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By *Jsoulsearcher OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Has anyone ended up in bed with someone who on the face of it just wasn't your type? And had a great time? And broadened your horizons as a result?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope. I need to have a certain attraction to someone x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Yes! Absolutely yes. It was an experience for me many years ago. Every encounter with her was like unraveling another layer of deep-rooted sapsiosexuality and mind-blowing sensuality.

Her outer shell held little interest for me, initially. She taught me an invaluable lesson on how "initial perception" can be a dirty term.

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By *ver the hill for fabMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Yeah all the time it was great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a fair few times. One ended up as a two year relationship. We were chalk and cheese, but somehow it worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone ended up in bed with someone who on the face of it just wasn't your type? And had a great time? And broadened your horizons as a result?"

I’m not sure how you end up in bed with someone that wasn’t your type? If you have no attraction to them then why are you in that situation in the first place?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m often surprised at who I find attractive.. I have no type so it’s a variety of guys that I’m drawn to. Nothing physically links any of them

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Yep. I thought I was into people my own age or older, then a young gentleman flipped that thought on its head!!

Since then, I would definitely say I am more drawn towards younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has been 1 guy who wasn’t my usual “type” but we got on so well, initially I wasn’t sure if I wanted things to go further than a social but then he kissed me and I was putty in his hands

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes. I have declined the offer to meet a few man who messaged me but then bumped into them at a party or club at a later date. On paper they were not what I was looking for but after meeting face to face I soon realised I had made a mistake as we ended up having some fantastic fun.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I used to have a type many years ago but not now.I can be attracted to all sorts!

Mike

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes, several times. One in particular looked nothing like her photos. But had the most beautiful smile and laugh. We have been friends ever since. Very good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm not your type, let's find out

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I don't have a type, just attraction is either there or it isn't and if it's not there then I won't be ending up in bed with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think one of the problems a lot of ppl have is being too quick to make a decision regarding attraction. I mean sure you got your preferences, we all have preferences, but in some cases attraction doesnt just appear at first glance and it takes time to manifest

The internet and social media exacerbate the problem as it offers a great deal of choice by expanding that search radius, so many ppl often fall victim to the choice paradox (look it up, theres even a book about it), as a result ppl tend to lean towards those who give them instant stimulation

My very good friend is one of them who i didnt feel an attraction to at first but after a while the attraction built up and a couple times have indulged in some mutual sexual fantasy over text. Sometimes ppl just need to be a little more open minded and see where things go before actually making a proper decision

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No I don't have a type apart from them all being male

If I don't find him attractive once face to face then that's not going to change and I'd never do a intoxicated pity fuck

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think one of the problems a lot of ppl have is being too quick to make a decision regarding attraction. I mean sure you got your preferences, we all have preferences, but in some cases attraction doesnt just appear at first glance and it takes time to manifest

The internet and social media exacerbate the problem as it offers a great deal of choice by expanding that search radius, so many ppl often fall victim to the choice paradox (look it up, theres even a book about it), as a result ppl tend to lean towards those who give them instant stimulation

My very good friend is one of them who i didnt feel an attraction to at first but after a while the attraction built up and a couple times have indulged in some mutual sexual fantasy over text. Sometimes ppl just need to be a little more open minded and see where things go before actually making a proper decision"

I need that attraction straight away otherwise things aren't going anywhere.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

It has happened in the outside world, not in the fab world that people, usually tenants, clients, and other work related connections, that first got up my nostrils, I've ended up warming to, but generally speaking, if I don't actually fancy someone with immediate effect, they have more chance of raising The Titanic, than what makes me smile as I dry myself down whilst looking in the mirror after taking a shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of times. Attraction doesn’t always mean chemistry. There’s been times I’ve been physically attracted to someone and the sex has been crap due to lack of chemistry and personality. I’ve taken risks and slept with someone who perhaps wasn’t my “type” and it’s turned out amazing. Sometimes you need to step out of your comfort zone in order to grow.

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