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"Oh you read my mind! I decided to say yes to everything i can, as I've become such a hermit" Good! Glad you recognise that you need to get out and about What ya doing? Where you going? | |||
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"Oh you read my mind! I decided to say yes to everything i can, as I've become such a hermit Good! Glad you recognise that you need to get out and about What ya doing? Where you going? "Drinks/visits /lunches with friends/colleagues I've not seen since pre-covid  and MLS of course! I'll also get to spend precious time with my DD
I'm also about to book on a cookery course! Excited
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"I'm lonely and it's beginning to get me down." Need to find a group hobby and join a club .. What do you like doing? | |||
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"I'm lonely and it's beginning to get me down. Need to find a group hobby and join a club .. What do you like doing? " No I mean I'm lonely and need someone in my life to make me smile and make plans. | |||
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"Oh you read my mind! I decided to say yes to everything i can, as I've become such a hermit Good! Glad you recognise that you need to get out and about What ya doing? Where you going?
Drinks/visits /lunches with friends/colleagues I've not seen since pre-covid and MLS of course! I'll also get to spend precious time with my DD
I'm also about to book on a cookery course! Excited
"That sounds amazing! I am sure you will have a great time xx | |||
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"Have absolutely no plans for today and quite frankly I’m looking for something to do" Sometimes it's nice to have no plans, down time is crucial | |||
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"I'm lonely and it's beginning to get me down." Oh PP, so sorry to hear that. Have you had a look to see what is happening in your area socially? | |||
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"Im glad my yoga class got cancelled today as Im tired after pole dancing yesterday so I am gonna give my body a rest. Watch my favourite films snuggled up with my doggos and yeah . Catching up with my bestie tomorrow evening so that’s exciting "Ah that sounds like just what you need, love a film day x | |||
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"I am good. Should be going out for drinks n food tonight but not sure it's going to happen. Just go with the flow " Ooh exciting uncertainty? I hope you have a great evening whatever the outcome x | |||
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"Going for a Christmas lunch with my friend on Tuesday  "Lovely! What are you having? X | |||
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"Fab wise - out tonight and really looking forward to it. Also seeing another gorgeous fab friend this coming week. Real life wise - work is mental which isn’t a bad thing, started Christmas shopping and getting in the spirit. All in all I’m feeling great for a change! xx" Nora! This is lovely to read, sounds like good times ahead xx | |||
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"I'm lonely and it's beginning to get me down." Come visit me. I’m lonely too  | |||
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"Was out with friends last night which was much needed. I'm counting the sleeps until my road trip next weekend. Just praying it goes to plan. Must get my bum in gear and start proper rehersals for Xmas show. My son turns 21 in a couple of weeks so feeling proud and a tad emotional. Christmas madness commences at work and it's a lovely distraction to the pressure of recruiting my replacement, preparing to hand over and starting my new job in January. It's all go. How I end up feeling will likely very much be determined by next Friday evening." Sounds like exciting times!! Road trip sounds amazing and your boy turning 21! Where on earth does the time go? Hope you have an amazing time celebrating and remember whatever emotion you feel it's because of transition, your relationship will evolve but at the heart he will always be your baby boy | |||
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"Have absolutely no plans for today and quite frankly I’m looking for something to do Sometimes it's nice to have no plans, down time is crucial " I’m finding it a bit frustrating actually… first weekend off without commitments in ages and I’ve got nothing to do… I want to let my hair down (metaphorically speaking) | |||
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"At Liverpool match today Colonoscopy next weekend Then off to Tenerife providing they decide not to remove my bowel.. The real world hey " I hope it all goes well for you, scary times indeed and easy for me to say I know but just take each day and be kind to yourself... Have a great time today and good luck to your team (even if it is Liverpool) | |||
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"Pandoras next Saturday. It's been over a year since we first visited and can't wait." Ooh exciting! What are you wearing? Will you catch up with friends or aquaint new ones? | |||
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I hope all is ok with you even though you’re not going to answer x | |||
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"I'm lonely and it's beginning to get me down. Come visit me. I’m lonely too "Rachel! Can I say you have the kindest heart and gorgeous personality | |||
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"I'm lonely and it's beginning to get me down. Need to find a group hobby and join a club .. What do you like doing? No I mean I'm lonely and need someone in my life to make me smile and make plans." Oh no! Loneliness is never nice. If you were closer I'd love to have a coffee and natter with you | |||
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"Hello OP, a bit about me : I’m contemplating what day to put my Christmas tree up
I hope all is ok with you even though you’re not going to answer x "Do it today! You know you want too | |||
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"I'm looking to having some time off after this weekend, and it's my birthday coming up so will be a couple of celebrations coming up too
On the downside, it's bloody freezing, but can't have it all."Yes it is! I haven't forgotten oooh exciting times! X | |||
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"I'm not three bad thanks, but other than work and odd drinks/food with friends my next proper PAAAAAAARRTAY isn't til my Bah Humbug bash on Sat 11th Dec "Ooh it will soon come around. What are you wearing? | |||
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"Was out at Chams last night.. no action but chatted with lots of lovely people. Out out with friends tonight, dinner, cocktails & dancing. Sunday lunch at the folks tomorrow.. so my hungover tired self won’t have to face cooking. So all in all a good/happy weekend! "This is good to hear. And sometimes it's nice to go to a club and not play, but soak up the atmosphere x | |||
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I'm doing okay, having quite a drop today (not aided by dealing with work at stupid o' clock this morning). So to navigate through it I've spent time drinking hot chocolate, doing a foot mask and watching Inside No. 9.
Things to look forward to - I'm going to some localish Christmas lights switch on next weekend as a little date with the fiance. I've got Christmas lunch with a very dear friend and the cause of my drop, the bastard. And the MLS is soon which is lovely. And lunch/cocktails with more friends.
Thinking about future plans is helping a bit but a small part of me wants to curl up and cry for no real reason. Absurd really.  | |||
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Got some nice outings coming up over the next few weeks also.
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"Currently im building up my self improvement This year i got my new place after being rehoused from homelessness after a toxic and abusive relationship that left me completely broken Im working on my diet plan to gain weight cos honestly im sick of being so slender Following on from that im working out at home cos i cant afford a gym membership, purely bodyweight exercises and yoga Im also halfway through my quit smoking program on nicotine patches after 10 years of smoking Also being on fab (other than what we are all here for) to help my self esteem and social anxiety Bit by bit im piecing my life back together and more Currently im neither happy nor sad, im in a state of healthy balance mentally" This is awesome to read! Well done on everything you've achieved so far, keep it going | |||
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"Just had my flu jab and done a covid test negative.what am I doing for the rest off the day cleaning,exercise,eating and resting." That must be a relief! Hope you take time to chill x | |||
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"Hello Miss D you beautiful dear!
I'm doing okay, having quite a drop today (not aided by dealing with work at stupid o' clock this morning). So to navigate through it I've spent time drinking hot chocolate, doing a foot mask and watching Inside No. 9.
Things to look forward to - I'm going to some localish Christmas lights switch on next weekend as a little date with the fiance. I've got Christmas lunch with a very dear friend and the cause of my drop, the bastard. And the MLS is soon which is lovely. And lunch/cocktails with more friends.
Thinking about future plans is helping a bit but a small part of me wants to curl up and cry for no real reason. Absurd really. "Sounds like self care is exactly what you need lovely. Stay focused on all the amazing things happening and remember whatever your feeling is not going to last forever x | |||
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"Just had my flu jab and done a covid test negative.what am I doing for the rest off the day cleaning,exercise,eating and resting. That must be a relief! Hope you take time to chill x" Thank you Miss D x | |||
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"I’m having a quiet weekend at home recovering from a minor op yesterday. No forthcoming plans unfortunately x " Oh no! Hope you are taking things easy and feeling OK! Get healthy please x | |||
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"Currently im building up my self improvement This year i got my new place after being rehoused from homelessness after a toxic and abusive relationship that left me completely broken Im working on my diet plan to gain weight cos honestly im sick of being so slender Following on from that im working out at home cos i cant afford a gym membership, purely bodyweight exercises and yoga Im also halfway through my quit smoking program on nicotine patches after 10 years of smoking Also being on fab (other than what we are all here for) to help my self esteem and social anxiety Bit by bit im piecing my life back together and more Currently im neither happy nor sad, im in a state of healthy balance mentally" You have a come a long way already and it will take time to process all that has happened! Glad to hear you are moving forward with your life one step at a time, no matter how you are feeling just remember how far you have come and that is truly amazing. You are an inspiration x | |||
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"Getting back to my 'normal' self " Are you ok? One step at a time hey x | |||
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"Just had my flu jab and done a covid test negative.what am I doing for the rest off the day cleaning,exercise,eating and resting. That must be a relief! Hope you take time to chill x Thank you Miss D x" | |||
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 The rest of this weekend will be spent chilling as work has been mental this week, and I'll have a video call with himself tonight because I miss his face
Next weekend I'm heading to London, going to visit the Natural History Museum because I haven't been since I was a kid, and looking to visit a new club.
The following weekend is my work Christmas party.
And then of course it's the MLS the weekend after that.
A busy few weeks coming up, and lots to be excited about | |||
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"I've just been to the hairdresser, and now have to do a supermarket shop The rest of this weekend will be spent chilling as work has been mental this week, and I'll have a video call with himself tonight because I miss his face
Next weekend I'm heading to London, going to visit the Natural History Museum because I haven't been since I was a kid, and looking to visit a new club.
The following weekend is my work Christmas party.
And then of course it's the MLS the weekend after that.
A busy few weeks coming up, and lots to be excited about "Do the science museum and the V&A if you get the chance  | |||
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"I've just been to the hairdresser, and now have to do a supermarket shop The rest of this weekend will be spent chilling as work has been mental this week, and I'll have a video call with himself tonight because I miss his face
Next weekend I'm heading to London, going to visit the Natural History Museum because I haven't been since I was a kid, and looking to visit a new club.
The following weekend is my work Christmas party.
And then of course it's the MLS the weekend after that.
A busy few weeks coming up, and lots to be excited about "Oh congrats on your new 'do
Sounds like chilling is just what you need, especially if you have a big weekend coming up, sounds amazing btw x | |||
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"I’m having a quiet weekend at home recovering from a minor op yesterday. No forthcoming plans unfortunately x Oh no! Hope you are taking things easy and feeling OK! Get healthy please x" I’m trying, though my kids seem to think I’m still able to run around doing things for them x | |||
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"Getting back to my 'normal' self Are you ok? One step at a time hey x" I will be | |||
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"I'm not three bad thanks, but other than work and odd drinks/food with friends my next proper PAAAAAAARRTAY isn't til my Bah Humbug bash on Sat 11th Dec
Ooh it will soon come around. What are you wearing? "Honestly no idea - nothing christmas related as it's NOT a christmas party
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"Been busy morning 9am Zumba class done online zoom meeting need to get petrol wash car, out later Leeds social exciting, also got antibodies result this morning I’m all dosed up with them either had Covid or vaccine so had booster too so unclear but at least know in my bloods yes "That sounds busy! Make sure you chill a bit x | |||
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"After a fairly depressing week I'm off to a naughty party tonight, so can't wait for that. " Ooh exciting, what you wearing? | |||
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"Have to smile great day of rugby" Ah amazing! Hope your team wins | |||
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"Hello Cariad , All splendid here , ive just finished work for the day and its a rather gusty but lovely autumn day. I think maybe a walk over my hill this afternoon is the plan . Then chop somelogs later I hope everything is good in your world x x "Pryhawn da cariad! Of course you are outside! Hope you have a great weekend and chill as well xx | |||
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"I'm not three bad thanks, but other than work and odd drinks/food with friends my next proper PAAAAAAARRTAY isn't til my Bah Humbug bash on Sat 11th Dec
Ooh it will soon come around. What are you wearing?
Honestly no idea - nothing christmas related as it's NOT a christmas party
It can't come soon enough though "I never know what to wear either have a great time x | |||
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"After a fairly depressing week I'm off to a naughty party tonight, so can't wait for that. Ooh exciting, what you wearing? " Dark jeans not sure what shirt to wear though! Flowery one patterns or a nice tight t shirt?!! | |||
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"Currently im building up my self improvement This year i got my new place after being rehoused from homelessness after a toxic and abusive relationship that left me completely broken Im working on my diet plan to gain weight cos honestly im sick of being so slender Following on from that im working out at home cos i cant afford a gym membership, purely bodyweight exercises and yoga Im also halfway through my quit smoking program on nicotine patches after 10 years of smoking Also being on fab (other than what we are all here for) to help my self esteem and social anxiety Bit by bit im piecing my life back together and more Currently im neither happy nor sad, im in a state of healthy balance mentally You have a come a long way already and it will take time to process all that has happened! Glad to hear you are moving forward with your life one step at a time, no matter how you are feeling just remember how far you have come and that is truly amazing. You are an inspiration x" Thanks, i appreciate that, but honestly one of the hardest things for me is feeling like my efforts are worth something. My family have zero recognition of what ive been through and what im currently doing to improve my life. And a lot of ppl ive told this too have basically responded with "oh thats nice" very underwhelming. Yet on a regular basis i see ppl praised for accomplishing less, not saying that what they have accomplished doesnt deserve merit, just that my own accomplishments feel worthless "I quit smoking after 10 years hooray for me" "im improving my health through fitness, woo" "im turning my life around, whoopdy-doo"
Honestly its actually the worst feeling ive ever felt. All that hard work and effort completely unnoticed | |||
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"Currently im building up my self improvement This year i got my new place after being rehoused from homelessness after a toxic and abusive relationship that left me completely broken Im working on my diet plan to gain weight cos honestly im sick of being so slender Following on from that im working out at home cos i cant afford a gym membership, purely bodyweight exercises and yoga Im also halfway through my quit smoking program on nicotine patches after 10 years of smoking Also being on fab (other than what we are all here for) to help my self esteem and social anxiety Bit by bit im piecing my life back together and more Currently im neither happy nor sad, im in a state of healthy balance mentally You have a come a long way already and it will take time to process all that has happened! Glad to hear you are moving forward with your life one step at a time, no matter how you are feeling just remember how far you have come and that is truly amazing. You are an inspiration x Thanks, i appreciate that, but honestly one of the hardest things for me is feeling like my efforts are worth something. My family have zero recognition of what ive been through and what im currently doing to improve my life. And a lot of ppl ive told this too have basically responded with "oh thats nice" very underwhelming. Yet on a regular basis i see ppl praised for accomplishing less, not saying that what they have accomplished doesnt deserve merit, just that my own accomplishments feel worthless "I quit smoking after 10 years hooray for me" "im improving my health through fitness, woo" "im turning my life around, whoopdy-doo"
Honestly its actually the worst feeling ive ever felt. All that hard work and effort completely unnoticed "You can choose friends but not family....fuck 'em, do it for you and when you get where you need to be then you know that you have done it without them or for them I see you, keep going x | |||
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"Tree in garden has almost shed all it's leaves. Spent a while raking up each day. Once all gone then I know winter is here!" That is a thankless task, though the leaves look pretty they are messy | |||
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"Currently im building up my self improvement This year i got my new place after being rehoused from homelessness after a toxic and abusive relationship that left me completely broken Im working on my diet plan to gain weight cos honestly im sick of being so slender Following on from that im working out at home cos i cant afford a gym membership, purely bodyweight exercises and yoga Im also halfway through my quit smoking program on nicotine patches after 10 years of smoking Also being on fab (other than what we are all here for) to help my self esteem and social anxiety Bit by bit im piecing my life back together and more Currently im neither happy nor sad, im in a state of healthy balance mentally" You sound like like you now got a handle on things and are strong and in a better place. That's good to see. I wish you all the best for continued growth and success in all your plans x | |||
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"I'm just about to hit the shower. It's the Birmingham Social tonight. I've got my dancing shoes ready "Ooh exciting! Have a great time tonight!!! Just look after your feet x | |||
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"I'm not working again until Wednesday. Unfortunately my gaming PC is in for repair so I can't spend my free time playing Witcher 3 as I'd intended." Aw bugger! What is wrong with it? Aw you're stuck with us instead, sorry about that  | |||
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"I'm just about to hit the shower. It's the Birmingham Social tonight. I've got my dancing shoes ready
Ooh exciting! Have a great time tonight!!! Just look after your feet x"I surely will on both counts x | |||
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"I'm not working again until Wednesday. Unfortunately my gaming PC is in for repair so I can't spend my free time playing Witcher 3 as I'd intended. Aw bugger! What is wrong with it? Aw you're stuck with us instead, sorry about that "Don't know, first my keyboard wouldn't connect through any of the USB ports, but would through a hub. Then I found one of the hard drives had disappeared, and finally it stopped booting up at all. Possibly a motherboard problem. Good thing it's under warranty. And yes, I'll probably spend the whole time on Fab instead, looking for a Yennifer lookalike  | |||
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, well I’m just about there haha! On a positive note, I have some serious catching up to do when I get better, and can’t wait for that! Have a great weekend everyone Miss pc | |||
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