FabSwingers.com forum: Unopened messages

By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

How many of the dreaded yellow messages do you have in your outbox ?

I’m currently at 19 !!

Still hoping some might get opened!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1 for me but i know theyre just busy with their life away from the site

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Only 1 for me but i know theyre just busy with their life away from the site

What’s the secret ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

542

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

None, send then delete (unless it's an ongoing chat), if I get a reply great and if not I'll never know if they even read it

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"None, send then delete (unless it's an ongoing chat), if I get a reply great and if not I'll never know if they even read it"

Good plan xx

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"542

I thought my 19 was bad !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All deleted, I’ll never know if they’re read or not.

Any reply Is a delightful surprise.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just 1 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None as I clear out sent messages to save my fragile ego

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

1 but I've only just sent it and I know he'll read it later.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"None as I clear out sent messages to save my fragile ego "

I’ll have to try this

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"1 but I've only just sent it and I know he'll read it later. "

Who’s the lucky guy ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The big question is, how many people are you messaging to try and get your dick wet?

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"The big question is, how many people are you messaging to try and get your dick wet? "

I thought that was the idea?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We have one and when it's opened hopeful we will have the weekend arranged.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I send about two or three messages a year. Over ten years, probably forty or fifty at most.

To me, sending the first message should be used incredibly sparingly - when there’s something in the other person’s profile that makes you sense that you’ll “click” with them on many levels (not just they look great, they live locally)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 which i reckon isn't too bad all things considered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only 1 for me but i know theyre just busy with their life away from the site

What’s the secret ? Lol"

Ah ah aah a magician never reveals his secret

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"1 but I've only just sent it and I know he'll read it later.

Who’s the lucky guy ? Xx"

Someone I've known on here for over 2 years. That's how I am so sure he will read and reply.

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By *ongLeggyLadyWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

None unread sent, but 286 unread in my inbox

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"How many of the dreaded yellow messages do you have in your outbox ?

I’m currently at 19 !!

Still hoping some might get opened!!"

Erm ... Messages can be read without opening them though

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By *ongLeggyLadyWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

None unread sent, but 286 unread in my inbox

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"1 but I've only just sent it and I know he'll read it later.

Who’s the lucky guy ? Xx

Someone I've known on here for over 2 years. That's how I am so sure he will read and reply. "

Have a good time

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"None unread sent, but 286 unread in my inbox

Can I make it 287 ? Xx

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"How many of the dreaded yellow messages do you have in your outbox ?

I’m currently at 19 !!

Still hoping some might get opened!!

Erm ... Messages can be read without opening them though

Ok how does that work?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"How many of the dreaded yellow messages do you have in your outbox ?

I’m currently at 19 !!

Still hoping some might get opened!

Erm ... Messages can be read without opening them though

Ok how does that work?"

If someone has sent a reply even once ... from the sent box you can go back in to that message and see new messages as well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8, I know some will be opened & at least one won’t be

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"None unread sent, but 286 unread in my inbox

You need a PA.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"How many of the dreaded yellow messages do you have in your outbox ?

I’m currently at 19 !!

Still hoping some might get opened!

Erm ... Messages can be read without opening them though

Ok how does that work?

If someone has sent a reply even once ... from the sent box you can go back in to that message and see new messages as well..."

Ok they need to reply first !!!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Eight. Three to friends who will read them later. Two responding to couples who have messaged us and three to single guys from the South East who messaged us whilst we were in London but we declined their offers of company.

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By *ongLeggyLadyWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

"None unread sent, but 286 unread in my inbox

Can I make it 287 ? Xx"

One more won’t hurt

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By *ongLeggyLadyWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

"None unread sent, but 286 unread in my inbox

You need a PA. "

That’s or delete all

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"None unread sent, but 286 unread in my inbox

Can I make it 287 ? Xx

One more won’t hurt

Can’t unfortunately xxx maybe you could send me one xxxx

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

No need to be looking at those … if not opened within a day or so just erase them, if they want to get back to you they still have they still have the message ..

You’ll be a better person for it

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"No need to be looking at those … if not opened within a day or so just erase them, if they want to get back to you they still have they still have the message ..

You’ll be a better person for it

I know !! I’ll try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send very few now. If any are unread after a week, I delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at whether my message has been read when I send messages out. I have no intention of starting this either.

NBVN x

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I never look at whether my message has been read when I send messages out. I have no intention of starting this either.

NBVN x"

I imagine everyone reads your messages!! Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi, I replied!

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Oi, I replied!

You are perfect!!! Apart from being so far away!! Xxxx

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By *isteaMan
over a year ago

Around

I reply all my messages.. Better to sat NO than ignore someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean how bloody dare they!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Just 1 x"

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I'm sorry, I will open your message. I've been rather snowed under...

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I never look in my outbox. When I press send that’s it. I forgot about it.

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By *ack-offMan
over a year ago

hertfordshire

Most of mine never get read

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

110

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

107..I've been hidden for a couple of weeks which has greatly helped!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 unread in my sent box .. How very dare they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them if unopened after a week. Recently had someone message me and add me as a friend etc. then just don’t open your messages for a week, it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4. I just looked. But they’re all just quick replies with one word answers to stuff, so they can read them without opening them anyway, I like to save people time.

*one word answers =Yes

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"8 unread in my sent box .. How very dare they

Which idiots haven’t responded to you ? !!!

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"110"

That you have sent ? Or in your inbox ?

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