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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i had a message off a man i had met a while ago.he was coming into the area and asked to meet. I messaged him back agreeing to the meet.anyway i gave him details where to pick me up.he turned up and was parked a bit further up the street but saw me come out and drove down. He spoke to me but as i went to get into car he sped off as fast as he could.i thought 'what the fuck?.has anything like this happened to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to me once I had met woman while go for fun the she text me to go for coffee she park round corer from where I live as I got closer she drove off

Must have been in hurry or bottled it

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By *leanandkeenMan
over a year ago

jarrow


"i had a message off a man i had met a while ago.he was coming into the area and asked to meet. I messaged him back agreeing to the meet.anyway i gave him details where to pick me up.he turned up and was parked a bit further up the street but saw me come out and drove down. He spoke to me but as i went to get into car he sped off as fast as he could.i thought 'what the fuck?.has anything like this happened to you?"

Sounds like a lucky escape I can’t see the point in arranging to meet and doing that or not showing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. A new meet, I was walking to the arranged place, he was in a taxi, in contact via text, I asked is that you in the taxi which was slowing to where I was, then he said no and it sped off.

Guess he didn't like what he saw.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

How rude of him.

We arranged to meet a man in a pub. He stood at the bar and ignored us until I texted him to let him know where we were sitting. It became clear that he'd hoped we wouldn't realise he was there and just leave.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Bloody hell, how rude!

Sorry that has happened to you, just no need.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"i had a message off a man i had met a while ago.he was coming into the area and asked to meet. I messaged him back agreeing to the meet.anyway i gave him details where to pick me up.he turned up and was parked a bit further up the street but saw me come out and drove down. He spoke to me but as i went to get into car he sped off as fast as he could.i thought 'what the fuck?.has anything like this happened to you?

Sounds like a lucky escape I can’t see the point in arranging to meet and doing that or not showing up"

I can. I planned to meet a man but when I turned up he was 10+years older and 6inches shorter than he claimed to be. I said hello and goodbye in the same breath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met 2 couples for a social before we were all going to a club. One of the couples were a bit odd in the pub and disappeared.

When us 2 couples were walking to the club, the 3rd couple sped past in their car shouting ou the window "see ya!"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We met 2 couples for a social before we were all going to a club. One of the couples were a bit odd in the pub and disappeared.

When us 2 couples were walking to the club, the 3rd couple sped past in their car shouting ou the window "see ya!" "

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"i had a message off a man i had met a while ago.he was coming into the area and asked to meet. I messaged him back agreeing to the meet.anyway i gave him details where to pick me up.he turned up and was parked a bit further up the street but saw me come out and drove down. He spoke to me but as i went to get into car he sped off as fast as he could.i thought 'what the fuck?.has anything like this happened to you?

Sounds like a lucky escape I can’t see the point in arranging to meet and doing that or not showing up

I can. I planned to meet a man but when I turned up he was 10+years older and 6inches shorter than he claimed to be. I said hello and goodbye in the same breath."

I've been in that situation. I had a drink with him but made it very clear why it wouldn't be going further. I wouldn't have left without at least saying why I was leaving.

I think that's a very different scenario to what has been described in a few posts on the thread.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Seems very rude, quite odd, maybe he didn’t like what he saw

But it raises a question of ethics. I know we all say we wouldn’t prefer to be told, but be honest

You arrange a meet, your walking up to where you arranged to meet, they see you coming up. What would you prefer

They just quietly get up and leave. It’s obvious they didn’t like what they saw. No fuss made

They make an effort to let you know. “Hey sorry but I thought you’d look different from your pictures, I’m not interested so I’m gonna head out”.

I feel a lot of people say they want the 2nd option, I feel it would crush many and they’d actually prefer the 1st.

Dunno what I’d prefer. Ones more “polite”. Ones more subtle

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Seems very rude, quite odd, maybe he didn’t like what he saw

But it raises a question of ethics. I know we all say we wouldn’t prefer to be told, but be honest

You arrange a meet, your walking up to where you arranged to meet, they see you coming up. What would you prefer

They just quietly get up and leave. It’s obvious they didn’t like what they saw. No fuss made

They make an effort to let you know. “Hey sorry but I thought you’d look different from your pictures, I’m not interested so I’m gonna head out”.

I feel a lot of people say they want the 2nd option, I feel it would crush many and they’d actually prefer the 1st.

Dunno what I’d prefer. Ones more “polite”. Ones more subtle "

Without question I'd prefer the first option. It's much easier to tell yourself that they're an arse than to face the fact that they found you less attractive than is acceptable to them.

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"Seems very rude, quite odd, maybe he didn’t like what he saw

But it raises a question of ethics. I know we all say we wouldn’t prefer to be told, but be honest

You arrange a meet, your walking up to where you arranged to meet, they see you coming up. What would you prefer

They just quietly get up and leave. It’s obvious they didn’t like what they saw. No fuss made

They make an effort to let you know. “Hey sorry but I thought you’d look different from your pictures, I’m not interested so I’m gonna head out”.

I feel a lot of people say they want the 2nd option, I feel it would crush many and they’d actually prefer the 1st.

Dunno what I’d prefer. Ones more “polite”. Ones more subtle "

I'd like to think most people would have the decency to at least take the 2nd option. To leave without saying anything is just rude in my opinion.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Seems very rude, quite odd, maybe he didn’t like what he saw

But it raises a question of ethics. I know we all say we wouldn’t prefer to be told, but be honest

You arrange a meet, your walking up to where you arranged to meet, they see you coming up. What would you prefer

They just quietly get up and leave. It’s obvious they didn’t like what they saw. No fuss made

They make an effort to let you know. “Hey sorry but I thought you’d look different from your pictures, I’m not interested so I’m gonna head out”.

I feel a lot of people say they want the 2nd option, I feel it would crush many and they’d actually prefer the 1st.

Dunno what I’d prefer. Ones more “polite”. Ones more subtle

Without question I'd prefer the first option. It's much easier to tell yourself that they're an arse than to face the fact that they found you less attractive than is acceptable to them."

Can’t deny 2nd option had it perks though. No one know how they will react. He’ll have no fury like a woman scorned and judging by the abuse some guys send on here, I’d imagine it’s absolutely a possibility they make a scene

As a guy that’s why I wouldn’t mind option 2 done to me. If that makes them feel safer to just leave without facing a possible scene occurring

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Seems very rude, quite odd, maybe he didn’t like what he saw

But it raises a question of ethics. I know we all say we wouldn’t prefer to be told, but be honest

You arrange a meet, your walking up to where you arranged to meet, they see you coming up. What would you prefer

They just quietly get up and leave. It’s obvious they didn’t like what they saw. No fuss made

They make an effort to let you know. “Hey sorry but I thought you’d look different from your pictures, I’m not interested so I’m gonna head out”.

I feel a lot of people say they want the 2nd option, I feel it would crush many and they’d actually prefer the 1st.

Dunno what I’d prefer. Ones more “polite”. Ones more subtle

Without question I'd prefer the first option. It's much easier to tell yourself that they're an arse than to face the fact that they found you less attractive than is acceptable to them.

Can’t deny 2nd option had it perks though. No one know how they will react. He’ll have no fury like a woman scorned and judging by the abuse some guys send on here, I’d imagine it’s absolutely a possibility they make a scene

As a guy that’s why I wouldn’t mind option 2 done to me. If that makes them feel safer to just leave without facing a possible scene occurring "

I'm confused now. I meant I'd prefer them to just get up and leave. That tells me all I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Den but I had the squirts and needed a poo!!!!!

*disclaimer*

It wasn’t really me!!!

T

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Seems very rude, quite odd, maybe he didn’t like what he saw

But it raises a question of ethics. I know we all say we wouldn’t prefer to be told, but be honest

You arrange a meet, your walking up to where you arranged to meet, they see you coming up. What would you prefer

They just quietly get up and leave. It’s obvious they didn’t like what they saw. No fuss made

They make an effort to let you know. “Hey sorry but I thought you’d look different from your pictures, I’m not interested so I’m gonna head out”.

I feel a lot of people say they want the 2nd option, I feel it would crush many and they’d actually prefer the 1st.

Dunno what I’d prefer. Ones more “polite”. Ones more subtle "

It wasn’t the first time they’d met though.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

That's just bizarre! I could maybe understand if you hadn't met before... awful either way.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Seems very rude, quite odd, maybe he didn’t like what he saw

But it raises a question of ethics. I know we all say we wouldn’t prefer to be told, but be honest

You arrange a meet, your walking up to where you arranged to meet, they see you coming up. What would you prefer

They just quietly get up and leave. It’s obvious they didn’t like what they saw. No fuss made

They make an effort to let you know. “Hey sorry but I thought you’d look different from your pictures, I’m not interested so I’m gonna head out”.

I feel a lot of people say they want the 2nd option, I feel it would crush many and they’d actually prefer the 1st.

Dunno what I’d prefer. Ones more “polite”. Ones more subtle

It wasn’t the first time they’d met though. "

That's what I thought, very different scenario to "you don't look like your pics".

On a first meet if someone sees me and bolts then fair enough, it's just another way of saying no, but surely that's not something you'd do to someone you've already met?

Just rude!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Seems very rude, quite odd, maybe he didn’t like what he saw

But it raises a question of ethics. I know we all say we wouldn’t prefer to be told, but be honest

You arrange a meet, your walking up to where you arranged to meet, they see you coming up. What would you prefer

They just quietly get up and leave. It’s obvious they didn’t like what they saw. No fuss made

They make an effort to let you know. “Hey sorry but I thought you’d look different from your pictures, I’m not interested so I’m gonna head out”.

I feel a lot of people say they want the 2nd option, I feel it would crush many and they’d actually prefer the 1st.

Dunno what I’d prefer. Ones more “polite”. Ones more subtle

It wasn’t the first time they’d met though.

That's what I thought, very different scenario to "you don't look like your pics".

On a first meet if someone sees me and bolts then fair enough, it's just another way of saying no, but surely that's not something you'd do to someone you've already met?

Just rude!"

Exactly. Very odd! And rude

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Weird that he’d do that having already met you and gone out of his way to get back in contact. People are super weird

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Fortunately nothing like the above has happened to me, I'm waiting for someone to say "really sorry but I prefer you in black and white to colour"

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not yet.

However I did go on a date once and the fella went to the loo, came back and said “we both know this isn’t going to go anywhere so let’s leave it” and he sat there and waited for me to leave.

I was mortified.

I think I’d rather they pretended they were SAS reserves and had just had a bleeper to get their asses to the airport to parachute into Guatemala or something. I’d make myself believe that,

I like the gently gently approach!

Had you parted on bad terms and then made up and for some reason he was getting revenge OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bloody hell, how rude!

Sorry that has happened to you, just no need."

i was about to open car door when he sped off.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Bloody hell, how rude!

Sorry that has happened to you, just no need.i was about to open car door when he sped off."

Nob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems very rude, quite odd, maybe he didn’t like what he saw

But it raises a question of ethics. I know we all say we wouldn’t prefer to be told, but be honest

You arrange a meet, your walking up to where you arranged to meet, they see you coming up. What would you prefer

They just quietly get up and leave. It’s obvious they didn’t like what they saw. No fuss made

They make an effort to let you know. “Hey sorry but I thought you’d look different from your pictures, I’m not interested so I’m gonna head out”.

I feel a lot of people say they want the 2nd option, I feel it would crush many and they’d actually prefer the 1st.

Dunno what I’d prefer. Ones more “polite”. Ones more subtle

Without question I'd prefer the first option. It's much easier to tell yourself that they're an arse than to face the fact that they found you less attractive than is acceptable to them.

Can’t deny 2nd option had it perks though. No one know how they will react. He’ll have no fury like a woman scorned and judging by the abuse some guys send on here, I’d imagine it’s absolutely a possibility they make a scene

As a guy that’s why I wouldn’t mind option 2 done to me. If that makes them feel safer to just leave without facing a possible scene occurring

I'm confused now. I meant I'd prefer them to just get up and leave. That tells me all I need to know. "

Yeah, I think he got his options one and two mixed up

I agree, walking/driving off is rude therefore you can justifiably assume the other person is an obnoxious arse and the problem is entirely theirs rather than be forced to accept that (to them) you're too hideous to pay with

Mr

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I wonder if his significant other was ringing him....

For mine he got off the train we both walked up to each other, smiled and walked back the way we had each come from.

I was 6" taller than him in flats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell, how rude!

Sorry that has happened to you, just no need.i was about to open car door when he sped off."

I still don't get it - you've met him before ..did you get an answer later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if his significant other was ringing him....

For mine he got off the train we both walked up to each other, smiled and walked back the way we had each come from.

I was 6" taller than him in flats "

Good point about the wife phone call.

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By *lairekTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester


"Bloody hell, how rude!

Sorry that has happened to you, just no need.i was about to open car door when he sped off."

Definitely a case of Premature Acceleration ...

Seriously rude though, what has happened to manners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a message off a man i had met a while ago.he was coming into the area and asked to meet. I messaged him back agreeing to the meet.anyway i gave him details where to pick me up.he turned up and was parked a bit further up the street but saw me come out and drove down. He spoke to me but as i went to get into car he sped off as fast as he could.i thought 'what the fuck?.has anything like this happened to you?"

Not to the same extent but took time off work to meet someone on an early morning meet ,as it suited her the best , drove over an hour to get there ,told me where to meet her , went there , but she was just like a female Kyzer Soze ,just disappeared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that but had a guy come down and we had sex, laying there and he said he needs to get some rennies from his car and he fucked off.

Fine but for the last 4 years he has tried to have a repeat meet and each time I say nah cos you fucked off without saying good bye.

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By *lairekTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester


"Not that but had a guy come down and we had sex, laying there and he said he needs to get some rennies from his car and he fucked off.

Fine but for the last 4 years he has tried to have a repeat meet and each time I say nah cos you fucked off without saying good bye. "

Yep.

Isn't it strange how the rudest people have the shortest memory?

I had to laugh once reading an escorts comment section, feeling sad about the missed client who had lost 4 grans in the last fortnight

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Not that but had a guy come down and we had sex, laying there and he said he needs to get some rennies from his car and he fucked off.

Fine but for the last 4 years he has tried to have a repeat meet and each time I say nah cos you fucked off without saying good bye. "

You should have said are you going to keep your rennies in your pocket this time instead of going to car to get them and not coming back.

Sounds like he probably had a partner maybe and needed to get back to her, that's just a theory though but can't say if want to just jump out of bed after sex and just go without saying goodbye

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Not that but had a guy come down and we had sex, laying there and he said he needs to get some rennies from his car and he fucked off.

Fine but for the last 4 years he has tried to have a repeat meet and each time I say nah cos you fucked off without saying good bye.

You should have said are you going to keep your rennies in your pocket this time instead of going to car to get them and not coming back.

Sounds like he probably had a partner maybe and needed to get back to her, that's just a theory though but can't say if want to just jump out of bed after sex and just go without saying goodbye "

Can't say I'd want to just jump out of bed is what that should say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that but had a guy come down and we had sex, laying there and he said he needs to get some rennies from his car and he fucked off.

Fine but for the last 4 years he has tried to have a repeat meet and each time I say nah cos you fucked off without saying good bye.

You should have said are you going to keep your rennies in your pocket this time instead of going to car to get them and not coming back.

Sounds like he probably had a partner maybe and needed to get back to her, that's just a theory though but can't say if want to just jump out of bed after sex and just go without saying goodbye "

He said he needed a shit but still, he could’ve said he was leaving instead of lying and slinking off. I was in bed like a knob thinking Christ his car is only on the drive behind mine. Since then I move my car before arrival, get them to park on the drive then I slip out and block them in.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Not that but had a guy come down and we had sex, laying there and he said he needs to get some rennies from his car and he fucked off.

Fine but for the last 4 years he has tried to have a repeat meet and each time I say nah cos you fucked off without saying good bye.

You should have said are you going to keep your rennies in your pocket this time instead of going to car to get them and not coming back.

Sounds like he probably had a partner maybe and needed to get back to her, that's just a theory though but can't say if want to just jump out of bed after sex and just go without saying goodbye

He said he needed a shit but still, he could’ve said he was leaving instead of lying and slinking off. I was in bed like a knob thinking Christ his car is only on the drive behind mine. Since then I move my car before arrival, get them to park on the drive then I slip out and block them in. "

He definitely should have been honest, or just had one before heading to see you. I thought every guy done the shower, shit and shave before seeing someone.

Good thinking, there's no sneaking away then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I feel a lot of people say they want the 2nd option, I feel it would crush many and they’d actually prefer the 1st.

Dunno what I’d prefer. Ones more “polite”. Ones more subtle "

I think being "brutally" honest is the best policy for the person saying it, although it's harder to do, mainly because it's really tough to be the person hearing it.

But, if I said to someone "You don't look like you said" or "you actually stink of fags but said you don't smoke" (or whatever the mismatch was), and it was a fair cop, I'd actually be more worried for myself having to say something potentially mortifying than upsetting them with the truth. Especially if they were in full knowledge that they were chancing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell, how rude!

Sorry that has happened to you, just no need.i was about to open car door when he sped off.

Definitely a case of Premature Acceleration ...

Seriously rude though, what has happened to manners?"

Underrated post

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"...feeling sad about the missed client who had lost 4 grans in the last fortnight "

Blimey how many grandparents did he have??!!

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.


"i had a message off a man i had met a while ago.he was coming into the area and asked to meet. I messaged him back agreeing to the meet.anyway i gave him details where to pick me up.he turned up and was parked a bit further up the street but saw me come out and drove down. He spoke to me but as i went to get into car he sped off as fast as he could.i thought 'what the fuck?.has anything like this happened to you?"

Looking at your profile I can only say that he missed out on something very special from a genuinely horny woman.

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By *lairekTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester


"...feeling sad about the missed client who had lost 4 grans in the last fortnight

Blimey how many grandparents did he have??!! "

It was a not so subtle dig at a potential client who had used the same funeral excuse on numerous occasions when not turning up.

Harsh... But fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry this happened to you - what a dickhead he was.

In response to your question, no this hasn’t happened to me, but then I wouldn’t have a complete stranger pick me up. Apart from the safety issue, there’s the fact that asking a guy to transport me creates a weird power imbalance. So I wouldn’t be comfortable putting myself in that position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a message off a man i had met a while ago.he was coming into the area and asked to meet. I messaged him back agreeing to the meet.anyway i gave him details where to pick me up.he turned up and was parked a bit further up the street but saw me come out and drove down. He spoke to me but as i went to get into car he sped off as fast as he could.i thought 'what the fuck?.has anything like this happened to you?

Sounds like a lucky escape I can’t see the point in arranging to meet and doing that or not showing up

I can. I planned to meet a man but when I turned up he was 10+years older and 6inches shorter than he claimed to be. I said hello and goodbye in the same breath."

Would the meet if gone ahead if he was 6 years older and 10 inches taller?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite the same but had something similar I just put it down to chanceing they luck but they also never came back ither so who knows

Arrange a quick meet guy came up before hand I sed safe play only

Came in sucked him hard went to ask him for the condom got the ooo left it in the car

Sed well run out and get it

He went out I heard a car start and drive away

I thought ooo well take he’s off and I was right never came back

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"Bloody hell, how rude!

Sorry that has happened to you, just no need.i was about to open car door when he sped off."

kevin wernt behind you with his keys was he

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I have stood somebody up before, when I was much younger.

We hadn't shared photos, but had described what we would both be wearing. I saw him arrive and he was absolutely gorgeous. I didn't want to be a disappointment to him, so I didn't meet him.

I did message him later and explain my reasons and apologise. It was all due to my own insecurities.

I still feel bad about it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd expect to inform them, or vice-versa, 'Thanks, but no thanks'.

It's insulting and potentially anxiety causing, to just run away. Face your fears, be compassionate and leave meets and the world, a better place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have stood somebody up before, when I was much younger.

We hadn't shared photos, but had described what we would both be wearing. I saw him arrive and he was absolutely gorgeous. I didn't want to be a disappointment to him, so I didn't meet him.

I did message him later and explain my reasons and apologise. It was all due to my own insecurities.

I still feel bad about it.

"

You definitely shouldn't feel like that. You're not a disappointment at all!

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud


"I have stood somebody up before, when I was much younger.

We hadn't shared photos, but had described what we would both be wearing. I saw him arrive and he was absolutely gorgeous. I didn't want to be a disappointment to him, so I didn't meet him.

I did message him later and explain my reasons and apologise. It was all due to my own insecurities.

I still feel bad about it.

You definitely shouldn't feel like that. You're not a disappointment at all! "

I will never know because I didn't meet him. I should have let him decide at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow read all these, cant believe people are like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that but had a guy come down and we had sex, laying there and he said he needs to get some rennies from his car and he fucked off.

Fine but for the last 4 years he has tried to have a repeat meet and each time I say nah cos you fucked off without saying good bye. "

Should have told him to go fetch more Rennies

Btw OP so sorry that happened to you, what a dick wad! Plain rude and unacceptable

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I met a couple in my local pub once. I thought our communication was a bit odd but I couldn’t quite put my finger on what was wrong.

I arrived just a few minutes late. Literally three minutes past the agreed time. Very busy pub. As I was entering a couple were walking out. He said “you must be Jay, I’m sorry she’s not in the mood for it tonight”. They left.

Daft thing was they had travelled a long way to meet me. Their profile was soon deleted. No idea what was going on there.

I had another disaster in that pub a few months later but that another story. Lol.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Aww bless you! Think most people have had experienced some rude people or fake profiles. That is awful to have done that to you! What a Cockwomble his loss xox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a message off a man i had met a while ago.he was coming into the area and asked to meet. I messaged him back agreeing to the meet.anyway i gave him details where to pick me up.he turned up and was parked a bit further up the street but saw me come out and drove down. He spoke to me but as i went to get into car he sped off as fast as he could.i thought 'what the fuck?.has anything like this happened to you?"

That's shit Dee, you've met before and

he spoke to you but still drove off

Were there any issues the last time you both met, seemed like he wanted to play games doing that

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Anyone and everyone can change their mind at anytime.

Delete block if necessary move on.

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By *he normal oneMan
over a year ago

Hereford


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He said he needed a shit but still, he could’ve said he was leaving instead of lying and slinking off. I was in bed like a knob thinking Christ his car is only on the drive behind mine. Since then I move my car before arrival, get them to park on the drive then I slip out and block them in. "

I no had a proper chuckle at the thought of you blocking them in.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I met a couple in my local pub once. I thought our communication was a bit odd but I couldn’t quite put my finger on what was wrong.

I arrived just a few minutes late. Literally three minutes past the agreed time. Very busy pub. As I was entering a couple were walking out. He said “you must be Jay, I’m sorry she’s not in the mood for it tonight”. They left.

Daft thing was they had travelled a long way to meet me. Their profile was soon deleted. No idea what was going on there.

I had another disaster in that pub a few months later but that another story. Lol. "

The first couple had probably had a row when she discovered the lovely "surprise" he'd arranged for her just before you turned up. You being three minutes late probably saved her and you from a very awkward situation.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I think he’d hoodwinked her into coming.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd not be shocked if it happened to me. I've put loads of weight on so ain't the same as they'd remember and for a fair few people that would make a massive difference to their level of attraction. People are wired how they're wired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a strange meet... Messaging a lady agree3 to meet.. Chatted for a while asked me to go somewhere decreate...at said location she jumped from her car to mind... Gave me a blow job... Left and blocked me on here...

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