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Those 2021 New Years Resolutions …

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, did you make any?

Did you keep to them? If not how long before you broke them?

Or is it just a load of bobbins and you don’t need a change in a calendar to drive you to improve?

Mine : weight loss goal - achieved so far. Mini lapse in the last month but recoverable!

Run more - achieved. Weekly Parkruns added too!

Have more sex - achieved

Grow old gracefully - FAIL!

How about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its been a weird few years I think we've all been allowed not to have to make or stick to resolutions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its been a weird few years I think we've all been allowed not to have to make or stick to resolutions "

Ahh is that code for “I broke them by 10am on January 1st?”

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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My only resolution was to start being more proactive in doing things that make me happy. At the end of last year I wasn't in the happiest of places but this year? I've actually done quite well. I've started saying yes to more things. And no to things that don't make me happy. Experimenting and exploring and remaining true to my boundaries as the year has gone on.

So big tick for my only resolution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bobbins...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My only resolution was to start being more proactive in doing things that make me happy. At the end of last year I wasn't in the happiest of places but this year? I've actually done quite well. I've started saying yes to more things. And no to things that don't make me happy. Experimenting and exploring and remaining true to my boundaries as the year has gone on.

So big tick for my only resolution.

"

that’s really positive and good to hear.

The path to a happier life is a great one to be on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been a weird few years I think we've all been allowed not to have to make or stick to resolutions

Ahh is that code for “I broke them by 10am on January 1st?” "

pretty much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bobbins..."

ha maybe. Sometimes we need a prompt though and perhaps a change of calendar year is as good a prompt as any!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was to not have any meets from fab

So far I'm achieving it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine was to not have any meets from fab

So far I'm achieving it "

Ahh winning!! Although I hope you fail miserably in your resolution before the year is out my friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine was to not have any meets from fab

So far I'm achieving it

Ahh winning!! Although I hope you fail miserably in your resolution before the year is out my friend! "

No chance of failure on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think mine was to stay away from twats, I'd say it's been a pretty successful year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think mine was to stay away from twats, I'd say it's been a pretty successful year "

Well, until you replied to this thread and I ended up replying to you of course! Sorry about that! I hate to break peoples resolutions!

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Get out more and visit more clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get out more and visit more clubs "

Have you been able to? Hopefully you’ve smashed it this year!

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

Stop coming on to Fab !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aaaaaaannnndddd… how’s that going?

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"Bobbins..."

I completely agree, I'm already planning on next year in terms of work, fitness etc. Don't need resolutions, be positive all year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bobbins...

I completely agree, I'm already planning on next year in terms of work, fitness etc. Don't need resolutions, be positive all year "

it’s a great policy if you’re organised (unlike me!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to try and stop biting my nails every year but of recent times New Years Eve/Day bring back horrible memories for me and therefore I don't really get into the whole fad. Each to their own I guess

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"Bobbins...

I completely agree, I'm already planning on next year in terms of work, fitness etc. Don't need resolutions, be positive all year

November and December are usually quite times of the year for me, so it makes it easier. Went back swimming a month ago and started Yoga yesterday.

it’s a great policy if you’re organised (unlike me!)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do new year resolutions. If there's anything I want to do - it becomes a resolution there and then with achievable timeframe. Doesn't matter what time of the year it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to try and stop biting my nails every year but of recent times New Years Eve/Day bring back horrible memories for me and therefore I don't really get into the whole fad. Each to their own I guess "

Sorry to hear that my friend, I don’t actually like NYE at all, no bad experiences though just for some reason can’t be in a celebratory mood.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't do new year resolutions. If there's anything I want to do - it becomes a resolution there and then with achievable timeframe. Doesn't matter what time of the year it is."

well exactly, why defer what you can start now?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly can’t remember what I chose, if I even did. But I don’t feel like a had a good year tbh. So maybe I’ll be more thoughtful for 2022

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly can’t remember what I chose, if I even did. But I don’t feel like a had a good year tbh. So maybe I’ll be more thoughtful for 2022"

Hopefully 2022 will be awesome!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Dont make them as work on the principle of why wait until the start of a year. If your going to.make changes to your life etc then start immediately don't wait for some date in the future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont make them as work on the principle of why wait until the start of a year. If your going to.make changes to your life etc then start immediately don't wait for some date in the future."

agreed! But maybe the break over the festive season and time off a hectic work life gives you a natural chance to actually pause for thought and evaluate things when other times are so busy you can’t. And obviously that diet can’t start *immediately* as there’s still the Bounty’s and coffee cremes left at the bottom of the sweet tin to get through, and those last few mince pies …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple achieved. I never like resolutions but they worked this year. Gave me a kick to persevere.. so I'll stick with that. Roll on 2022. I'm finishing 21 on a really good note and so happy for you getting so many ticks on your list Banta

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I didn't make any

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A couple achieved. I never like resolutions but they worked this year. Gave me a kick to persevere.. so I'll stick with that. Roll on 2022. I'm finishing 21 on a really good note and so happy for you getting so many ticks on your list Banta "

loving all the positivity on your profile recently my lovely. I hope 2022 is going to be awesome for you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't make any"

None made means none can be broken Probably a wise strategy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a little bit grinchy, but I don’t see the point in New Year resolutions. If there’s something about you, or your life, that you want to change. Do it now, there’s no need to wait until Jan 1st.

My resolution started in June 2020, I’m now a LOT lighter and smaller than I was.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s a little bit grinchy, but I don’t see the point in New Year resolutions. If there’s something about you, or your life, that you want to change. Do it now, there’s no need to wait until Jan 1st.

My resolution started in June 2020, I’m now a LOT lighter and smaller than I was. "

good work! Glad it’s gone so well!

It’s when I tip those scales on Dec 31st after all the Turkey, mince pies, chocolate and excess of Christmas that I vow to lose weight (again!) over the next few months!

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Get out more and visit more clubs

Have you been able to? Hopefully you’ve smashed it this year! "

Been to fallen angle a few times and went Leeds LFF which was great but want to do more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple achieved. I never like resolutions but they worked this year. Gave me a kick to persevere.. so I'll stick with that. Roll on 2022. I'm finishing 21 on a really good note and so happy for you getting so many ticks on your list Banta

loving all the positivity on your profile recently my lovely. I hope 2022 is going to be awesome for you x "

Aww.. thanks. I have lots of positivity finally gifted to me so that emanates I guess.

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