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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Fleshlights.

Do you own one? Do you like them?

Is there a negative association with a guy owning one and using one?

What are your thoughts about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

What’s a fleshlight?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I enjoy watching a man using one.

If they make him happy then it’s all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s a fleshlight? "

Glad I'm not the only one that hasn't got a clue.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Yes we must be missing out

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"What’s a fleshlight? "

A male masturbator. Basically it’s a silicone toy that recreates the sensations of penetration for guys.

It’s safe to google

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't own one but I've gifted one before.

It's incredibly hot watching a man using one - those little half gasps as you can hear the slickness of the toy being used, the way at a certain point a man starts thrusting and you can see his hips all tense... love it.

I'm a bit of a perv for people who I find attractive receiving pleasure, there's nothing wrong in owning or using one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy watching a man using one.

If they make him happy then it’s all good "

I am gonna go for this!

It kinda turns me on somehow, seeing a guy use one , not quite sure why but it’s a thing

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want? "

There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.

I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't own one but I've gifted one before.

It's incredibly hot watching a man using one - those little half gasps as you can hear the slickness of the toy being used, the way at a certain point a man starts thrusting and you can see his hips all tense... love it.

I'm a bit of a perv for people who I find attractive receiving pleasure, there's nothing wrong in owning or using one."

Sluteeeey!!! I mean, are we sharing the same brain?

Why my back arching , after reading what u said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Owning it is fine, putting photos using it on your profile is an instant turn off for me. Up there with wanking videos.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

He has a powered one and it reduces him to a pool of jelly pretty quickly

People don't like the being replaced feeling, sex toy hate is a real thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?

There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.

I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really. "

Ugh. I can't comprehend that. I don't think they should be deprived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got one, vid on here....

i broke it.

Would i buy another? No.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I found it over rated. Bought one out of boredom during the lockdown and was not impressed

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Ive got one, vid on here....

i broke it.

Would i buy another? No.

"

Why wouldn’t you buy another?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to watch a man using one, I’ve never seen one before.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?

There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.

I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really. "

I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disgusting things. Men who use sex toys are perverts.

Women who use sex toys are strong and sexy because they own their sexuality and enjoy it.

Imagine if some men all got together for a sex toy party!! Ewwww

Women having Ann Summers parties are awesome.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?

There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.

I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.

I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do"

Because they’re uptight. Because they are insecure and think that a man should only shove their dick in them.

Because a man spilling his seed in any way apart from the “traditional” way is heinous and just not cricket.

Because they fear a man will enjoy solo fun more and shove them and their real vagina on the back burner (admittedly this can happen so I hear).

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I was gifted one a few years ago by an ex partner, I’m a bit ambivalent towards it.

It does it’s job but it’s a mess cleaning it, the noise of it is a bit weird and in my mind, it does have negative associations. Like it’s one step away from an inflatable doll…

It seems that female only toys are sleek and marketed for empowering pleasure whereas guys toys are more ‘seedy’.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?

There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.

I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.

I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do

Because they’re uptight. Because they are insecure and think that a man should only shove their dick in them.

Because a man spilling his seed in any way apart from the “traditional” way is heinous and just not cricket.

Because they fear a man will enjoy solo fun more and shove them and their real vagina on the back burner (admittedly this can happen so I hear).

"

Isn’t that exactly the same thing with wands, dildos and vibrators?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes and yes. It's a see through one so K enjoys watching or using it on me sometimes too Can't say about associations because it's not something I shout about in my day to day life

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They sound expensive.

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I just use an apple pie...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was gifted one a few years ago by an ex partner, I’m a bit ambivalent towards it.

It does it’s job but it’s a mess cleaning it, the noise of it is a bit weird and in my mind, it does have negative associations. Like it’s one step away from an inflatable doll…

It seems that female only toys are sleek and marketed for empowering pleasure whereas guys toys are more ‘seedy’. "

Seedy! That's the word I was looking for.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Fleshlights.

Do you own one? Do you like them?

Is there a negative association with a guy owning one and using one?

What are your thoughts about them? "

Hmmmmmm, what (or who) has prompted this question?!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Fleshlights.

Do you own one? Do you like them?

Is there a negative association with a guy owning one and using one?

What are your thoughts about them?

Hmmmmmm, what (or who) has prompted this question?! "

I can’t remember who started it, you were there though…

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Fleshlights.

Do you own one? Do you like them?

Is there a negative association with a guy owning one and using one?

What are your thoughts about them?

Hmmmmmm, what (or who) has prompted this question?!

I can’t remember who started it, you were there though… "

Red did!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Jo got me one about a year ago, it was ok, I was very surprised to how nice it felt but haven’t used it since.

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just cant imagine me sticking my dick in a torch... something about it, I dunno, I think I'd feel like such a loser. Like I've failed in life. And the post nut clarity once I'm done may possibly break me.... and oh fuck, then I realise I've gotta clean it as well... and then it hits me, all my teachers were right, I've amounted to nothing and I'm stood there cleaning my own cum out of a torch.... nah, think I'll just have a wank

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?

There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.

I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.

I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do

Because they’re uptight. Because they are insecure and think that a man should only shove their dick in them.

Because a man spilling his seed in any way apart from the “traditional” way is heinous and just not cricket.

Because they fear a man will enjoy solo fun more and shove them and their real vagina on the back burner (admittedly this can happen so I hear).

Isn’t that exactly the same thing with wands, dildos and vibrators? "

Not in my experience. But maybe I’ve just been lucky with the men in my life. I’ve been encouraged to play with myself so they can watch and a few minutes in they’re taking the toy off you and ravishing you because they’re aroused

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I love watching a guy fucking his fleshlight! I have penis envy when I see him growling and fucking that little silicone toy

I get that sense of 'shame' or desperation, I felt it in a relationship a long time ago, he was disgusted by toys so my wanking was a hidden, rushed occurrence, rarely enjoyed! Soon changed that!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Ive got one, vid on here....

i broke it.

Would i buy another? No.

"

Awww you tease

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I think it's hot watching how a man pleasures himself.

*not an invitation to random people thank you *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Disgusting things. Men who use sex toys are perverts.

Women who use sex toys are strong and sexy because they own their sexuality and enjoy it.

Imagine if some men all got together for a sex toy party!! Ewwww

Women having Ann Summers parties are awesome. "

So well illustrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fleshlights.

Do you own one? Do you like them?

Is there a negative association with a guy owning one and using one?

What are your thoughts about them?

Hmmmmmm, what (or who) has prompted this question?!

I can’t remember who started it, you were there though…

Red did!"

I wasn't there but why does it not surprise me that she did? I was thinking it before you even mentioned her.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I enjoy watching a man using one. Even carry one in my bag of toys when I go on a meet

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hot as fuck. Especially the clear ones.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?

There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.

I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.

I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do

Because they’re uptight. Because they are insecure and think that a man should only shove their dick in them.

Because a man spilling his seed in any way apart from the “traditional” way is heinous and just not cricket.

Because they fear a man will enjoy solo fun more and shove them and their real vagina on the back burner (admittedly this can happen so I hear).

Isn’t that exactly the same thing with wands, dildos and vibrators? "

In my experience yes, I've gad ex partners who were insecure about me using toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why there would be a negative association? We all can get pleasure however we want?

There is though. I’ve seen people say that toys for men are gross before.

I’ve never seen one so can’t really comment but I don’t see any problem with any toys really.

I’ve seen similar comments, I’ve also heard negative attitudes towards them. I’m interested to know why folks think that, if they do

Because they’re uptight. Because they are insecure and think that a man should only shove their dick in them.

Because a man spilling his seed in any way apart from the “traditional” way is heinous and just not cricket.

Because they fear a man will enjoy solo fun more and shove them and their real vagina on the back burner (admittedly this can happen so I hear).

Isn’t that exactly the same thing with wands, dildos and vibrators?

In my experience yes, I've gad ex partners who were insecure about me using toys. "

Were they still living in Victorian times ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot as fuck. Especially the clear ones. "

Yes! There’s something about the clear ones. Like thinking how that’d look when ploughing me instead

Jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience yes, I've gad ex partners who were insecure about me using toys.

Were they still living in Victorian times ? "

Oh, don't bash those Victorians. All that hidden restraint made them even bigger perverts. They just hid it well.

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

I have one, was gifted it a couple of years ago. Not something I would have bought for myself necessarily, but only because I hadn’t considered it. Feels great and can add to the fun. Use mine quite often.

It’s just not as common for a guy to have a toy compared to a woman so it’s seen as a bit different. Completely natural and not hurting anyone so crack on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've experienced negative reactions to masturbation from partners, even though my ex would pull away from any physical intimacy beyond cuddling she would still get upset that I was "sneaking" off for a wank. I can't imagine owning a toy would have helped.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find them so hot to watch a guy use one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got one, vid on here....

i broke it.

Would i buy another? No.

Why wouldn’t you buy another? "

They feel very fake, my hand does a better job

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"Ive got one, vid on here....

i broke it.

Would i buy another? No.

Why wouldn’t you buy another?

They feel very fake, my hand does a better job "

The video is a great watch though

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Men and their toys what is not to like, watching them getting all worked up, even better if I’m in control of it.

There will always be those that don’t like them, see them as replacements for themselves, rather than enhancements to mutual pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got one, vid on here....

i broke it.

Would i buy another? No.

Why wouldn’t you buy another?

They feel very fake, my hand does a better job

The video is a great watch though "

there was a part 2 due for release, my recent phone update put stop to that unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men and their toys what is not to like, watching them getting all worked up, even better if I’m in control of it.

There will always be those that don’t like them, see them as replacements for themselves, rather than enhancements to mutual pleasure. "

Some people see masturbation as cheating.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

I feel like they're dirty to be fair as in full of germs. I certainly wouldn't put my penis in one unless it was brand new and they would be a one time thing lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Men and their toys what is not to like, watching them getting all worked up, even better if I’m in control of it.

There will always be those that don’t like them, see them as replacements for themselves, rather than enhancements to mutual pleasure.

Some people see masturbation as cheating. "

My ex did, even if laid next to him at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men and their toys what is not to like, watching them getting all worked up, even better if I’m in control of it.

There will always be those that don’t like them, see them as replacements for themselves, rather than enhancements to mutual pleasure.

Some people see masturbation as cheating. "

Or watching porn on their own like seriously???!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Not sure why there would be a negative to this, having witnessed someone using one of these I can concur that it was not only him who felt pleasure, watching him edge his way in and those little moans that escaped from his mouth was hot!

Male sex toys aren’t anything to be embarrassed about xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men and their toys what is not to like, watching them getting all worked up, even better if I’m in control of it.

There will always be those that don’t like them, see them as replacements for themselves, rather than enhancements to mutual pleasure.

Some people see masturbation as cheating.

My ex did, even if laid next to him at the time. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t own one but would have on issue using one...surely it’s masturbating whether you use a toy or not?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Hot as fuck. Especially the clear ones. "

*Scribbles in notepad*

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot as fuck. Especially the clear ones. "

This!!!!!

I absolutely love it

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I had 2 a few years back but got fed up with prepping and cleaning them and found my hand just as enjoyable so ended up binning them.

The best experience is when someone else is using it on you.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I have an artifical vagina which vibrates. I think with fleshlights, they don't vibrate you just thrust in and out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had 2 a few years back but got fed up with prepping and cleaning them and found my hand just as enjoyable so ended up binning them.

The best experience is when someone else is using it on you."

Now this I would enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them feels almost as good as the real thing . The blow up sheep just don't cut it any more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one

I had a tight foreskin and was recommend to try one to help with that aswell as steroid cream instead of circumcision.

Worked very well and its all good.

Got rid it though because its just a faff to clean ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll pick on average 3 every shift, 180 to 200 people on shift with me will probably do the same, so that’s 1,200 being shipped from Amazon every day (including day shift). They’re pretty popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll pick on average 3 every shift, 180 to 200 people on shift with me will probably do the same, so that’s 1,200 being shipped from Amazon every day (including day shift). They’re pretty popular. "

I do dread to think sometimes what people have going throught their minds while they pack my boxes

I suspect after awhile its just another box to pack and no one blinks an eye. But do wonder if anyones having a luagh while they pack a didlo annd a pair of size 12 heels into a box with my name on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll pick on average 3 every shift, 180 to 200 people on shift with me will probably do the same, so that’s 1,200 being shipped from Amazon every day (including day shift). They’re pretty popular.

I do dread to think sometimes what people have going throught their minds while they pack my boxes

I suspect after awhile its just another box to pack and no one blinks an eye. But do wonder if anyones having a luagh while they pack a didlo annd a pair of size 12 heels into a box with my name on "
ha ha good point . I'm sure some of the Packers have the look of shock in there face when they pack a black mamba ( look it up) ...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hot as fuck. Especially the clear ones.

*Scribbles in notepad*

LvM"

You rascal you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr used to have one when I went through a phase of not wanting any sort of sex.

I knew he obviously had his 'needs' but it annoyed me that he had a sex drive and I didn't so the negative connotations came from that and it annoyed me when he used it. Like come on... I don't want sex please so can you just not masturbate too

Now that I can't get enough I don't mind him using it if I'm busy. (like working because you know I work all the hours under the sun).

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