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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been having regular massages recently as I'm running alot and always seem to get an erection. I'm obviously very relaxed but it is my best mates wife that is doing the massage.

Would be interested to hear if anyone has been on either side of the scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been having regular massages recently as I'm running alot and always seem to get an erection. I'm obviously very relaxed but it is my best mates wife that is doing the massage.

Would be interested to hear if anyone has been on either side of the scenario."

Do not cross that boundary lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Find some one else to massage you

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Rex holes is like this

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

It happens. It’s no big deal it is what it is. She’s probably not all that bothered if she’s a masseuse, it will be quite common.

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham


"Been having regular massages recently as I'm running alot and always seem to get an erection. I'm obviously very relaxed but it is my best mates wife that is doing the massage.

Would be interested to hear if anyone has been on either side of the scenario."

Yes when I had aromatherapy. I was 25 she was attractive 40+

I know she saw them as she trained a female colleague. She asked her tutor what about if a guy gets an erection. The reply was well one guy does..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she notice ?

If yes, ask her for her views. Assuming she's a professional.

If she's not, maybe find someone else.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Been having regular massages recently as I'm running alot and always seem to get an erection. I'm obviously very relaxed but it is my best mates wife that is doing the massage.

Would be interested to hear if anyone has been on either side of the scenario."

Is it a proper massage on a table with a towel or on a bed with clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been having regular massages recently as I'm running alot and always seem to get an erection. I'm obviously very relaxed but it is my best mates wife that is doing the massage.

Would be interested to hear if anyone has been on either side of the scenario."

If she's clocked it she should be adjusting the towels/sheets to save you both any embarrassment.

Maybe crack one off before you go to see her next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been having regular massages recently as I'm running alot and always seem to get an erection. I'm obviously very relaxed but it is my best mates wife that is doing the massage.

Would be interested to hear if anyone has been on either side of the scenario.

If she's clocked it she should be adjusting the towels/sheets to save you both any embarrassment.

Maybe crack one off before you go to see her next time."

...and if this is her job, she'll have seen it all before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a bit weird that your best mate’s wife is giving you massages anyway. I’m guessing she’s a professional masseuse or physio but even so, it seems like a bit too much intimacy. There’s always a bit of a sexual element to a massage even if it’s not intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems a bit weird that your best mate’s wife is giving you massages anyway. I’m guessing she’s a professional masseuse or physio but even so, it seems like a bit too much intimacy. There’s always a bit of a sexual element to a massage even if it’s not intended. "

Sexual element? Only from some men I think.

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Find some one else to massage you "

Same... Not worth risking a friendship over an erection

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Seems a bit weird that your best mate’s wife is giving you massages anyway. I’m guessing she’s a professional masseuse or physio but even so, it seems like a bit too much intimacy. There’s always a bit of a sexual element to a massage even if it’s not intended. "

Sensual and sexual. Two separate areas that can and do overlap. If you have boundaries, stick to them.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Been having regular massages recently as I'm running alot and always seem to get an erection. I'm obviously very relaxed but it is my best mates wife that is doing the massage.

Would be interested to hear if anyone has been on either side of the scenario."

You know if he is your best friend have some respect for him

If your little fella stands up

Find some one else to massage you I think its

Disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find some one else to massage you

Same... Not worth risking a friendship over an erection"

This made me laugh, but true yes

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By *auliewalnutsMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Shag her

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Well when I used to run a lot and had regular sport's massage a hard on was absolutely the last thing on my mind.

The pain of a deep tissue massage especially the ITB can be excruciating.

Maybe she needs to get in deeper.

Or just put grow up and turn onto your tummy.

If a woman was doing sport's massage I'd always wear boxers or shorts.

Sounds a bit like a fantasy OP sorry.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve been seeing a Thai masses use for about a month , she’s insists I take my boxers off, it’s the first time I’ve been asked to. Her fingers got precariously close to my balls at one point t I started to get a hard on. Anyway the last time I went we got chatting , I ended up giving her a brief massage afterwards amd slipped a finger in briefly. I’ve no idea where this is going , she’s never asked for sex or extra money it’s £45. For one hours full body sensual massage, do you think she’s a hooker trying to reel me in ?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Not much of a mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the same therapist for a rub down, and a deep tissue massage. One has me so relaxed that the little fella occasionally becomes big fella. No dramas, he’s seen it all before and has it happen with him regularly. The other has me screaming in agony and the little fella stays well hidden

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

This is the exact reason females in this line of work feel the need to explicitly state in their business adverts NO SEXUAL SERVICE.

it is a shame they have to do that. But pervert men can't seem to grow up.

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Fella you've gone to somewhere that offers a sensual massage. And paid for it. And then think it's weird you are told to get nude ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been having regular massages recently as I'm running alot and always seem to get an erection. I'm obviously very relaxed but it is my best mates wife that is doing the massage.

Would be interested to hear if anyone has been on either side of the scenario."

I have a weekly massage due to work stress (nhs) with a Thai Masseuse, have a stiffy every time, but its just get on with her job, proffessional, is aware of it but she sticks to her job. Its not unusual, its pretty normal, while deep tissue is great there is a sensual side to it. So its normal to feel aroused, but youve paid for a proffessional massage, thats what you get, dont spoil it by asking for extras if its doing you good, you'll lose her or him with short shrifft. Lie back and enjoy it, end of.

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos


"Been having regular massages recently as I'm running alot and always seem to get an erection. I'm obviously very relaxed but it is my best mates wife that is doing the massage.

Would be interested to hear if anyone has been on either side of the scenario.

If she's clocked it she should be adjusting the towels/sheets to save you both any embarrassment.

Maybe crack one off before you go to see her next time.

...and if this is her job, she'll have seen it all before."

Absolutely 100%. I had an embarrassing moment at the doctors once whilst having an MOT. She was very attractive and I find myself stood with my jeans around my knees with her knelt down hold my penis moving it side to side finger and thumb around the end whilst checking my nuts. Every time she changed hands my foreskin rolled back a little and then it started. I kept saying to myself DO NOT look down. Curiosity got the best of me! Doctor was so professional as I apologised very embarrassed, she told me not to worry it was her job and she’d seen it happen before. As I was buckling up she was remarking everything seemed ok and at least things look like they are working fine. Both laughed and that was that. Consummate professional who put an embarrassed old man at ease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out my story called wife watching Skype in the stories section, it’s all about massage!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get an erection when I get a MESSAGE, just as well no bugger ever writes to me on here

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By *anther81Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

Maybe think how it would go if you told her hubby I get a raging hard on every time your missus massages me.

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
over a year ago

Cambs


"Well when I used to run a lot and had regular sport's massage a hard on was absolutely the last thing on my mind.

The pain of a deep tissue massage especially the ITB can be excruciating.

Maybe she needs to get in deeper.

Or just put grow up and turn onto your tummy.

If a woman was doing sport's massage I'd always wear boxers or shorts.

Sounds a bit like a fantasy OP sorry."

This exactly

I have to suffer this kind of torture on a regular basis unless you enjoy pain and i do mean serious pain i can't imagine getting an erection or even thinking these kind of thoughts about whomever is trying to rip there way through my legs

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By *leanandkeenMan
over a year ago

jarrow

I get massages quite regularly and alter places as I know some happy end and others don’t so just really depends on the mood I’m in. My advice would be to use a different masseuse to your mates wife however if she gives very good sports massage then have a wank just before hand to remove the urges and if she’s working higher up the leg with you not getting a stiffy then she wants the sword

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's fairly common from my experience giving them, so just relax and don't push anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a massage therapist and I would and have in the past ignored that situation.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Never happened as im not in that zone its a professional service totally unrelated to sex in my mind. If she turns up dressed in a latex catsuit with the arse cut out and massages my knob with her tonsils then that might be a grey area. But a normal therapy treatment I don’t view as sexual in any way.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Some men make me embarrassed control you self ffs..

How do you make it through life with your dick jumping up every time you are within 2 meters of women.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Been having regular massages recently as I'm running alot and always seem to get an erection. I'm obviously very relaxed but it is my best mates wife that is doing the massage.

Would be interested to hear if anyone has been on either side of the scenario."

Dude, get out of this situation. No good can come if it. You are clearly uncomfortable about it and the poor woman must feel awkward as hell. It’s really not cool continuing to do this

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