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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Got me thinking this morning and after a short discussion - if us older ladies are hard work to talk to in DM.

Maybe the younger ones aren't really understanding our needs or desires at this time of our life. Or could it be, I've (we) outgrown them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect this depends who you are talking to and about what. And who counts as older.

Not something I've noticed, other than speed of reply varies (a business thing or a generation thing ?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think older women are hard to talk to?

I have no problem talking to anyone.

I think the only real difference is that after a lifetime of experience I know exactly what I like and want and I am not afraid to say so.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't think younger guys, under 35, are always quite prepared to be told what's what... I have no qualms saying what I want and don't want.

I will give them a hard time, but purely to make them think about how they approach women. If they're receptive, then it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it easier and much prefer to talk to women of my age and older. The conversation flows I find and there's a genuine interest in getting to know the person behind the profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suspect this depends who you are talking to and about what. And who counts as older.

Not something I've noticed, other than speed of reply varies (a business thing or a generation thing ?)"

Really basic convo and getting to know sexually - it's difficult if some profiles haven't got anything I can connect with, so to speak

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you think older women are hard to talk to?

I have no problem talking to anyone.

I think the only real difference is that after a lifetime of experience I know exactly what I like and want and I am not afraid to say so."

It's been mentioned we are, so not just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suspect this depends who you are talking to and about what. And who counts as older.

Not something I've noticed, other than speed of reply varies (a business thing or a generation thing ?)

Really basic convo and getting to know sexually - it's difficult if some profiles haven't got anything I can connect with, so to speak"
I wonder how many younger guys really know their kinks needs and preferences. I certainly didn't. And would have been nervous on sharing some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think younger guys, under 35, are always quite prepared to be told what's what... I have no qualms saying what I want and don't want.

I will give them a hard time, but purely to make them think about how they approach women. If they're receptive, then it's all good."

30 something is usually my main group to meet. I'm also quite direct because I don't want to waste my time or theirs... Can't help it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it easier and much prefer to talk to women of my age and older. The conversation flows I find and there's a genuine interest in getting to know the person behind the profile "

That tells me I need to look at 40s and older then....

Good point I'll change that on my profile right now

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

For me the great thing about women as they get older is that they tend to be a lot more comfortable in their body and they know what they want. And what they don’t want. And they ask for it. I love that and I think it makes for a much more open and interesting conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suspect this depends who you are talking to and about what. And who counts as older.

Not something I've noticed, other than speed of reply varies (a business thing or a generation thing ?)

Really basic convo and getting to know sexually - it's difficult if some profiles haven't got anything I can connect with, so to speakI wonder how many younger guys really know their kinks needs and preferences. I certainly didn't. And would have been nervous on sharing some. "

True, but I experimented early, 20s... A lot married young and sex life might of nose dived to nothing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the more senior ladies don't take any shit from the men and they don't like that.

More inexperienced women may be more friendly and put up with the 'meet now on my terms'crap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

The only women older than me are dust!! - when i was younger i always went for older women as they were more worldly and interesting- but you have to bring something to the table too as the days of them tolerating an arsehole because they look good have gone. As women get older i found they were looking for more than that they wanted someone who had a bit of everything. They were also confident enough to say it too. Most of all they liked to laugh x. Just my 2p worth xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps the more senior ladies don't take any shit from the men and they don't like that.

More inexperienced women may be more friendly and put up with the 'meet now on my terms'crap. "

Balls to that tipping the balance doesn't fit well with me. I did that with one guy, no more x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me the great thing about women as they get older is that they tend to be a lot more comfortable in their body and they know what they want. And what they don’t want. And they ask for it. I love that and I think it makes for a much more open and interesting conversation."

Love this input, thank you x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Perhaps the more senior ladies don't take any shit from the men and they don't like that.

More inexperienced women may be more friendly and put up with the 'meet now on my terms'crap. "

Exactly this.. I used to just go along with what they wanted when I was younger, hence me never really being happy or fulfilled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only women older than me are dust!! - when i was younger i always went for older women as they were more worldly and interesting- but you have to bring something to the table too as the days of them tolerating an arsehole because they look good have gone. As women get older i found they were looking for more than that they wanted someone who had a bit of everything. They were also confident enough to say it too. Most of all they liked to laugh x. Just my 2p worth xx"

Omg I'm only 3 years behind you. I hope I don't catch up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found the older ladies far easier to chat to. They are usually savvy and know what they want. They're usually more relaxed too. I would think it's how you chat that sets the tone.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"The only women older than me are dust!! - when i was younger i always went for older women as they were more worldly and interesting- but you have to bring something to the table too as the days of them tolerating an arsehole because they look good have gone. As women get older i found they were looking for more than that they wanted someone who had a bit of everything. They were also confident enough to say it too. Most of all they liked to laugh x. Just my 2p worth xx"

Then I’m dust!!

I would agree with most of the above but at my age I’ve abandoned younger guys. I tend to look more nearer my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think younger guys, under 35, are always quite prepared to be told what's what... I have no qualms saying what I want and don't want.

I will give them a hard time, but purely to make them think about how they approach women. If they're receptive, then it's all good."

What is what? I thought it was just what?

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