FabSwingers.com forum: Veris

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys anyone help , so im on my fourth account on here , on the old ones had lots of veris but since returning things have changed and harder to meet people , so my question is , a lot won’t meet you unless you have verification ( totally understand ) BUT ! I met someone yesterday , but because I’m not veried I can’t give them a verification ! And she new to fabs so also can’t verify me ??? So how do you get a veri to start ??

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Lee

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Hey guys anyone help , so im on my fourth account on here , on the old ones had lots of veris but since returning things have changed and harder to meet people , so my question is , a lot won’t meet you unless you have verification ( totally understand ) BUT ! I met someone yesterday , but because I’m not veried I can’t give them a verification ! And she new to fabs so also can’t verify me ??? So how do you get a veri to start ??

Thanks

Lee"

Clubs and socials are great places to get verified.

Cal

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Thanks

Lee"

Also, it's easy for women to get meets. So she should make sure her next meet is with someone verified... they can verify her and then she can verify you.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you can’t get verified unless you meet someone who’s verified ? How did the first person get there verification ?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Thanks

Lee"

Just like you got the “loads” before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That was when the site wasn’t full of fakes ! Love how everyone on here rather than helps has to be smarty pants , but thanks for your helpful reply

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around

Webcam veri?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That was when the site wasn’t full of fakes ! Love how everyone on here rather than helps has to be smarty pants , but thanks for your helpful reply "

But if you've been here 4 times before you already know how to get verified?

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"That was when the site wasn’t full of fakes ! Love how everyone on here rather than helps has to be smarty pants , but thanks for your helpful reply

But if you've been here 4 times before you already know how to get verified?

Was just about to say this. I had an account before this one so knew what was needed. First thing I did after writing a bit about me and uploading some pictures was to jump on cam and get verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea I must of met people who was already verified ?? There no longer on here any time I’ve verified someone it’s alway let me this is first time it’s happened , I know how you do it my point is so unless I meet a verified person ! Which 90 percent now on here WONT meet you until your verified because to many fakes on here ruining it , then you have no choice but to meet others that aren’t verified !! Which isn’t a problem but then you can’t verify each other ?? Anyways thanks for reply’s guys thought there must be a way around this but clearly seems there isn’t haha

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Yea I must of met people who was already verified ?? There no longer on here any time I’ve verified someone it’s alway let me this is first time it’s happened , I know how you do it my point is so unless I meet a verified person ! Which 90 percent now on here WONT meet you until your verified because to many fakes on here ruining it , then you have no choice but to meet others that aren’t verified !! Which isn’t a problem but then you can’t verify each other ?? Anyways thanks for reply’s guys thought there must be a way around this but clearly seems there isn’t haha

Go to a club or social event.

Go on cam and ask someone to veri you.

It's quite easy if you're willing to make some effort and a veri is that important to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you say jump on cam I’m guessing you mean where everyone can see you ?? As doesn’t give 1-1 option does it ? I’m photo verified and also a paying member to the site and also met people from the site ! So that’s not enough ? I also need to either go to a. Club or go on a camara for the world to see ??

Feel there’s a bit of a mess up site wise really ! Lol

A lot of accounts you can’t even talk to people as it’s set that they won’t speak to u. Verified people so how do you meet these people that are verified ??? As it it you constantly trying to ween out the bloke pretending to be couple or woman ( plonkers ) but then when you genuinely find people your then still can’t be amongst verified because you don’t meet a verified person ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same way you got verified “lots” before

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A veri is important ti me at all ! I’m on here to meet people but I can’t without the veri ! I’m more than happy to go on cam with people that’s not a problem either although it’s not really my thing ! But thought cam was a group thing didn’t realize you can do 121

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Going round in circles here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Lady you met will get verified when she meets more men and then she can verify you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guys thanks for the genuine. Reply’s seems going around in circles but I now know I need to sit on cam with someone or go to a club. ? I’ll leave this now if I can’t delete it sorry ! But I’m working at same time I’ll try delet thread now

Thanks again

Lee

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yes there are people that won't meet those who aren't verified. Without sounding like an absolute cunt, 99% of those same people probably wouldn't meet you even if you WERE verified.

It doesn't open as many doors as you may think. It ain't the holy grail, although I do agree it can be helpful to some.

You've had a meet as you say, so you're not having your hands tied by not having a veri. I'd be pretty peeved if I was the woman you met coz it almost sounds like the most important bit of the meet for you was getting a green tick.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Hi,

First of all I think you need to rethink your expectations. People are still very nervous about meeting up, so when they do they will want to have some guarantees that the meet will happen. Words only mean so much, veris mean a little more. Don't be angry that people will only want to meet if your veri'd, be understanding.

If this is your 4th time here I'm surprised you didn't know how the verification system works, its been like this for the past 10+ years I've been on the site at various times (this is like my 8th account here, and had to jump through the same hoops every time).

Although I don't doubt you had a meet, unless one of you has been verified by someone else then please see the other side, all we have is your word that it actually happened. This is why the system is the way it is, and generally works well.

And there's been some good advice here. In fact I think every option open to you has been explored. Hope you find a solution in the above wisdom and are able to start enjoying the site a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well that’s good job your not that woman then lol ,, I’m not taking anything you say as a dog either btw ,, the woman I met yesterday is new so hopefully yes she will get veried soon ! I don’t have probelem meeting people when I’m not on the site hence why I don’t spend all my time on here doing looking , was just a simple question really as when I had old accounts o could always veri people without any problems ? Personally just thought bit unfair that I have to meet someone already verified but 90 percent of those accounts are set to not except mail from people who are not verified !! So your at a lose lose , I pay to use the site , I’m photo verified and I’ve met people off the site just can’t veri ,!!

Anyway have a good day and thanks for your comment ! Also your not for me either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally agree with literally everything you’ve said !! This isn’t at all what I was asking though ? Was simply how do you get a veri if you and the other person are not verified ??? And it’s turned into let’s all attack a guy fir asking a question as this guy is just on her trying to get green ticks and notches on the bed post lol

Cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I see your saying all you have is my word it’s happened BUT the woman is also trying to verify me , so then there are two people trying to verify each other ! That’s two words I get it’s got to be made so that it’s genuine , but I am photo verified , I do pay to use the site and I do follow the rules , if I’m meeting some one I’m genuine and I turn up ! I don’t mess people about ! And yes on my old accounts I verified people with no problems as now I realize they must have already been verified and gave me my veto first ! So this is now new to me ! Just after the site being quite hard work with fakes it’s just another thing to add for the geunine people to get around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re on your 4th account, and you realise how hard it is to get them (and feel you need them) then next time you quit the site don’t bin your assets and start afresh, just hide your profile and log out

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

The way it works is to stop people creating multiple fake accounts and verifying themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4th time on fab… doesn’t know how to use reply+quote…. Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea maybe I do that next time , I don’t feel I need them at all I don’t know where this is coming from ! Having said that on flip side I kind of do need them because most of the people I want to talk to have there accounts set to not except messages from anyone not verified

So when you take that away then take away the fakes there’s barely anyone to message lol

But Thankyou for the reply next time I’ll just hide it never planned coming back just every year or so end up looking again

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The way it works is to stop people creating multiple fake accounts and verifying themselves "

Yea I understand that mate totally agree was just a question that’s all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also yea sorry guys didn’t realize wasn’t posting to the quotes I’ve never used forum , and I’m quite dislexic but thanks for pointing that out half of what I wrote only makes sense as phone writes it for me

Next question how do I delete the thread ! Had enough of being dragged down for one day lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Op I honestly can't see anyone attacking you, people have explained to you how you can get verified, so surely you should be thankful rather than being a grumpy Gus

. If you don't want honest answers then maybe not ask the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also yea sorry guys didn’t realize wasn’t posting to the quotes I’ve never used forum , and I’m quite dislexic but thanks for pointing that out half of what I wrote only makes sense as phone writes it for me

Next question how do I delete the thread ! Had enough of being dragged down for one day lol "

I don’t think you can delete a thread.

I wasn’t having a dig, just an observation. I do think a club or social is your best way to get verified. That’s what we did and we ended up having a great night and now go to clubs regularly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Next question how do I delete the thread ! Had enough of being dragged down for one day lol

I don’t think you can delete a thread.

I wasn’t having a dig, just an observation. I do think a club or social is your best way to get verified. That’s what we did and we ended up having a great night and now go to clubs regularly "

Ok thanks

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