FabSwingers.com forum: The after glow effect

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The hours.. or days after sex. How do you 'change'? If at all? Do your friends - or others- can tell you have been up to a lot of good frolics and fun? Apparently, there is a significant difference in my voice.. and it gives out purring tones as well as my usual intonation slows down.. so I was told!

What about you? Does your body give you away?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If people know they don't say anything.

The dog, on the other hand, gets very territorial and sticks close to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If people know they don't say anything.

The dog, on the other hand, gets very territorial and sticks close to me.

That is very tactful of them.

As for dog.. they have amazing sense of smell. I wish they could speak their mind. Any pets really

I wonder if they feel anxious about you being "marked" by someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I have a happy head period where I cannot stop smiling, I try to avoid populated areas as people think I am a wierdo

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m less moody

I play a lot more sexy music in the car too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't remember!"

That needs changing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a happy head period where I cannot stop smiling, I try to avoid populated areas as people think I am a wierdo

Haha.. I love that. So easily spotted .. the blissful, melting face smile.. eh !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m less moody

I play a lot more sexy music in the car too.

Me too. I am nicer.

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

Apparently my eyes sparkle or so my best friend tells me. However it's been so long i don't know if that would still happen pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if there is anything that gives it away. Maybe the low that follows might though

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I smile, which is a rarity.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m a much happier person… unlucky friends I’ll be a grumpy arse for some time now

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Outwardly I’m no different, inside I’m smiling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apparently my eyes sparkle or so my best friend tells me. However it's been so long i don't know if that would still happen pmsl x"

Maybe it would be even more than usual sparkle seeing its been a while

a twinkle after twinkle.. like fireworks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't know if there is anything that gives it away. Maybe the low that follows might though "

That's true for me too. But I know now to expect it and how to cope. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I smile, which is a rarity."

and I hope the world smiles back at you

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I truly cannot remember as it has been so many years

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m a much happier person… unlucky friends I’ll be a grumpy arse for some time now

We need to get you into bed with someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Outwardly I’m no different, inside I’m smiling "

Ekhmm I think it must shine a little on the outer side too

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

One has more self control over unexpected erections...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I truly cannot remember as it has been so many years

A truly long hug could be just as oxytocin inducing too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One has more self control over unexpected erections...

Ha ! It us nice to get a masculine view on the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t had any sleep nice August. That one was alright but normally I’m happy for a few days till they start blanking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smile a lot and genuinely am more happy. Once I turn into a bitter bitch - it's a tell tale sign I've not had it for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't remember!

That needs changing!"

Amen

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I truly cannot remember as it has been so many years

A truly long hug could be just as oxytocin inducing too.

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I did it, several people told me I had a certain glow.

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

"One has more self control over unexpected erections...

Ha ! It us nice to get a masculine view on the subject

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We feel good also you know..

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I’m a much happier person… unlucky friends I’ll be a grumpy arse for some time now

We need to get you into bed with someone

my mojo died.. I’m declaring a major incident!!!

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

My eyes change colour from green to blue!!

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

"My eyes change colour from green to blue!!

Mr "

Too much Viagra...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I walk funny after sex

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"My eyes change colour from green to blue!!

Too much Viagra...

Haha! Viagra makes them red

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I am much happier and far less mardy. Otherwise no real change!

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

"My eyes change colour from green to blue!!

Too much Viagra...

Haha! Viagra makes them red

haha your experience may vary but...

"Viagra inadvertently also inhibits phosphodiesterase 6, which is very similar to phosphodiesterase 5, but with far more different and unexpected effects — it overly sensitizes rod cells in the retina. These rod cells are most effective at picking up blue, so your vision becomes dominated by a blue tint"

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nothing I have a split personality as it is difficult to understand and difficult to know

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

The stupid grin gives it away, I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I appear happier and less stressed

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Ah it depends. If it's been very intense the first day or so I'm a bit... emotionally drained. My close friend always knows when I've had my 'soul fucked out of me'. After I've got over that I'm very giddy and excitable and happy. I don't think many would spot any change, only a couple of my nearest and dearest.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"My eyes change colour from green to blue!!

Too much Viagra...

Haha! Viagra makes them red

haha your experience may vary but...

Haha I'm well aware of that. They change colour without viagra

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By *igJFromSAMan
over a year ago

Woking

Has been too long to remember accurately, but think my voice is deeper/growlier for a while after.

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

"My eyes change colour from green to blue!!

Too much Viagra...

Haha! Viagra makes them red

haha your experience may vary but...

Haha I'm well aware of that. They change colour without viagra

Ok I want what you are on

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

An ex colleague of mine always used to know...apparently I'm not *quite* as much of an ice queen if I've had a good session

I don't think I'm any different outwardly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m a much happier person… unlucky friends I’ll be a grumpy arse for some time now

We need to get you into bed with someone

my mojo died.. I’m declaring a major incident!!!"

Sounds like a national emergency

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"An ex colleague of mine always used to know...apparently I'm not *quite* as much of an ice queen if I've had a good session

I don't think I'm any different outwardly "

I think some people have a bit of a sixth sense for these things. Not sure if this is observational skill or empathy or whatever it could be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has been too long to remember accurately, but think my voice is deeper/growlier for a while after. "

High five for the voice changes..

mine reveals me for sure.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Not sure about a glow, but straight after I look like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing I have a split personality as it is difficult to understand and difficult to know

As in diagnosed condition ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not sure about a glow, but straight after I look like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards

I died here a little..

What on Earth are they doing to you?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haven’t had any sleep nice August. That one was alright but normally I’m happy for a few days till they start blanking me

Thats pants. And I'm sorry about yesterday.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Not sure about a glow, but straight after I look like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards

I died here a little..

What on Earth are they doing to you?!"

Haha!

I’ve found doggy causes bed head, and I can get quite active giving a blow job that results in less than preened hair

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I smile a lot and genuinely am more happy. Once I turn into a bitter bitch - it's a tell tale sign I've not had it for a while

Gosh I hope this isn't the case now. You seem.. err.. sweet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can literally burst out laughing after a particularly good orgasm. It must be very disconcerting for those on the receiving end. I don’t actually find anything particularly funny, but I can’t help it

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"I can literally burst out laughing after a particularly good orgasm. It must be very disconcerting for those on the receiving end. I don’t actually find anything particularly funny, but I can’t help it

Cute. I like that, pure joy

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

"Apparently my eyes sparkle or so my best friend tells me. However it's been so long i don't know if that would still happen pmsl x

Maybe it would be even more than usual sparkle seeing its been a while

a twinkle after twinkle.. like fireworks

Hopefully i can let you all know soon lol x

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

This is a medical condition called "Fannystruck" & leaves you vacant & wistful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will take that

pure joy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a medical condition called "Fannystruck" & leaves you vacant & wistful

Do I dare to Google

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I love travelling home on a train smelling of sex and wearing a smile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apparently I walk funny after sex

I have a good guess why!

or do you mean happy prancing

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

"This is a medical condition called "Fannystruck" & leaves you vacant & wistful

Do I dare to Google

I've just tried & it's safe enough lol. Sadly last experienced a couple of years ago due to the mess we've all been in.

A lovely lady I'd got chatting with on here made impromptu visit to meet Gemma for the first time & ended up staying the night. Suffice to say after she left next day late morning, I wasn't much use for anything for the rest of the day

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

It's gorgeous to feel embodied and whole.

I like my bruises and marks from kinky sessions.

My bezzies notice my demeanor. Its a sparkle. I notice better connection when engaging with people.

Sex medicine. Body wisdom. connection. Sentience. Expansion. Contentment. Experience. Nourishment. Delightful secrets of the soul.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much a glow, but walking like an 80 year old who's shit herself for a few days afterwards, raises some eyebrows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about weeks (or more) after sex?

*asking for a friend

I just feel good, and there’s a come down that will follow. Work is normally the mood killer.

The feeling good is hard to put into words, it’s like having a meal and you feel like you’ve had enough. Not the food baby feeling, but you don’t need any thing else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My eyes change colour from green to blue!!

Too much Viagra...

Haha! Viagra makes them red

haha your experience may vary but...

That's fascinating heh. I need to check that out.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It's gorgeous to feel embodied and whole.

I like my bruises and marks from kinky sessions.

My bezzies notice my demeanor. Its a sparkle. I notice better connection when engaging with people.

Sex medicine. Body wisdom. connection. Sentience. Expansion. Contentment. Experience. Nourishment. Delightful secrets of the soul.

This description is perfectly evocative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Last time I did it, several people told me I had a certain glow."

Oh Dieu you seem to glow anyway based on your gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll let you know if/when it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ll let you know if/when it happens

Good luck R! Looking good in that black piece so I don't think you'll be waiting thaaaat long.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I love the little reminders, the aches, the relaxed feeling, how my mind wanders off to the flashbacks, how I can still feel that little bite on my lip, the sting on my bum cheeks when I sit down, how my nipples feel tender, the warmth of the after glow…how great sex can sort of consume your mind and body in the days after and all your senses feel heightened xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll let you know if/when it happens

Wowzers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ll let you know if/when it happens

Good luck R! Looking good in that black piece so I don't think you'll be waiting thaaaat long.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am much happier and far less mardy. Otherwise no real change!"

The mood change is significant for sure and I wondered simply whether others can notice that based on your body language

it is real no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The stupid grin gives it away, I think "

Grinning is a very desirable effect Danae

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Not sure about a glow, but straight after I look like I’ve been dragged through a hedge backwards

Haha this for me too! It’s quite the scary sight

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s been a couple of years since my last ‘first time’ or fab meet which would draw those types of reactions. I think that relationship sex is slightly different as the ongoing connection would lessen the obvious reaction.

I actually can’t remember how I react

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I smile a lot and genuinely am more happy. Once I turn into a bitter bitch - it's a tell tale sign I've not had it for a while

Gosh I hope this isn't the case now. You seem.. err.. sweet ?

Thank you

Isn't the case, I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lot more smiley. Not just because of the sex, but because I'll have spent some really nice time with one or two guys that I care about loads.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It genuinely puts a spring in my step.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I glaze over a little and grin like a kid who's just been bought his favourite sweets....apparently!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's gorgeous to feel embodied and whole.

I like my bruises and marks from kinky sessions.

My bezzies notice my demeanor. Its a sparkle. I notice better connection when engaging with people.

Sex medicine. Body wisdom. connection. Sentience. Expansion. Contentment. Experience. Nourishment. Delightful secrets of the soul.

Always such a great image you paint in my head dear

Sex medicine.. thats deserving of post in itself.

I am healing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love the little reminders, the aches, the relaxed feeling, how my mind wanders off to the flashbacks, how I can still feel that little bite on my lip, the sting on my bum cheeks when I sit down, how my nipples feel tender, the warmth of the after glow…how great sex can sort of consume your mind and body in the days after and all your senses feel heightened xx"

This.. and soreness of lips.. tired of passionate kissing encounter.. and the flashes of memories sending a tingle through your body again. And again..

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