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"But is it always just about sex?" No, sometime there cuddling involved. | |||
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"It’s not a sex site It’s a what ever you want it to be site Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex See it’s a what ever you want site " This | |||
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"No. Sometimes it's about jam. " I knew you'd put me straight | |||
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"It’s not a sex site It’s a what ever you want it to be site Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex See it’s a what ever you want site " | |||
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"No. Sometimes it's about jam. " Eh?!... ...what happened to cake? | |||
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"No. Sometimes it's about jam. Eh?!... ...what happened to cake? " The jam is in the middle. | |||
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"If ever I start chatting with someone it doesn't take long for him to start talking about sex " That's absolutely despicable. What's your favourite position by the way? | |||
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"If ever I start chatting with someone it doesn't take long for him to start talking about sex That's absolutely despicable. What's your favourite position by the way? " Woof | |||
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"But is it always just about sex?" It's lots of things but certainly not all sex. The Lounge is very varied. | |||
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"But is it always just about sex?" | |||
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"But is it always just about sex? It's lots of things but certainly not all sex. The Lounge is very varied. " Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle | |||
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"But is it always just about sex? It's lots of things but certainly not all sex. The Lounge is very varied. Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle " I rarely get replies, it doesn't mean your post hasn't been notified. That's where likes would be helpful. Don't be downhearted. | |||
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"But is it always just about sex? It's lots of things but certainly not all sex. The Lounge is very varied. Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle " Everyone has a place here. I tend to stay away from certain threads by some posters as you know exactly how they are going to go. Don't ever think you are on the outside xx | |||
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"But is it always just about sex? It's lots of things but certainly not all sex. The Lounge is very varied. Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle " We all feel this to some degree and the outer circle is a very large area. This is why it is important to support each other and be inclusive and not ignore people in favour of others | |||
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"It’s not a sex site It’s a what ever you want it to be site Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex See it’s a what ever you want site This " Definitely | |||
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"It’s not a sex site It’s a what ever you want it to be site Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex See it’s a what ever you want site " | |||
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"It’s not a sex site It’s a what ever you want it to be site Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex See it’s a what ever you want site This Definitely " A bit like any other social media site? It’s mad isn’t it? | |||
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"I hope not, I'd like to make some actual friends. It is also about cake." This^^ | |||
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"No. Sometimes it's about jam. Eh?!... ...what happened to cake? The jam is in the middle. " ...but sometimes there's frosting not jam | |||
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"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then? " ...you're not offering up enough cake | |||
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"But is it always just about sex? It's lots of things but certainly not all sex. The Lounge is very varied. Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle Everyone has a place here. I tend to stay away from certain threads by some posters as you know exactly how they are going to go. Don't ever think you are on the outside xx" I agree and I really don't want you to think you're on the outside OP. But if you are, we could sit together and perv and have a giggle | |||
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"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then? ...you're not offering up enough cake " But I offer cream. I wait for others to offer cake..and then they don’t have any. | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site " I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. | |||
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"But is it always just about sex? It's lots of things but certainly not all sex. The Lounge is very varied. Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle Everyone has a place here. I tend to stay away from certain threads by some posters as you know exactly how they are going to go. Don't ever think you are on the outside xx I agree and I really don't want you to think you're on the outside OP. But if you are, we could sit together and perv and have a giggle " | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that." Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx" Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. " I will do | |||
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"It’s not a sex site It’s a what ever you want it to be site Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex See it’s a what ever you want site This Definitely A bit like any other social media site? It’s mad isn’t it? " Yes but different at least hear I don’t get shunned for being my true self | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. I will do " Never ever take anything personally on here though xx | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. I will do Never ever take anything personally on here though xx" I have a problem with that,as you know x | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that." Ignore the fools | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. I will do Never ever take anything personally on here though xx I have a problem with that,as you know x" I know. It is hard not to sometimes but we all get the abuse if we’re suddenly not interested. And as for the forums don’t look at it as getting ignored. A lot of times I’ll comment on something and then never go to back to that thread. I even start them and forget about them . I don’t think anyone (unless there’s a specific reason) actually thinks to themselves I’m purposely not going to reply or acknowledge that person x | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. I will do Never ever take anything personally on here though xx I have a problem with that,as you know x I know. It is hard not to sometimes but we all get the abuse if we’re suddenly not interested. And as for the forums don’t look at it as getting ignored. A lot of times I’ll comment on something and then never go to back to that thread. I even start them and forget about them . I don’t think anyone (unless there’s a specific reason) actually thinks to themselves I’m purposely not going to reply or acknowledge that person x " OK x | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. I will do Never ever take anything personally on here though xx I have a problem with that,as you know x I know. It is hard not to sometimes but we all get the abuse if we’re suddenly not interested. And as for the forums don’t look at it as getting ignored. A lot of times I’ll comment on something and then never go to back to that thread. I even start them and forget about them . I don’t think anyone (unless there’s a specific reason) actually thinks to themselves I’m purposely not going to reply or acknowledge that person x OK x" You know my inbox is always open. If something gets to you message me. I’ll sort em! Haha. Only joking. Always happy to talk things through x | |||
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"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then? " I’m glad someone is laughing. | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. I will do " You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx | |||
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"Far from it. My best meet ups have been with people I've formed a connection to first. " | |||
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"Sex site or is it a social media site where you can talk to like minded people and meet up if you wanted too?" this 100% | |||
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"But is it always just about sex?" Not always For me it’s about meeting and connecting with others of like mind. | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. I will do You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx" Only 5 more to go then | |||
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"But is it always just about sex?" I think its also just a social site for a chat esp during 1st lockdown most were hone alone & this site was a god sent just to engage with other people reminder 1 is not alone! Damn that was deep lol | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. I will do You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx Only 5 more to go then " You'll get there, it's nice when you find a flower in amongst the s... P.s great username lol x | |||
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"But is it always just about sex?" No. We need a connection before we will do anything with anyone. Quick hookups or one offs just arent our cup of tea. | |||
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"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that. Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. I will do You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx Only 5 more to go then You'll get there, it's nice when you find a flower in amongst the s... P.s great username lol x" | |||
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"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then? I’m glad someone is laughing. " Its just the way you phrased it. I can be sympathetic if needed. | |||
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"It’s not a sex site It’s a what ever you want it to be site Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex See it’s a what ever you want site " . The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they? | |||
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"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then? I’m glad someone is laughing. Its just the way you phrased it. I can be sympathetic if needed." I’m still waiting for an answer to my question | |||
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"Seems to be for everyone who messages me. I’m seriously thinking this isn’t a good place for me anymore. " Take Men off your Looking for list and it will get rid of a lot of it. X | |||
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"It’s not a sex site. It’s a swingers site - sex is just a perk of the swinging lifestyle. However swingers are a community and should be more about that than anything. I’m messaging somebody at the moment with no intention of meeting - but just chatting as they need to offload and chat. I don’t plan to have sex with that person and most likely won’t meet - I’m just helping out a fellow swinger. And yes I’ve already diverted the conversation away from getting onto that x" | |||
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"Seems to be for everyone who messages me. I’m seriously thinking this isn’t a good place for me anymore. Take Men off your Looking for list and it will get rid of a lot of it. X" I’m only interested in men tho. Just seems they want to empty their balls and I want something more than just sex. Wrong site I think. | |||
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"It’s not a sex site It’s a what ever you want it to be site Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex See it’s a what ever you want site . The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they? " What I mean by that is natalie when I date vinilla she gets packed away | |||
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"It’s not a sex site It’s a what ever you want it to be site Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex See it’s a what ever you want site . The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they? What I mean by that is natalie when I date vinilla she gets packed away " I know what you meant. I was teasing you. | |||
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"It’s not a sex site It’s a what ever you want it to be site Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex See it’s a what ever you want site . The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they? What I mean by that is natalie when I date vinilla she gets packed away I know what you meant. I was teasing you. " Aww ok ha ha x | |||
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