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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only consists of help and tips for men using the site.

I get a lot of traffic, like a lot a lot so would it be helpful if I added a bit about single guys having public pictures or videos of them doing sexual acts with other women? I’ll say something like the majority of single women are put off by pictures/videos containing other women. First there’s the issue of whether consent has been given and also it’s very off putting.

If these are things that you enjoy keep them in your private pictures and share them with the women who specifically request or show interest in seeing those kind of pictures/vids.

Reason I’m asking is because I genuinely believe the only reason most guys do this is to be like look, look what I can do or look what I can pull. It’s such a niche thing so don’t know why they’d want to make it even harder for themselves by putting off women when apparently us women are short supply as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full agree and sometimes you see more of the girl than the guy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles.

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By *igboywxmMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Each to their own. Nobody’s business what pictures you choose to show and are allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I agree 100% xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles."

They’re probably trying to look all cool and liberal.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Glad I don’t display anything like that due to my lack of meets lol but wouldn’t put anything with a lady on my profile as it’s always one of those cases does the lady know

Discretion is a main thing for everyone?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

You want to put it on your profile, put it on your profile.

I don't know how much difference it will make (it's not against site rules to have them) but if it makes you feel better then why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.9% guys don’t read profiles

Tested this buy hiden a key word somewhere in text and very rare was it used

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

w

Wouldn’t it be crazy if we lived in a world where lots of different people liked lots of different things and 1 person can’t try to make a rule for all?

Totes cray cray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd argue that my profile is a good representation of me. No point in pretending to be someone else to please a few. I've not checked, but pretty sure all of my pics are just me anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles."

Women in their 20's? Or middle aged sexless men with 20 yr old women profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99.9% guys don’t read profiles

Tested this buy hiden a key word somewhere in text and very rare was it used "

The types that should read and learn won't.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not for me. Instant delete and block if single profiles have those kind of pics on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles.

Women in their 20's? Or middle aged sexless men with 20 yr old women profiles? "

Women in their 20s with verified profiles and verified by camera.

Only because you don't like the story doesn't mean you can twist the narrative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles.

Women in their 20's? Or middle aged sexless men with 20 yr old women profiles?

Women in their 20s with verified profiles and verified by camera.

Only because you don't like the story doesn't mean you can twist the narrative "

Just asking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wouldn’t it be crazy if we lived in a world where lots of different people liked lots of different things and 1 person can’t try to make a rule for all?

Totes cray cray "

“All ways are MY ways” ~ queen of hearts July,1951

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me seeing that on a guy's profile but I don't like those pictures sent to me directly. Makes you wonder if the woman in the photo's knows this is happening, makes me uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm maybe you should start a service OP.

Like write a profile for the poster above or something like that?

P.S. My profile is perfect so feel free to copy it guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm maybe you should start a service OP.

Like write a profile for the poster above or something like that?

P.S. My profile is perfect so feel free to copy it guys "

Done

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles."

Bloody hell . The sooner I reach my 30s the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles.

Bloody hell . The sooner I reach my 30s the better. "

Women, they never read the disclaimers!

2 more years boomer

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles.

Bloody hell . The sooner I reach my 30s the better.

Women, they never read the disclaimers!

2 more years boomer "

Men, they can't do maths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles.

Bloody hell . The sooner I reach my 30s the better.

Women, they never read the disclaimers!

2 more years boomer

Men, they can't do maths. "

Because of me lying about my fab age, I thought you were only 1 year older than me

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Completely agree. I often tell them this, they usually tell me I'm wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99.9% guys don’t read profiles

Tested this buy hiden a key word somewhere in text and very rare was it used

The types that should read and learn won't. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read yours once op. If I’m honest, I got bored and it’s a bit preach….

Joking aside, as that was a joke. Your profile is supposed to be about you, and not other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what the main thrust of the OP is, but using your profile as a signpost for good profile hygiene is utterly pointless, as evidenced by the endless army of those people (95% guys) who ask for advice and don't even take it in the forums - and at least they're the ones who seemingly have an interest in writing one. Asking random men to not have a shit profile in your profile, well, it won't either make your own more successful (not the intention clearly, your pics drive your views) or make guys change theirs. All in all, might as well be a Sydney University disclaimer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure what the main thrust of the OP is, but using your profile as a signpost for good profile hygiene is utterly pointless, as evidenced by the endless army of those people (95% guys) who ask for advice and don't even take it in the forums - and at least they're the ones who seemingly have an interest in writing one. Asking random men to not have a shit profile in your profile, well, it won't either make your own more successful (not the intention clearly, your pics drive your views) or make guys change theirs. All in all, might as well be a Sydney University disclaimer."

I’ve actually had loads of messages off guys thanking me or to have a quick nosey of their profile. If I’ve offered any suggestions to help improve it they’ve made the changes. I’ve also had guys message me saying they’ve had a meet shortly after revamping their profile so for those guys I’ve helped that makes me feel satisfied.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles."

And some of us oldies like them to! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles.

And some of us oldies like them to! x"

I love your videos. I did the glass slipper one last night. You seem genuinely happy and content and goodness and nice vibes radiate off you

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

You can tell them till you are blue in the face. Some men on hear think a picture of them “hanging out the back of” another lady, impresses potential new meets.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"99.9% guys don’t read profiles

Tested this buy hiden a key word somewhere in text and very rare was it used "

I do.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not sure what the main thrust of the OP is, but using your profile as a signpost for good profile hygiene is utterly pointless, as evidenced by the endless army of those people (95% guys) who ask for advice and don't even take it in the forums - and at least they're the ones who seemingly have an interest in writing one. Asking random men to not have a shit profile in your profile, well, it won't either make your own more successful (not the intention clearly, your pics drive your views) or make guys change theirs. All in all, might as well be a Sydney University disclaimer."

All for attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99.9% guys don’t read profiles

Tested this buy hiden a key word somewhere in text and very rare was it used

I do. "

It’s very rare I tested this back in 2017 a written a page and hafe off just general gargen and in the middle off it out of message me put messages title as cookie for the 6 month it was up I only got about 3-4 messages with the message titled cookie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure what the main thrust of the OP is, but using your profile as a signpost for good profile hygiene is utterly pointless, as evidenced by the endless army of those people (95% guys) who ask for advice and don't even take it in the forums - and at least they're the ones who seemingly have an interest in writing one. Asking random men to not have a shit profile in your profile, well, it won't either make your own more successful (not the intention clearly, your pics drive your views) or make guys change theirs. All in all, might as well be a Sydney University disclaimer.

All for attention "

Do you feel better now you’ve said that?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't really think that a profile should essentially be an advice source, beyong what works for you and what puts you off. I think your profile should really be about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a plan Stan. Should add a direct link to the homepage to get as much traffic through as possible as well and spread that advice far & wide

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not sure what the main thrust of the OP is, but using your profile as a signpost for good profile hygiene is utterly pointless, as evidenced by the endless army of those people (95% guys) who ask for advice and don't even take it in the forums - and at least they're the ones who seemingly have an interest in writing one. Asking random men to not have a shit profile in your profile, well, it won't either make your own more successful (not the intention clearly, your pics drive your views) or make guys change theirs. All in all, might as well be a Sydney University disclaimer.

All for attention

Do you feel better now you’ve said that? "

Why do you feel the need to speak for other women... we are more than capable of doing so for ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that men message you when you say no messages.

But then you respond!

So that means they were right to ignore and message.

Which sends me into a loop !!

Anyways, ppl like giving me feedback on mine anyways (generally stop writing bollocks and don't hide you all your pics you cockwomble) so I get to avoid your profile paradox!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucking hate statements like '99%' of guys don't read the profile

What about the ones that do, and don't like the content/vibe/believe there's no point in messaging, so choose not to?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I fucking hate statements like '99%' of guys don't read the profile

What about the ones that do, and don't like the content/vibe/believe there's no point in messaging, so choose not to?"

You mean the 1%?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I fucking hate statements like '99%' of guys don't read the profile

What about the ones that do, and don't like the content/vibe/believe there's no point in messaging, so choose not to?

You mean the 1%? "

. I’d say 99% of the messages I get haven’t to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t bother. If they don’t have the self-awareness to realise this for themselves, then they are going to be lacking in other areas anyway.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I like shit profiles. It's easier to avoid shit people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Annie if you want to feel like you are helping then go for it.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like shit profiles. It's easier to avoid shit people. "

I really like your way of thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't really think that a profile should essentially be an advice source, beyong what works for you and what puts you off. I think your profile should really be about you."

My profile should be about me but I don’t want anything from here, I’m not trying to attract anyone or anything so pointless writing what I want or what I can offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You hear this vibe a lot on the forums. However here is an observation ladies. If I do post an action shot how come I get 10 times more mail from women than if I were to post a photo in my Suit as I did last week?

I’m sure you will say well it will attract a certain type of lady just not us but the stats are the stats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You hear this vibe a lot on the forums. However here is an observation ladies. If I do post an action shot how come I get 10 times more mail from women than if I were to post a photo in my Suit as I did last week?

I’m sure you will say well it will attract a certain type of lady just not us but the stats are the stats "
in my (mansplaining) opinion, it's holding the frame. Your profile is about a certain type of dynamic... And your pics and vids will back that up. Same reason why some fellas can say "why haven't we fucked yet" and get a date. And others a court sentence !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You hear this vibe a lot on the forums. However here is an observation ladies. If I do post an action shot how come I get 10 times more mail from women than if I were to post a photo in my Suit as I did last week?

I’m sure you will say well it will attract a certain type of lady just not us but the stats are the stats "

Also it's pretty much not just single men, plenty of couples and single females love to have a few spicy pictures, and if you double the dicks in the pics you can be sure it's a woman (or the female half of a couple account in charge of the profile).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You hear this vibe a lot on the forums. However here is an observation ladies. If I do post an action shot how come I get 10 times more mail from women than if I were to post a photo in my Suit as I did last week?

I’m sure you will say well it will attract a certain type of lady just not us but the stats are the stats in my (mansplaining) opinion, it's holding the frame. Your profile is about a certain type of dynamic... And your pics and vids will back that up. Same reason why some fellas can say "why haven't we fucked yet" and get a date. And others a court sentence !"

Having said that, I do think that the forum women are floating much closer to the top in terms of profile league position. If FAB were top trumps, being on the forum regularly would generally correlate with the Classiness rating.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"*Disclaimer, speaking from personal experience*

I find that a lot of women in their 20s enjoy those types of videos and pictures.

I've been asked so many times to send over videos of me getting a BJ or fucking.

Not something I would personally do because like you said there is a issue of consent but I can see why so many blokes have those kind of pics and vids on their profiles.

And some of us oldies like them to! x

I love your videos. I did the glass slipper one last night. You seem genuinely happy and content and goodness and nice vibes radiate off you "

Aww ty! And well done getting to number 1 again! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure what the main thrust of the OP is, but using your profile as a signpost for good profile hygiene is utterly pointless, as evidenced by the endless army of those people (95% guys) who ask for advice and don't even take it in the forums - and at least they're the ones who seemingly have an interest in writing one. Asking random men to not have a shit profile in your profile, well, it won't either make your own more successful (not the intention clearly, your pics drive your views) or make guys change theirs. All in all, might as well be a Sydney University disclaimer.

All for attention "

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Only consists of help and tips for men using the site.

I get a lot of traffic, like a lot a lot so would it be helpful if I added a bit about single guys having public pictures or videos of them doing sexual acts with other women? I’ll say something like the majority of single women are put off by pictures/videos containing other women. First there’s the issue of whether consent has been given and also it’s very off putting.

If these are things that you enjoy keep them in your private pictures and share them with the women who specifically request or show interest in seeing those kind of pictures/vids.

Reason I’m asking is because I genuinely believe the only reason most guys do this is to be like look, look what I can do or look what I can pull. It’s such a niche thing so don’t know why they’d want to make it even harder for themselves by putting off women when apparently us women are short supply as it is. "

Their profile their choice it should represent them, you're guessing why the people might display the pictures / videos.

the opinions we offer are just that our opinions, nothing saying we are right, at best its generic suggestions often with our biases thrown in.

suggesting people alter there profiles to suit your preferences might be off putting for the people they're actually trying to attract.

There was a stat by admin many years ago 1% of fab members post in the forums so a very small representative sample of opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You hear this vibe a lot on the forums. However here is an observation ladies. If I do post an action shot how come I get 10 times more mail from women than if I were to post a photo in my Suit as I did last week?

I’m sure you will say well it will attract a certain type of lady just not us but the stats are the stats "

I can think of nothing nicer than your suit pic, so I’d put it down to classiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You hear this vibe a lot on the forums. However here is an observation ladies. If I do post an action shot how come I get 10 times more mail from women than if I were to post a photo in my Suit as I did last week?

I’m sure you will say well it will attract a certain type of lady just not us but the stats are the stats

I can think of nothing nicer than your suit pic, so I’d put it down to classiness "

Ha ha! I’m just stating the facts

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By *r. MacMan
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

I agree I don't know why most men do this it's my profile so it's just me you should see if you want to see others just ask or look at verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only consists of help and tips for men using the site.

I get a lot of traffic, like a lot a lot so would it be helpful if I added a bit about single guys having public pictures or videos of them doing sexual acts with other women? I’ll say something like the majority of single women are put off by pictures/videos containing other women. First there’s the issue of whether consent has been given and also it’s very off putting.

If these are things that you enjoy keep them in your private pictures and share them with the women who specifically request or show interest in seeing those kind of pictures/vids.

Reason I’m asking is because I genuinely believe the only reason most guys do this is to be like look, look what I can do or look what I can pull. It’s such a niche thing so don’t know why they’d want to make it even harder for themselves by putting off women when apparently us women are short supply as it is. "

That's why I filter out the men of fab, much easier that seeing things you don't want to see

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Funny you should bring up that subject regarding vids. I had a feeling that explicit public videos might be greeted by many in the same negative way that cock picks often get, and that's why I've never been in a rush to post any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure what the main thrust of the OP is, but using your profile as a signpost for good profile hygiene is utterly pointless, as evidenced by the endless army of those people (95% guys) who ask for advice and don't even take it in the forums - and at least they're the ones who seemingly have an interest in writing one. Asking random men to not have a shit profile in your profile, well, it won't either make your own more successful (not the intention clearly, your pics drive your views) or make guys change theirs. All in all, might as well be a Sydney University disclaimer.

I’ve actually had loads of messages off guys thanking me or to have a quick nosey of their profile. If I’ve offered any suggestions to help improve it they’ve made the changes. I’ve also had guys message me saying they’ve had a meet shortly after revamping their profile so for those guys I’ve helped that makes me feel satisfied. "

Do you get a commission or a souvenir from the meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I’s say do what you like and you feel will help. I’d wager after 10+ years you have as much experience of what would help as anyonr else on here.

It is your profile and if other think you’re seeking attention or doing it for other reasons then “fk em” who needs their seal of approval.

And if nobody reads what you post on your bio then who’s harmed either way. Just do it or don’t. Your call.

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