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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So should I put the outcome down to fabbers… stay or go?

Come on you filthy lot remind me the perks of staying on fab

It’s all got a bit murky at the mo and I need that ‘spark’

Care to help?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Thats up to you.

The perks are like a sugar rush, they peak and fall so you just want more and more, it's not until you take a back seat and refocus on what's important that you truly realise what you are doing.

I know you wanted fun and frolics but I think this is a important view to consider

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thats up to you.

The perks are like a sugar rush, they peak and fall so you just want more and more, it's not until you take a back seat and refocus on what's important that you truly realise what you are doing.

I know you wanted fun and frolics but I think this is a important view to consider "

That is a great way to look at it… a sugar hit!!! The sweets we want but can’t over indulge

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Go.

You are obviously not feeling it so go and do something else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go.

You are obviously not feeling it so go and do something else."

Again… another good point… but then when the reminders come…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say go that way the balance of male to females will balance out equally. Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can find spark outside here as well

I usually do the opposite to what I'm told. So no perks list here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I say go that way the balance of male to females will balance out equally. Ha ha ha "

Haha chip one off at a time haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can find spark outside here as well

I usually do the opposite to what I'm told. So no perks list here. "

So I’m staying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Log out, stay logged out for a while. I get the impression that a lot of people yo-yo on and off the site. So perhaps keep the profile but walk away for a while and see if you miss it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Log out, stay logged out for a while. I get the impression that a lot of people yo-yo on and off the site. So perhaps keep the profile but walk away for a while and see if you miss it. "

Makes sense

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’d you’ve really had enough just go, I do. Never regretted it although usually come back. I often hide anyway but when I’ve totally had enough I just leave. Don’t see a problem with it really. Like I said you can always come back. I always have. Unless you’re worried about losing veris, which has never bothered me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s all a bit meh then UNLOS, forget Fab altogether for a few months then when you’re at the point you’ve forgotten how woeful it can be on here at times, pop back.

My advice would be to only come back for a few weeks at a time. Like over a major sporting event or religious / commercial festival, something like that, then UNLOS again.

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it’s all a bit meh then UNLOS, forget Fab altogether for a few months then when you’re at the point you’ve forgotten how woeful it can be on here at times, pop back.

My advice would be to only come back for a few weeks at a time. Like over a major sporting event or religious / commercial festival, something like that, then UNLOS again.

Works for me "

This is me too. I always seem to be here for Xmas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d you’ve really had enough just go, I do. Never regretted it although usually come back. I often hide anyway but when I’ve totally had enough I just leave. Don’t see a problem with it really. Like I said you can always come back. I always have. Unless you’re worried about losing veris, which has never bothered me x"

Yeah my veris are hidden anyway haha. The needed fix will grow again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it’s all a bit meh then UNLOS, forget Fab altogether for a few months then when you’re at the point you’ve forgotten how woeful it can be on here at times, pop back.

My advice would be to only come back for a few weeks at a time. Like over a major sporting event or religious / commercial festival, something like that, then UNLOS again.

Works for me

This is me too. I always seem to be here for Xmas."

I’ll see you in a few weeks then for exchange of Xmas pressies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on now go

Walk out the door

Just turn around now, you're not welcome anymore.

But if you've got to go away

Don't think I could take the pain

Won't you stay another day?

Hope that helps

G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no opinion.

Hope this helps.

Have a great Monday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go on now go

Walk out the door

Just turn around now, you're not welcome anymore.

But if you've got to go away

Don't think I could take the pain

Won't you stay another day?

Hope that helps

G"

You’ve made the decision clear ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have no opinion.

Hope this helps.

Have a great Monday."

Happy Monday

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