FabSwingers.com forum: Action shots. Gents, why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, lots of people seem to have them on their profile. That's fine. Everyone can do as they want with their profile.

However, I'm suddenly receiving them in almost every new message.

So gents..why do you send them?

Curious to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they wanna say “hey check me out, I did a shag once”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed guys keep sending either face pics or dick pics when they send each message. Why? Once is enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've noticed guys keep sending either face pics or dick pics when they send each message. Why? Once is enough."

One guy told me he does that to prompt me to send one

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Yeah Ive noticed a lot more action shots being sent, not just one though, about 10 at a time plus a few angles of their cock too and messages reading like a CV/job application with no link to my profile at all. I assume it’s just a copy paste wide net casting thing going on.

And yeah a face pic on every message gets boring as they still do it after I’ve sent one in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single male, I would never have action shots with another person on my profile, it doesn't seem right to me. I often wonder also, if the other person knows a naughty photo of them is being used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be too busy enjoying it to take pics to send to other people.

Although Mines not seen any action for God knows how long I'd maybe take a pic for proof it actually happened haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cos they wanna say “hey check me out, I did a shag once” "

First time I've actually laughed today.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'd be too busy enjoying it to take pics to send to other people.

Although Mines not seen any action for God knows how long I'd maybe take a pic for proof it actually happened haha"

This is what I always think. When I had a joint profile we always meant to take some pics. Who the hell things oh hang on a minute we must take some pics for fab

. I don’t get it. Wouldn’t cross my mind.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking "

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them"

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be too busy enjoying it to take pics to send to other people.

Although Mines not seen any action for God knows how long I'd maybe take a pic for proof it actually happened haha

This is what I always think. When I had a joint profile we always meant to take some pics. Who the hell things oh hang on a minute we must take some pics for fab

. I don’t get it. Wouldn’t cross my mind. "

Exactly , you get carried away and then when you're all fucked out it's too late .... but far more fun than fumbling taking pics

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Maybe it’s so you can see they have the ability to put the penis in the vagina

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Maybe it's to say 'look here's some intimate pics of me shagging my wife that's shes unaware I'm sharing, I'd like to do the same with you'.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them"

I have no idea… most times I send a picture of my face with a message as what a lady or couple really wanna see is the money maker. If you believe in your sauce there’s no need to attach those kind of pics. We all know how to have sex after all hahaha

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"So, lots of people seem to have them on their profile. That's fine. Everyone can do as they want with their profile.

However, I'm suddenly receiving them in almost every new message.

So gents..why do you send them?

Curious to know"

You'll need to ask the guys who send them to you. They could all have individual reasons for doing so or maybe its the exact same, only they know.

Anyone else is guessing.

Enjoy the research if you can, please post the results

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I'd be too busy enjoying it to take pics to send to other people.

Although Mines not seen any action for God knows how long I'd maybe take a pic for proof it actually happened haha

This is what I always think. When I had a joint profile we always meant to take some pics. Who the hell things oh hang on a minute we must take some pics for fab

. I don’t get it. Wouldn’t cross my mind. "

'You know who' loved to show off. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate creativity etc and there were times I really enjoyed doing photos when we had an extended period together ... but not at the expense of the little time you have with someone when it's fleeting. I found that quite hurtful. There were times I felt like a prop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be too busy enjoying it to take pics to send to other people.

Although Mines not seen any action for God knows how long I'd maybe take a pic for proof it actually happened haha

This is what I always think. When I had a joint profile we always meant to take some pics. Who the hell things oh hang on a minute we must take some pics for fab

. I don’t get it. Wouldn’t cross my mind. "

Just set up the video and then take stills off it

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know "

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'd be too busy enjoying it to take pics to send to other people.

Although Mines not seen any action for God knows how long I'd maybe take a pic for proof it actually happened haha

This is what I always think. When I had a joint profile we always meant to take some pics. Who the hell things oh hang on a minute we must take some pics for fab

. I don’t get it. Wouldn’t cross my mind.

Yeah I think it would piss me off if someone just said wait stop I want to take some pics for fab!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text. "

Sorry that sounds a bit mean. It would put me off anyone not just you personally

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text. "

Of course it can, but I weigh up the positive vs negative and make a judgment based on the type of woman I’m looking for. I never send unsolicited dick or action pics so agree that is crass . But sometimes women want to know what they are getting you know

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text. "

Same, and I wouldn't expect someone's time with another person to represent their time spent with me, the connection/bond would be different as we're all different people so it seems like nothing more than an attempt at showing off. Or if every meet the fella does the same thing then it screams all about him and there ain't much of a connection in the slightest with whoever he's boning.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text.

Fair enough. Do they though? I wonder if any women do like to see action shots on a single profile. I know a few women from here and none of them do. I just think it may be doing more harm than good. Would be interesting to know how many do x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Really don't want to see them.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Cos they wanna say “hey check me out, I did a shag once” "

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text.

Well all I do is speak from my own experience on here for 8-9 years, and I guess for me a woman that was offended by an action shot on a swingers site would probably indicate (in my mind btw) that she may not be very liberal or sexually adventurous so it would probably go nowhere. I’m not saying you or the other ladies of a similar opinion are not liberal or sexually adventurous btw, I’m just explaining my thought process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun fact the first time I ever had pictures take during sex she pulled out the camera, birthday treat.!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I’m a bit of a voyeur so I quite like them. Having Access to people’s private footage is a bit of a turn on.

However, I wouldn’t want them sent to me in a private message. I’d much rather keep that separate.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

My biggest turn off so this was an interesting read! Haha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text.

If it works though it’s all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women aren't as visually stumulated as men. I don't think most women like seeing a guy she potentially might meet hanging out the back of previous meets, I think she'd rather see photos of just the guy. I don't think a woman not liking action shots means she's a prude in any way at all. Men and women are programmed differently as to what turns them on

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don’t think a lot of the guys that send them, converse in the forums. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t. I just send riddles, if you can solve them, then we can talk.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Women aren't as visually stumulated as men. I don't think most women like seeing a guy she potentially might meet hanging out the back of previous meets, I think she'd rather see photos of just the guy. I don't think a woman not liking action shots means she's a prude in any way at all. Men and women are programmed differently as to what turns them on "

Correct, but I also know a fair few ladies on fab some very well that are very visually stimulated so it’s wrong to say they are not as visually stimulated as men. But hey you take your approach I take mine. There’s no right or wrong here just a difference of opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's no right or wrong then why say it's wrong to say they're not as visually stimulated? In the main they're not, in my experience anyway especially when making first contact I wouldn't send photos like that. If after getting to know someone they may be happy to see those type of photos

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Look your clearly getting plenty action from fab so agree to disagree

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

The forum is a very small part of Fab, just because a few ladies say they don’t like them it doesn’t mean we ALL don’t like them, some of us do

People really can’t speak for others, you don’t really know everyone’s likes and wants, and guys you can’t tailor your profile according to 6 women on a forum that say they don’t like something,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text.

Ha, you’d be wrong there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text.

Or perhaps they just understand that some men have no clue and don't care about privacy and discretion. It doesn't mean they are prudes.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think overall that single men who have them in profiles do themselves no favours. A real deterrent to me

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text.

Or perhaps they just understand that some men have no clue and don't care about privacy and discretion. It doesn't mean they are prudes."

If you had read my posts properly you will see I’ve not said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text.

Or perhaps they just understand that some men have no clue and don't care about privacy and discretion. It doesn't mean they are prudes.

If you had read my posts properly you will see I’ve not said that

...and I guess for me a woman that was offended by an action shot on a swingers site would probably indicate (in my mind btw) that she may not be very liberal or sexually adventurous...

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text.

Or perhaps they just understand that some men have no clue and don't care about privacy and discretion. It doesn't mean they are prudes.

If you had read my posts properly you will see I’ve not said that

...and I guess for me a woman that was offended by an action shot on a swingers site would probably indicate (in my mind btw) that she may not be very liberal or sexually adventurous...

“May not be” “ (in my mind btw)” try reading the context. And where did I use the word prude!!! !-.). And if you had read previous contributions properly then you would understand that privacy and discretion are taken seriously (by me anyway). But I think your looking for an argument rather than joining the debate aren’t you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a cynical post.

If you don't like it. It's easy to ignore.

And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"What a cynical post.

If you don't like it. It's easy to ignore.

And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site. "

What’s sex and dating site got to do with it?

Can women not have likes, wants, preferences and turns offs just cos it’s for sex?

Such a strange comment lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But what about single women who have action shots on their profile? Do they receive the same level of vilification for having them…. Just asking

Like I said, do as you want with your profile. I'm asking why men send them

Maybe it’s “hey look what I can do and how much she’s enjoying it”

Nora I think yes there is that element and you have put yourself in a guys shoes on here. We are grains on sand on a beach and you have be active to get noticed.

I am an average looking guy - so that won’t get me noticed

I have an average slightly overweight body- so that won’t get me noticed

I’m getting on now - that rules me out of the under 50 filters.

I am not 6 foot plus - so that won’t get me noticed.

But in the bedroom I believe (someone has to

) that I am way way above average. So sometimes I lean on that to grab attention.

Photos or videos I post on my profile never show faces and are NEVER posted without the ladies permission. Not everyone that posts action shots are despicable cads you know

Yeah but do you not think it could work the opposite way? That would totally put me off you if I was looking, without even reading any profile text.

Or perhaps they just understand that some men have no clue and don't care about privacy and discretion. It doesn't mean they are prudes.

If you had read my posts properly you will see I’ve not said that

...and I guess for me a woman that was offended by an action shot on a swingers site would probably indicate (in my mind btw) that she may not be very liberal or sexually adventurous...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a cynical post.

If you don't like it. It's easy to ignore.

And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site.

What’s sex and dating site got to do with it?

Can women not have likes, wants, preferences and turns offs just cos it’s for sex?

Such a strange comment lol. "

Shut up you and bend over, you're only on here for sex!!!

I am of course joking

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"What a cynical post.

If you don't like it. It's easy to ignore.

And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site.

What’s sex and dating site got to do with it?

Can women not have likes, wants, preferences and turns offs just cos it’s for sex?

Such a strange comment lol.

Shut up you and bend over, you're only on here for sex!!!

I am of course joking

No action shots…, consider it a done deal! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a cynical post.

If you don't like it. It's easy to ignore.

And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site. "

Ohh really! Thank you for explaining that to us. There’s me thinking we were allowed preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a cynical post.

If you don't like it. It's easy to ignore.

And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site.

What’s sex and dating site got to do with it?

Can women not have likes, wants, preferences and turns offs just cos it’s for sex?

Such a strange comment lol.

Shut up you and bend over, you're only on here for sex!!!

I am of course joking

No action shots…, consider it a done deal! Ha "

Woohoo yessssssss

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"What a cynical post.

If you don't like it. It's easy to ignore.

And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site. "

Am I? Am I on here for sex?

Well fuck me sideways, you know more about me than I do. Or so you think.

People are individual and here for whatever reason they have. Me thinks you should remember that and stop making assumptions coz you make a fool of yourself

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I did a thing once and I am so proud of it that I want everyone to share in my wonderment...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"What a cynical post.

If you don't like it. It's easy to ignore.

And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site. "

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By *ylonloverxxMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I wouldn't even attempt an action shot.... both my hands would be shaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're trying out the GoPros they all got for Christmas.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

" And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site. "

From a lady, fab can be used for whatever I choose it to used for

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"What a cynical post.

If you don't like it. It's easy to ignore.

And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site. "

In your opinion. How do you know what women on here want

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"What a cynical post.

If you don't like it. It's easy to ignore.

And ladies, you're on here for sex; it's not a dating site.

In your opinion. How do you know what women on here want"

And yes we can ignore, but why send them in messages? I'm straight so a message containing various women's bits on a single man's profile is a major turn off.

If people want to post action shots on their profile, that's up to them, we can simply click off the profile.

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