FabSwingers.com forum: FLR, are they a thing?

By *oungJayy OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

FLR - female led relationships

I see posts about them, and stories about them (which are always a great read!)

However hopew common is this?

Are you in one, if so how did that develop?

Do you tend to find they're more common with kink or without?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t comment on FLR but I do have FLM by Mel & Kim in my head now.

Sorry OP I know that this will mean absolutely NOTHING to you, what with you being so young and all that, but maybe some other oldies like me out there will have that earworm in their head for the rest of the evening

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this like Hyacinth Bucket?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found myself in one with my last relationship, wasnt out of choice more something i discovered over time, it got extremely toxic cos she wasnt the most emotionally mature, and very controlling

I guess they can be good for some men, but regardless of the gender of the one who leads, everyone should be careful of who they let lead the relationship

By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

When swinging doesn't the woman always set the tempo? A bit of encouragement, encouraging but she has to want to break through that 'lust barrier's and go for it.....

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FLR.. You mean in general (not sexually). The opposite of the "traditional/society" view of a relationship?

I wouldn't say we were in one, nor are we in a traditional (MLR) either. We both bring in a similar income, we both provide childcare equally (heck, childcare? They're our own children - we pick up the slack from each other when needed). I, Mrs doesn't cook - husband does it all but I do all the cleaning.

I'm not better than him and he's not better than me.