cheaper

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

So see things in soft focus and triplicate.

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