FabSwingers.com forum: In the lounge and out the lounge

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is your persona the same? Do you prefer staying in the lounge or do you prefer the social meets? Have you noticed people are different (not necessarily in a bad way) to what you expect?

I like to think I show my true self between the two but I'm definitely more shy in person. Although once I'm relaxed I do enjoy the wafts of innuendos and witty 'banter' that seem to seep out of me. I like to think I'm fast off the mark. Don't worry, I can have a civilised conversation too.

Husband has no desire to chat online (apparently xbox/pc games is different though, who knew?!)

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm the exact same rambling idiot in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very timid in groups. Used to be the same with one on one but I think I've managed to break through that mostly now

. Especially when the clothes come off

I used to hate chatting online in video games though because I was super self conscious about my accent

Now I'm older I don't care anymore, just listen to my instructions noob

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m much the same irrespective of where I post, my style and thought processes seem to match the lounge more though, so this is where I tend to be found the most.

I’d like to think that I’m much the same in person, although I’ve been told that I’m funnier off the page.

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

I am the same in both but I can be perceived as quiet when I am people watching as I am taking in the scenery, people obviously don't get to see that online

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I'm me but 'me' may not be the illusion you conjured up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am the same in both but I can be perceived as quiet when I am people watching as I am taking in the scenery, people obviously don't get to see that online

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure i suppose those that have met me will vouch if im the same in real life. Im not sure i am tbf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how much I like you in a social setting. If we get on, you’ll get me.

In the forum, I think little bits of me are shown, other bits ar complete fabrications to throw anyone of the scent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and your husbands is on the Xbox?

*tell him to call me…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you see/read is what you get. Same on or off the Forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm pretty much the same. Maybe even more chaotic in real life. Possibly bit nicer. But never had a feedback saying: oh that's not how I imagined you in real life.. so that's a relief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont believe im any different online or in real life, but its hard for ppl to really judge a persons persona from online interactions to real life encounters. Someone might not be different in either place but you could completely mistake them as being someone entirely different

Also, did you know during ancient roman theatrical plays, the masks they would wear were called 'persona', hence the modern adaptation now referring to someones personality, to put on a persona, or mask

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

My personality is pretty much the same. Naturally with a bit of added shyness initially.

If anyone wants to put it to the test, just shout

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'm going to buck the trend here. But I'm different here compared to if you met me. I'm a lot more formal with the written word than I am when I chat away with people. My values etc are all the same regardless of where I am. But my sense of humour and fun aren't really shown all that much here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am me no matter whare I am online in real life I am the same person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult to repress my natural exuberance and feistiness in the Lounge. But I think I've nailed it.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'm me but 'me' may not be the illusion you conjured up. "

She's actually Debbie McGee in disguise ^

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’m quieter on here but say what I think no matter the audience.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Forgot to add. I don't swear. It comes out here more ..... as I type what i'm thinking at the time but if I think about it I do not shout Fuck this Fuck that in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forgot to add. I don't swear. It comes out here more ..... as I type what i'm thinking at the time but if I think about it I do not shout Fuck this Fuck that in public."

Disappointing

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Forgot to add. I don't swear. It comes out here more ..... as I type what i'm thinking at the time but if I think about it I do not shout Fuck this Fuck that in public toilets."

Thank god for that, I think we're all relieved now

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I really don’t know. Plenty of forum people have met me so I guess they can be the judge. Probably more fun and happy in real life than I am on here.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot

People would probably say I'm more smiley/not quite as prickly in person...I'm still very direct though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably different, unless I know you very well. I like the forum (specifically the Lounge area anyway), and I think how I come across would be very recognisably me to anyone that saw my posts. Certainly, in the spirit of curating yourselves as we all do online, Lounge me is my favourite version of me. If you met me, you'd probably get that version, or at least see moments of it, but only if we were getting on well. If we weren't, I'd seem very different and probably be overly polite until I could leave

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"People would probably say I'm more smiley/not quite as prickly in person...I'm still very direct though "

You can order this lady through Sports Direct ^

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm the same shitshow online as offline. I talk more offline though, I find myself typing posts on here and then thinking "nah, fuck it" and scrapping them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very shy in person, but once I’m relaxed around someone then yes, I’m the same(I reckon so anyway).

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