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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everything there is about a woman’s menstrual cycle. Urgh. I’ve just had the most idiotic interaction with a chap. I had to cancel our meet due to Mother Nature. He responded with well i know a lot about periods I was married to a woman for a long time and you should have known when it was coming. Congratulations mate. I am the one with the uterus. I’ve had periods for a few years now and they like to surprise me. He said I must’ve know it was coming. I was like mate I have PCOS and endo my periods are erratic . Anyway subsequently he got blocked it really pissed me off. He was so entitled. Grrrrrr angry sparkles.

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

I don't think many men claim this to be fair lol he's blocked now so just move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think many men claim this to be fair lol he's blocked now so just move on."

It’s like he was married to one woman for a period of time which meant he knew everything about the female reproductive cycle. It’s like man there’s so many different varying factors no two women are the same. It just annoyed me. I defo dodged a big misogynistic bullet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fool clearly thinks all women are the same.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I don't think many men claim this to be fair lol he's blocked now so just move on.

It’s like he was married to one woman for a period of time which meant he knew everything about the female reproductive cycle. It’s like man there’s so many different varying factors no two women are the same. It just annoyed me. I defo dodged a big misogynistic bullet. "

I was about to say, sounds like a bullet well dodged, although an unpleasant experience.

Hope the next attempt at meeting someone runs more smoothly, Sparkles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fool clearly thinks all women are the same."

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think many men claim this to be fair lol he's blocked now so just move on.

It’s like he was married to one woman for a period of time which meant he knew everything about the female reproductive cycle. It’s like man there’s so many different varying factors no two women are the same. It just annoyed me. I defo dodged a big misogynistic bullet.

I was about to say, sounds like a bullet well dodged, although an unpleasant experience.

Hope the next attempt at meeting someone runs more smoothly, Sparkles "

Awwh thank you. Yes move on now. I just needed a rant I was so angry I knew I’d be thinking about it as I was drifting to sleep if I didn’t get it off my chest.

Onwards and upwards though I’m taking a bit of a break me thinks.

. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ones that suddenly pop up once a month and seem surprised when you tell them that you have mother nature that get me. Yet they are like clockwork and almost beat you app notication to say its coming.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I don't think many men claim this to be fair lol he's blocked now so just move on.

It’s like he was married to one woman for a period of time which meant he knew everything about the female reproductive cycle. It’s like man there’s so many different varying factors no two women are the same. It just annoyed me. I defo dodged a big misogynistic bullet.

I was about to say, sounds like a bullet well dodged, although an unpleasant experience.

Hope the next attempt at meeting someone runs more smoothly, Sparkles

Awwh thank you. Yes move on now. I just needed a rant I was so angry I knew I’d be thinking about it as I was drifting to sleep if I didn’t get it off my chest.

Onwards and upwards though I’m taking a bit of a break me thinks.

. X "

Hopefully the rant has been cathartic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only meet Irishmen from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well be sounds like 100% plonker!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the ones that suddenly pop up once a month and seem surprised when you tell them that you have mother nature that get me. Yet they are like clockwork and almost beat you app notication to say its coming. "

I wish I could be precise to know when it was coming. Annoyingly my cycle is everything from 28-50 days. Yay for PCOS. Men have no idea honestly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only meet Irishmen from now on "

I do love an Irish accent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well be sounds like 100% plonker!

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Just a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think many men claim this to be fair lol he's blocked now so just move on.

It’s like he was married to one woman for a period of time which meant he knew everything about the female reproductive cycle. It’s like man there’s so many different varying factors no two women are the same. It just annoyed me. I defo dodged a big misogynistic bullet.

I was about to say, sounds like a bullet well dodged, although an unpleasant experience.

Hope the next attempt at meeting someone runs more smoothly, Sparkles

Awwh thank you. Yes move on now. I just needed a rant I was so angry I knew I’d be thinking about it as I was drifting to sleep if I didn’t get it off my chest.

Onwards and upwards though I’m taking a bit of a break me thinks.

. X

Hopefully the rant has been cathartic? "

Definitely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supriced he didn’t say well if the rivers red I just take the dirt track

And yes he shouldn’t have sed that at least he showed his true self out for him self

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By *ig_time_CharlieMan
over a year ago

Cambridge and London

Do I sound stupid by saying that I wouldn't be offended at all to have to re arrange a meet for any reason as it would mean I'd actually got a meet arranged in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow some lads really do like detail, all i need to hear is "it's that time..." you don't even need to finish the sentence i will happily go find something else to do and leave you to it.

In fact the only time i have moaned about timing is when i'm nipping to the shop out the blue.

Still, at least you get that your a really nice guy look from the woman serving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well at our age not an issue with us. Back in the day were a total mystery to me, never really knew when she was due. Guess the whisper before penetration was the hint to do it the other way was the giveaway.

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By *..FirstMan
over a year ago

london


"Everything there is about a woman’s menstrual cycle. Urgh. I’ve just had the most idiotic interaction with a chap. I had to cancel our meet due to Mother Nature. He responded with well i know a lot about periods I was married to a woman for a long time and you should have known when it was coming. Congratulations mate. I am the one with the uterus. I’ve had periods for a few years now and they like to surprise me. He said I must’ve know it was coming. I was like mate I have PCOS and endo my periods are erratic . Anyway subsequently he got blocked it really pissed me off. He was so entitled. Grrrrrr angry sparkles. "

Absolutely, he is a dumb ass, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife's periods have been all over the place in the last couple of years ranging from around 20 days to at a guess 35 days.

It makes planning meets very tricky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything there is about a woman’s menstrual cycle. "

Is that one of them electric bike thingies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything there is about a woman’s menstrual cycle. Urgh. I’ve just had the most idiotic interaction with a chap. I had to cancel our meet due to Mother Nature. He responded with well i know a lot about periods I was married to a woman for a long time and you should have known when it was coming. Congratulations mate. I am the one with the uterus. I’ve had periods for a few years now and they like to surprise me. He said I must’ve know it was coming. I was like mate I have PCOS and endo my periods are erratic . Anyway subsequently he got blocked it really pissed me off. He was so entitled. Grrrrrr angry sparkles. "

But does he know it attracts bears?

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"I don't think many men claim this to be fair lol he's blocked now so just move on.

It’s like he was married to one woman for a period of time which meant he knew everything about the female reproductive cycle. It’s like man there’s so many different varying factors no two women are the same. It just annoyed me. I defo dodged a big misogynistic bullet. "

Sounds more like the bloke is a bit of a know-it-all, has no awareness of what areas he has limited knowledge, and would feel utterly confident in taking the lead in other areas where he isn’t got a clue, regardless of whether he is dealing with a female or not. So just a general arsehole rather than specifically being a misogynist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man mansplaining period to you.. bloody hell.. heh.

Next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there’s one thing I’ve learnt in life (with my extensive knowledge of the Lady cycle) it is NEVER argue with a woman on her period

He’s a brave, or foolish, man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d file that in the ‘thank fuck I didn’t meet that idiot’ box, and move on.

Someone like that isn’t worth wasting your energy on.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't think he sounds misogynistic. I couldn't claim to fully understand the male body and all it's workings and problems and as the general education in society regarding periods is that they happen every month it's not too far of a leap for that to be most people's 'fact'

I used to watch my friend doubled over and sliding down walls and having to be sent home from school and I used to think wtf is up with her?

I never had period problems and so couldn't understand her problem. Learning takes years.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It might have been a bit silly but that might have genuinely been how he felt. Look at posts where people don't understand what a woman goes through - whether that's pain or duration.

Granny is right about learning - we should have more education/opportunity to learn about the differences in periods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fool clearly thinks all women are the same."

It’s like when women begin to think men are all the same…it’s crazy isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry you had that response from him.

He was upset about the postponement. It didn't matter what the reason for it was.

Regardless of what you would've told him, he would have found a thousand reasons why you were making excuses not to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fool clearly thinks all women are the same.

It’s like when women begin to think men are all the same…it’s crazy isn’t it? "

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"I don't think many men claim this to be fair lol he's blocked now so just move on.

It’s like he was married to one woman for a period of time which meant he knew everything about the female reproductive cycle. It’s like man there’s so many different varying factors no two women are the same. It just annoyed me. I defo dodged a big misogynistic bullet. "

Misogynistic is being thrown around a little too loosely these days

A fool that thinks he knows it’s all? Yesh I’d say so

Someone with a deep seeded hatred for all women because he thought all periods were the same? I dunno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation and entitlement aren’t attractive, are they? Tosser.

You shouldn’t have had to justify yourself or argue the toss over your own body.

My periods are all over the place at the moment, largely due to being on a low calorie diet, and my contraceptive implant nearing the end of its life!

Hope you’re ok xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total waste of oxygen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not saying what he said was right, some people just don't think about what they say and maybe said it out of frustration.

Tbh not sure what rinsing him publicly will do, except get people jumping in and rinsing him as well and that is never attractive either.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Has he not read the man handbook? Leave women's business to the women.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Just an idea and I’m sure people will have reasons why it won’t work….

Why not plan every meet as a social with the option of more on the same day if everything goes well. That way both parties know there could be a possibility of something extra but expectations are at a level where it may or may not happen.

Also this could save everyone involved the disappointment of a cancellation as first and foremost it’s a social meeting.

Like I said just an idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a dad of 3 girls I know everything I need to know. Stay clear.

Joking aside, some of the pain I've seen I can only wish i could take it away from them.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

People can only know what they’re educated on, I didn’t know or understand these things until I knew people with a similar issue.

Chances are, he thought that you were trying to fob him off with a vague excuse (which does happen) and got annoyed, in turn you got annoyed at his lack of understanding.

It seems clear that you weren’t compatible and you dodged a ‘meh’.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’d be quite happy I’d dodged him

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Maybe she was a special woman who had a perfect cycle…unlike most of us well dodged

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I thought this was a thread on Pernod at first glance which i know a lot about- as for periods not so much!!

The situation could have been handled much more sensitively by the guy who could have just settled for a blowjob instead!! The utter pig!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP has the right to meet or not to meet but given the circumstances would a social meeting been arranged?

Surely it’s not beyond the wit of adults to react to a change in circumstances and behave accordingly. Perhaps a few drinks in a pub or just a social interaction was called for?

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Same suggestion I'd give to anyone.

Delete, block as necessary, move on.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

Heading: “men who think they know ...”.

Body of note: reference to ONE man who made an arse of himself. Not all men.

The singular of men is man.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I get "why don't you take the pill to stop them" if only it were that easy

Mine are pretty regular and I track them on Clue, but every now and again they surprise me!

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Everything there is about a woman’s menstrual cycle. Urgh. I’ve just had the most idiotic interaction with a chap. I had to cancel our meet due to Mother Nature. He responded with well i know a lot about periods I was married to a woman for a long time and you should have known when it was coming. Congratulations mate. I am the one with the uterus. I’ve had periods for a few years now and they like to surprise me. He said I must’ve know it was coming. I was like mate I have PCOS and endo my periods are erratic . Anyway subsequently he got blocked it really pissed me off. He was so entitled. Grrrrrr angry sparkles. "

He clearly doesn’t understand periods, as he didn’t just ‘Stay Quiet and Provide Chocolate’.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Everything there is about a woman’s menstrual cycle. Urgh. I’ve just had the most idiotic interaction with a chap. I had to cancel our meet due to Mother Nature. He responded with well i know a lot about periods I was married to a woman for a long time and you should have known when it was coming. Congratulations mate. I am the one with the uterus. I’ve had periods for a few years now and they like to surprise me. He said I must’ve know it was coming. I was like mate I have PCOS and endo my periods are erratic . Anyway subsequently he got blocked it really pissed me off. He was so entitled. Grrrrrr angry sparkles. "

He was basically calling you a liar and saying you were using a period as an excuse not to meet. Not a good basis for an intimate encounter. You did the right thing. However, sadly, there are people on here who use that sort of excuse when it is not true.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Hes only angry at himself because he should have covered that with you before you got to the point of making firm arrangements

Im sure he wont make the same mistake again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP has the right to meet or not to meet but given the circumstances would a social meeting been arranged?

Surely it’s not beyond the wit of adults to react to a change in circumstances and behave accordingly. Perhaps a few drinks in a pub or just a social interaction was called for?"

Sounds like the bloke was demanding a shag so a beer wouldn't be enough. Maybe OP should have offered anal and a bj to make him feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hes only angry at himself because he should have covered that with you before you got to the point of making firm arrangements

Im sure he wont make the same mistake again "

How would it have been covered? Periods just happen sometimes, no warning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just an idea and I’m sure people will have reasons why it won’t work….

Why not plan every meet as a social with the option of more on the same day if everything goes well. That way both parties know there could be a possibility of something extra but expectations are at a level where it may or may not happen.

Also this could save everyone involved the disappointment of a cancellation as first and foremost it’s a social meeting.

Like I said just an idea"

Because most (not all, but most) will agree to a social at first but once it becomes clear there may not be a chance of any action they will absolutely ghost. It's just too much effort...

Anyway OP, if this guy is so clueless about female reproductive systems he probably wouldn't have known his way around a vag either. You've dodged a massive bullet

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth


"Heading: “men who think they know ...”.

Body of note: reference to ONE man who made an arse of himself. Not all men.

The singular of men is man. "

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth


"Fool clearly thinks all women are the same.

It’s like when women begin to think men are all the same…it’s crazy isn’t it? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was more the fact he then retorted “I know about endometriosis” as a come back when I said about it being the reason I had irregular periods. The fact is I run a support group for women with it and not one of us experiences the same thing! He was just pissed he wasn’t getting laid. Never mind. Nextttt haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was more the fact he then retorted “I know about endometriosis” as a come back when I said about it being the reason I had irregular periods. The fact is I run a support group for women with it and not one of us experiences the same thing! He was just pissed he wasn’t getting laid. Never mind. Nextttt haha. "

It really is a lucky escape (for you).

He would probably have told you that you're doing sex wrong.

Or that your orgasm was wrong.

Or that the other women he fucked liked xyz so you are wrong for not liking the same thing.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I'm really sorry to hear that.

Seriously who on earth put the "men" in menstrual? We men should be more cognisant.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

On a positive note OP he was clearly pissed off so obviously was very keen and looking forward to meeting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get "why don't you take the pill to stop them" if only it were that easy

Mine are pretty regular and I track them on Clue, but every now and again they surprise me!"

Loving the entitlement. Yes, happily will take pills back to back and then suffer worse when it finally arrives. It always messed me up. But sure. Why don't you "just take pills".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a positive note OP he was clearly pissed off so obviously was very keen and looking forward to meeting you "

Take it as a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been married to 2 women. One regular as clockwork, the other totally erratic.

What a silly and pompous thing to say.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Well he just sounds special, glad you

Dodged that bullet, and I feel I must apologise for some of man kind

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

It sounds as if you had a lucky escape, with that attitude it could have been an unpleasant meet.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Makes me think of Rachel on friends to Ross, no uterus no opinion.

Really irritates me when anyone thinks they know more about me, than I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are dicks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Makes me think of Rachel on friends to Ross, no uterus no opinion.

Really irritates me when anyone thinks they know more about me, than I do! "

Omg I’m stealing this. I didn’t know it was a quote from friends.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Makes me think of Rachel on friends to Ross, no uterus no opinion.

Really irritates me when anyone thinks they know more about me, than I do!

Omg I’m stealing this. I didn’t know it was a quote from friends. "

Ha ha when Rachel is having braxton hicks, feel free to use!

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