FabSwingers.com forum: Why?

By *oroRick1027 OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

What does it mean when it says Sorry you can't send a private message to this user. Why?

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By *rucking-HellMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Because they've probably blocked messages from single males.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"What does it mean when it says Sorry you can't send a private message to this user. Why?"

Your profile doesn't match with their filters

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Truro

"What does it mean when it says Sorry you can't send a private message to this user. Why?

Your profile doesn't match with their filters"

Yes a common filter is by age & often males are blocked too

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By *oroRick1027 OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

They were looking for men and women between 18 and 99

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"They were looking for men and women between 18 and 99"

You sure it doesn't say "not looking for men and women between 18 and 99"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t it normally tell you why?

Eg Sorry you cant send a message to this user as you’re outside their age range or don’t want to meet single men or only want to meet people with public photographs etc

What exactly does it say when you try to message them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means you can't send them a message. Simple. Move on.

Probably that you're blocked. Even if it says they are looking for men, people block men so as not to get bombarded, and they can do their own searching instead.

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By *oroRick1027 OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Doesn’t it normally tell you why?

Eg Sorry you cant send a message to this user as you’re outside their age range or don’t want to meet single men or only want to meet people with public photographs etc

What exactly does it say when you try to message them? "

It says ' Sorry you can't send a private message to this user" then under that in a yellow bar it says 'Why?'

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By *oroRick1027 OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"It means you can't send them a message. Simple. Move on.

Probably that you're blocked. Even if it says they are looking for men, people block men so as not to get bombarded, and they can do their own searching instead."

It tells you if you're blocked. I'm not

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Could be they've had their account suspended

Could be you're outside a filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’ve been unplugged from The Matrix.

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Truro

"They were looking for men and women between 18 and 99"

Sounds like they have used the default settings (lazy!)

Regardless what their profile says they can still set different filters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others have said you can set a filter even if it’s on profile they would accept messages from you

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