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Do you sleep in the dark ?

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By *essie. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

I like no light on in my room, but I always leave the landing light on. I like the chink of light shining through by bedroom door.

What’s your preference ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dark, unless it’s a haunted house

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Blackout curtains and everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! If there’s light then I have to wear an eye mask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a say.

Lights out for everyone on my block at 9 sharp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute darkness. I struggle sleeping when I'm in a town/city and there are street lights. Pitch black for me please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a bit of light, however small. I sometimes, and still, get night terrors that are so vivid, I need the light from the moment my eyes open to ease my mind from the mania.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dark, unless it’s a haunted house "

How many haunted houses have you slept in?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

If I’m tired I’ll sleep day or night.

The only time I’m in pitch black is if staying in a hotel. London is never dark.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I can sleep in pitch blackness or with the bedroom light on.

I fell asleep with my wax burner on last night, which gives off a nice sparkly glow.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Completely pitch black please. I have a selection of eye masks to ensure this too.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Dark. I don't even like the light of a bedside clock.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pitch black. Easier to pretend there's a hot lady laid next to me then!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Absolutely must be dark everywhere. Unlike stupid films and shows where they leave curtains open etc

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"If I’m tired I’ll sleep day or night.

The only time I’m in pitch black is if staying in a hotel. London is never dark. "

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Apparently they have curtains in London too. You'll find out soon enough.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not if I'm alone, I have to have a light on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dark, unless it’s a haunted house

How many haunted houses have you slept in?"

There’s been a few where I’ve had the willies put up me

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Dark every light off x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Dark, I live in the middle of no where so gets pitch black. I now struggle if there’s any light at all if I sleep anywhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer just a dimmed light, luckily the amber street lamp outside my windows gives just enough light for me to see everything easily but not enough to disturb me or keep me awake

Sound on the other hand, i need sound, i grew up near a motorway so i often find it hard to slow my brain down when its dead silent, so i fall asleep with something quietly playing on netflix in the background

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Dark, unless it’s a haunted house

How many haunted houses have you slept in?

There’s been a few where I’ve had the willies put up me "

That fab straight for you..

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

It doesn't matter to me, I can sleep with lights on or off or with just a tiny bit of light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total darkness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sleep in the dark, but have the landing light on when I have the kids so that they know where they are going if they wake up for a pee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always in darkness. I tend to settle better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes! If there’s light then I have to wear an eye mask "

I'm the same, i need the room totally black or I have to put somthing over my eye's.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Dark as possible.

Which is a problem when on holiday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't sleep with the light on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tv on with a timer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need it pitch black! I'm really sensitive to light and like my bedtime to be dark. My partner gets so pissed off at me because even the small dim light from his watch or phone at night will wake me up and I'll moan at him.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Plug in hallway light so I don't trip or stub my toe in the dark when going to the loo half asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The darker the room, the better. I've got blackout curtains for that reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the ability to sleep under most conditions and in almost any position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the ability to sleep under most conditions and in almost any position."

I could help you test that out some time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No lights, curtains open, windows open all year round.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it as dark as possible

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Pitch black. Easier to pretend there's a hot lady laid next to me then! "

Or a ghoul

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I have the ability to sleep under most conditions and in almost any position."

You sound like my ex husband.

He could lay down on a wooden staircase and fall asleep in seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We normally go to sleep with the TV on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blinds , blackout curtains and welders goggles , its not that my wife's ugly ..

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Uber dark ... can't even have the standby light dot of a TV or charger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dark and i need it completely quiet too!

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By *unandgamegeekMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I've always slept with a small light on as I've never felt comfortable sleeping in the dark on my own.

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By *asepaul71Man
over a year ago

Buxton


"I've always slept with a small light on as I've never felt comfortable sleeping in the dark on my own."

I hold you so you feel safe x

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Dark.

But i can sleep easily anywhere as long as I have a pillow and something over me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like no light on in my room, but I always leave the landing light on. I like the chink of light shining through by bedroom door.

What’s your preference ?

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I’m the same, I cannot sleep in total darkness

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Pitch black, or semi-dark are both good for me.

Currently semi-dark, so once the eyes adjust to the low-light, the furniture in the room throws strange shapes around the walls.

Sometimes its "the Wolves", other times if the airer is out, it's "The squat man".

Occasionally, if one of the mirrored-wardrobe doors is left open, it's "The Portal".

Overall though, it's shapes, patterns and shadows, always different.

I did toy with getting a lava lamp to make them more dynamic, but it'd probably shed too much light and be too interesting to look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Uber dark ... can't even have the standby light dot of a TV or charger "

This for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Closing my eyes counts as being in the dark for me. I'm an efficient sleeper

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to sleep in the dark. However, as someone who could sleep on a knife edge, I ain’t too fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t sleep anyway so if it’s light I’ve got no fucking chance!

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By *ooking4othersMan
over a year ago

Here ...

I travel a lot and worked out that if I sleep with the telly on then it blocks out all the strange noises you get in hotels e.g lifts, people walking down the corridors etc so I get a good sleep.

Unfortunately I tend do the same thing at home now as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tv on usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete darkness is a must for me. Blackout blinds (or a sleep mask in hotels).

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"I don't have a say.

Lights out for everyone on my block at 9 sharp "

It's tough in the Joy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the dark. Blackout curtains up aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully dark. Even small light will spoil my sleep

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I like complete darkness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pitch black. Hate any kind of light

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Blacker than midnight for me.

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

We have some fairy lights (non twingling lol) on the shelf that stay on

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast

No I sleep in the nude

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Complete darkness and no noise. Certain bed, pillow and mattress otherwise there is no chance of me sleeping.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Don't care, can sleep anywhere at anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dark ..

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

If it's dark, I feel attractive

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I am always enlightened, even when I’m sleeping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pitch black for me

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Pitch black for me "

I'd have to use my hands to get around the room then. I notice you already have braile installed x

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Complete darkness....

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Nope I sleep in a bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be dark. I don't like any light coming into the room at all, that just keeps me awake x

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Dark as possible, can't sleep with the light coming in.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

In the dark. The winter nights have one positive.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Guess you could say we all sleep in the dark as we can't sleep with our eyes open ... You shut your eyes, it goes dark?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Have never been able to sleep in the dark I like background noise so I have my bedside lamp on and my tv on low x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sleep with the tv on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely dark xx

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