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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But is it always just about sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good coffee and conversation is essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it "

Oh didn’t you get the email

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope as I have enjoyed chatting with many folk nothing sexually related taking advantage of this technology

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve met women who have become brilliant friends. Not so much as held hands with them, but had some great days out with them doing various things. It’s not all about sex for some of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy just chatting to people I get on with. Social aspect to me is just as important if not more. Plus if I got on with someone socially and I'd did escalate I'd be more inclined to explore new things as I was comfortable. Quick hookups do have there place too. So I guess the site is what you want it to be

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

For some it is, for some it’s not x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely not, had the most random conversations with people I’d never meet in life otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not for me. Nor do I want it to be. I've found some awesome people to talk to, learned loads and hopefully an FWB or two soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No haha. Recently made a mulled wine with someone.. we listened to our favourite music, he gave me a lecture about history of his hobby and presented me with a fake rose smelling of his perfume.. cheeky bum.. making a fun reference to my name there can be so much more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex site or is it a social media site where you can talk to like minded people and meet up if you wanted too?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

No but also yes.

LvM

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"But is it always just about sex?"

No, sometime there cuddling involved.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No, we’ve met people for a social we aren’t going to have sex with.

We chat to a lot of people we aren’t going to meet.

Even people we’ve met for play, we like them to be friends, even if nothing sexually happens again.

Sex is secondary in our minds with a lot of people in our group of friends.

K

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Not for me. I’ve made some amazing friends here who I don’t play with. Have nights out and dinner with them.

Also have had people over who I do play with, just to slob with me on the sofa and eat ice cream when I’m out of action

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No. Sometimes it's about jam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Its about whatever I choose.i call the shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. Sometimes it's about jam. "

I knew you'd put me straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it can be about all sorts of things.

I’ve made lots of lovely friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually liked it for the organised socials that we get here in South Wales. Great nights out with a room full of the best people you could wish to meet. Yes it can be seen as a sex site but for me the social side of things far outweighs the sex aspect of it.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"No. Sometimes it's about jam. "

Eh?!... ...what happened to cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It’s like a secret life

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I hope not, I'd like to make some actual friends.

It is also about cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, its about digestive biscuits & 'u bend' blockages

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If ever I start chatting with someone it doesn't take long for him to start talking about sex

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No sex here. But great friendships and that’s more than enough

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"No. Sometimes it's about jam.

Eh?!... ...what happened to cake? "

The jam is in the middle.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's more than that to me, I've made good friends here and enjoy the general chat in the forums

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

It's different things to different people

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"If ever I start chatting with someone it doesn't take long for him to start talking about sex "

That's absolutely despicable.

What's your favourite position by the way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If ever I start chatting with someone it doesn't take long for him to start talking about sex

That's absolutely despicable.

What's your favourite position by the way? "

Woof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's sex?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"But is it always just about sex?"

It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.

The Lounge is very varied.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No, I also use it as a social club to share thoughts, ideas and humour.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

The clue is in the name of the site. To me being on here and a swinger on the whole is about more than just getting my end away

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By *ea.dotWoman
over a year ago

milton keynes

I think so, and I am getting so frustrated. No one just wants to have a conversation, the average return response rate is about 6 hours, that’s whilst being online at the same time. Does that mean, take the hint, unless it’s purely about sex, it’s not worthy of a convo?
"But is it always just about sex?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But is it always just about sex?

It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.

The Lounge is very varied. "

Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"But is it always just about sex?

It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.

The Lounge is very varied.

Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle "

I rarely get replies, it doesn't mean your post hasn't been notified. That's where likes would be helpful.

Don't be downhearted.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

*Noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far from it. My best meet ups have been with people I've formed a connection to first.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"But is it always just about sex?

It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.

The Lounge is very varied.

Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle "

Everyone has a place here. I tend to stay away from certain threads by some posters as you know exactly how they are going to go.

Don't ever think you are on the outside xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can't be. I haven't found sex and I'm still here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But is it always just about sex?

It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.

The Lounge is very varied.

Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle "

We all feel this to some degree and the outer circle is a very large area. This is why it is important to support each other and be inclusive and not ignore people in favour of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site

This "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site

This

Definitely "

A bit like any other social media site? It’s mad isn’t it?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I hope not, I'd like to make some actual friends.

It is also about cake."

This^^

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"No. Sometimes it's about jam.

Eh?!... ...what happened to cake?

The jam is in the middle. "

...but sometimes there's frosting not jam

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then? "

...you're not offering up enough cake

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But is it always just about sex?

It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.

The Lounge is very varied.

Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle

Everyone has a place here. I tend to stay away from certain threads by some posters as you know exactly how they are going to go.

Don't ever think you are on the outside xx"

I agree and I really don't want you to think you're on the outside OP. But if you are, we could sit together and perv and have a giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then?

...you're not offering up enough cake "

But I offer cream. I wait for others to offer cake..and then they don’t have any.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site "

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But is it always just about sex?

It's lots of things but certainly not all sex.

The Lounge is very varied.

Nobody's interested in me in the lounge so I'm stuck with the outer circle

Everyone has a place here. I tend to stay away from certain threads by some posters as you know exactly how they are going to go.

Don't ever think you are on the outside xx

I agree and I really don't want you to think you're on the outside OP. But if you are, we could sit together and perv and have a giggle "

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not for us but everyone is here looking for different things.

We have found the social side of this brings us a lot of enjoyment, any sexy that comes from that is an added bonus.

Kx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that."

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx"

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on. "

I will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site

This

Definitely

A bit like any other social media site? It’s mad isn’t it? "

Yes but different at least hear I don’t get shunned for being my true self

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.

I will do "

Never ever take anything personally on here though xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.

I will do

Never ever take anything personally on here though xx"

I have a problem with that,as you know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then? "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that."

Ignore the fools

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.

I will do

Never ever take anything personally on here though xx

I have a problem with that,as you know x"

I know. It is hard not to sometimes but we all get the abuse if we’re suddenly not interested. And as for the forums don’t look at it as getting ignored. A lot of times I’ll comment on something and then never go to back to that thread. I even start them and forget about them . I don’t think anyone (unless there’s a specific reason) actually thinks to themselves I’m purposely not going to reply or acknowledge that person x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.

I will do

Never ever take anything personally on here though xx

I have a problem with that,as you know x

I know. It is hard not to sometimes but we all get the abuse if we’re suddenly not interested. And as for the forums don’t look at it as getting ignored. A lot of times I’ll comment on something and then never go to back to that thread. I even start them and forget about them . I don’t think anyone (unless there’s a specific reason) actually thinks to themselves I’m purposely not going to reply or acknowledge that person x "

OK x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.

I will do

Never ever take anything personally on here though xx

I have a problem with that,as you know x

I know. It is hard not to sometimes but we all get the abuse if we’re suddenly not interested. And as for the forums don’t look at it as getting ignored. A lot of times I’ll comment on something and then never go to back to that thread. I even start them and forget about them . I don’t think anyone (unless there’s a specific reason) actually thinks to themselves I’m purposely not going to reply or acknowledge that person x

OK x"

You know my inbox is always open. If something gets to you message me. I’ll sort em! Haha.

Only joking. Always happy to talk things through x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then?

"

I’m glad someone is laughing.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’ve had far more social meetings than sex, definitely not classing this as a sex site

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.

I will do "

You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Far from it. My best meet ups have been with people I've formed a connection to first. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably be peeved if I never managed to get some sex from here

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Nah, have made good friends from it.

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By *edhead72Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

I’d like to find a regular coffee pal! Helps if she’s sexy though (doh)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex site or is it a social media site where you can talk to like minded people and meet up if you wanted too?"

this 100%

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"But is it always just about sex?"

Not always For me it’s about meeting and connecting with others of like mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.

I will do

You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx"

Only 5 more to go then

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"But is it always just about sex?"

I think its also just a social site for a chat esp during 1st lockdown most were hone alone & this site was a god sent just to engage with other people reminder 1 is not alone! Damn that was deep lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.

I will do

You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx

Only 5 more to go then "

You'll get there, it's nice when you find a flower in amongst the s...

P.s great username lol x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"But is it always just about sex?"

No. We need a connection before we will do anything with anyone.

Quick hookups or one offs just arent our cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As ever - it is not a sex site, it is a swingers site

I know but I keep been told it's a sex site,usually when I state that I'm looking for more than just that.

Then block and delete those that do. They don't deserve your time or energy xx

Was just going to say similar. 95% of messages are from people who think like that. Block, delete, move on.

I will do

You come across as a very sincere and.lovely person. I know it's hard but don't let strangers on a site like this (or any other platform) bring you down. There are some really lovely people on here. It's taken me nearly 10 years to find them xx

Only 5 more to go then

You'll get there, it's nice when you find a flower in amongst the s...

P.s great username lol x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then?

I’m glad someone is laughing. "

Its just the way you phrased it. I can be sympathetic if needed.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

It is pick and mix site for me

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

It's about talking, bollocks, boobies, bums and all of the other important things in life, like biscuits, brews and bante!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a sex site. It’s a swingers site - sex is just a perk of the swinging lifestyle. However swingers are a community and should be more about that than anything.

I’m messaging somebody at the moment with no intention of meeting - but just chatting as they need to offload and chat. I don’t plan to have sex with that person and most likely won’t meet - I’m just helping out a fellow swinger.

And yes I’ve already diverted the conversation away from getting onto that x

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over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site "

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The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and me..

What was the question again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a sex site? Why am I not having sex then?

I’m glad someone is laughing.

Its just the way you phrased it. I can be sympathetic if needed."

I’m still waiting for an answer to my question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be for everyone who messages me.

I’m seriously thinking this isn’t a good place for me anymore.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Not if you venture to the politics section. Be careful though, there are some extremists in there, can rip you to shreds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems to be for everyone who messages me.

I’m seriously thinking this isn’t a good place for me anymore. "

Take Men off your Looking for list and it will get rid of a lot of it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site. It’s a swingers site - sex is just a perk of the swinging lifestyle. However swingers are a community and should be more about that than anything.

I’m messaging somebody at the moment with no intention of meeting - but just chatting as they need to offload and chat. I don’t plan to have sex with that person and most likely won’t meet - I’m just helping out a fellow swinger.

And yes I’ve already diverted the conversation away from getting onto that x"

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By *DreamzMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Sex site?

Well I’ve been here for close to a month now and i haven’t even met anyone for socials not to talk about having sex ?? ??

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over a year ago


"Seems to be for everyone who messages me.

I’m seriously thinking this isn’t a good place for me anymore.

Take Men off your Looking for list and it will get rid of a lot of it. X"

I’m only interested in men tho. Just seems they want to empty their balls and I want something more than just sex. Wrong site I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site

.

The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they? "

What I mean by that is natalie when I date vinilla she gets packed away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site

.

The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they?

What I mean by that is natalie when I date vinilla she gets packed away "

I know what you meant. I was teasing you.

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

It's nice when,meeting initially for sex, a friendship can develop.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I was going to say yes but I’m reality for me, it’s not even close to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a sex site

It’s a what ever you want it to be site

Sometimes I use it to just talk and make friends

Sometimes I use it to try and get dates as the real me

Sometimes I use it to make friends to have sex with

Sometimes I use it for just pure mindless sex

See it’s a what ever you want site

.

The "real" you? I knew it, I'm in one of your games, aren't I? Someone's going to shoot me or something soon, aren't they?

What I mean by that is natalie when I date vinilla she gets packed away

I know what you meant. I was teasing you. "

Aww ok ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us absolutely not! It’s so much more than just sex…..that’s just a bonus

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