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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

A bit of a random one but I saw a name today and it reminded me of my first ever love, a brief summer fling and I lost contact after we parted ways.

It’s put me in a whimsical nostalgic mood and I was wondering, who was the first person that you said the magical words “I love you” to, other than family members and meant it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My now husband. I mean it every time I say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only did that last year. So it's still quite fresh. "

My ex boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first long term boyfriend over a meal at centre parks. He turned out to be a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First Girlfriend was I was about 14....she broke up with me the day after so regretted that

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

To D.

Jo.Xx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

See I love people and tell them and I mean it be it my best mate etc. Though I may be odd thinking like this.

My first love was when I was in school. We liked each other all the way in school but never at the same time. I suspect we were always destined to be friends but teenage confusion and all that. We both found relationships with other people but were still best mates until he sadly passed away in an accident when we were 21. Never told him I loved him as a friend. And it's something I regret and vowed never to do again. So my mates will randomly get I love you loads messages because love makes the world go around

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

My first husband x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

My best friend 9 years ago and I tell her that I love her every single day we speak

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't remember the first time we said it but my first love was my high school boyfriend. Still some affection for him to this day, it's just a shame he's a bit of an idiot .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first love of course.

He sang me a song and wiped the tears of my face.. Happy ones I must add. Wrote wonderful letters. We moved in together - i moved out of family home for him. He made me try and be better myself. He was everything I wanted but it didn't have a happy end. I truly did love him and when things went bad it was a first painful heartbreak too. We did reunite months after and I got my apology for all the lies and wrongdoings. Funnily enough karma got him and taught him a painful lesson as his next girlfriend did to him exactly what he did to me.. even his family pointed it out. So I do believe fate does serve consequences to us for how we hurt people. It's just a shame we had to go through such a twirl. It was too beautiful to be true perhaps. Reality isn't so pinky and if we can't deal with darkness honestly together, the light won't get in... but we were young and naive. Still. Great memories.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My first serious boyfriend. Was with him from 18 until I was 27.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first love I was with from aged 14 to almost 18. After we split up I turned into a right slut for a couple of months

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

An ex from Scotland my brain still thinks this but the other side is telling me run

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

My ex wife, so in my early 20's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex. I thought it was lobe but it really wasn't. I was very young and naive.

Now I know what true love is I know that what I felt then was nowhere near.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first true love we got engaged nearly married but it all feel apart when we where 21 we had been together 4 years

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"My now husband. I mean it every time I say it "

That’s really sweet

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"See I love people and tell them and I mean it be it my best mate etc. Though I may be odd thinking like this.

My first love was when I was in school. We liked each other all the way in school but never at the same time. I suspect we were always destined to be friends but teenage confusion and all that. We both found relationships with other people but were still best mates until he sadly passed away in an accident when we were 21. Never told him I loved him as a friend. And it's something I regret and vowed never to do again. So my mates will randomly get I love you loads messages because love makes the world go around "

I adore this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ex but problem was I only loved him as a person, I just wasn't in love with him, pretty sad really. Which is why I had to leave him, it wouldn't have been fair to stay with him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex-wife. We were together 16 years but all good things come to an end.

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