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By *isAdventure69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

About updates mentioning you ?

I mostly find it cringy and on occasion creepy

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In general, very creepy.

If they’re friends then it’s different but it’s usually people that are filtered out trying to catch attention which is deeply problematic.

I’d probably report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never noticed anyone mention me, but I hardly ever look. Not sure if be bothered either way to be honest.

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By *isAdventure69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"In general, very creepy.

If they’re friends then it’s different but it’s usually people that are filtered out trying to catch attention which is deeply problematic.

I’d probably report them "

Agreed , if it’s friends and it’s an “in joke” that’s perfectly cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’ll never happen so I don’t know how I’d feel. I do think it’s a little odd, comes across as a bit like ‘hands off he/she is mine’.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I’m not aware of this happening to me, do you get notifications for this or is it just luck if you see it?

Back to the question, I don’t think I would appreciate it.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Its normally someone I've blocked complaining that I've blocked them, so I only know about it if someone tells me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you message them and ask them to remove it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not happened to me yet, but I'd block the person if someone did. It's creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not happened to me but it sounds desperate if they don't know you and even if they do know you, it's a bit cringe because it screams "Look! I know someone on Fab!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm, do you mean on here or like a local police update?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

With friends and people I know where its flirtatious or implied it can be fun.

With people I don’t know or had any interaction with I’d find that odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone updated theirs for me to message them. I have filters on so anyone unverified can't contact me. It was creepy so I blocked. Subsequent accounts made and I just carry on blocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting on it to happen but that _isadventure69 is kinda hot isn't she, might let the people in my local area know by way of update

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"About updates mentioning you ?

I mostly find it cringy and on occasion creepy

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Never happened to me. But you do have great knockers worthy of an update

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Someone updated theirs for me to message them. I have filters on so anyone unverified can't contact me. It was creepy so I blocked. Subsequent accounts made and I just carry on blocking. "

Wasn’t me honest. I was at the bingo with my Nan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About updates mentioning you ?

I mostly find it cringy and on occasion creepy

"

Haha. Nope, never seen it to be honest.

Unless you misread mine. “I have had a mis adventure this weekend’. Sorry, I meant something completely different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a good or bad idea - it's a great bit of promoting!

Who wouldn't look at a profile who's been mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone updated theirs for me to message them. I have filters on so anyone unverified can't contact me. It was creepy so I blocked. Subsequent accounts made and I just carry on blocking. "

Dear Appletree, I wrote you but you still ain't callin'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly get mentioned anywhere so on someone’s status update I would assume they meant someone else

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Wouldnt bother me unless was nasty x

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Some of their complaints I agree with, some are downright slander, I let my press secretary refute the worst ones

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By *isAdventure69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Not happened to me but it sounds desperate if they don't know you and even if they do know you, it's a bit cringe because it screams "Look! I know someone on Fab!""

The update says he knows me and to message him …

The guy is in his twenties so not someone I would meet , I just hope we’re not neighbours

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By *isAdventure69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Anyone feeling left out ?! … I’m happy to include you in my updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not happened to me but it sounds desperate if they don't know you and even if they do know you, it's a bit cringe because it screams "Look! I know someone on Fab!"

The update says he knows me and to message him …

The guy is in his twenties so not someone I would meet , I just hope we’re not neighbours "

I'd block and move on but I wonder if you can report the profile too if you're worried about privacy. Good luck, I appreciate it can be scary

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've had it happen and asked them to remove it as its so cringy x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think... you've got good taste ya spanner.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

It’s possibly the single most creepy, slimy, cringy, thing on fab. I wish I could just block them and not have to see them

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Isn’t it the same as someone starting a post about someone else, saying how beautiful they are?

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

If it happens, I'll let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not happened to me but it sounds desperate if they don't know you and even if they do know you, it's a bit cringe because it screams "Look! I know someone on Fab!"

The update says he knows me and to message him …

The guy is in his twenties so not someone I would meet , I just hope we’re not neighbours "

Ask a man to mail him and ask about you. See what he says.

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