FabSwingers.com forum: Seeing ex again here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I am 99.9% sure I have stumbled accross an account by my ex with a fake name, I recognise those tits anywhere and was always sure she would create an account eventually as we used to be on here together. Is it wrong to message that account to basically say I know who it is and how much I'd like to fuck her again?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Only you know how things were between you when you broke up. If you do message don't say you know who she is without revealing who you are, that's just creepy.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Try not to be a creep stay away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh she would definitely know who I was too for sure so I'm not worried about that part coming off creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away. I saw my old boss on here - that was a cross between weird, uncomfortable but mildly erotic. If only I'd known at the time.....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

What was the break up like? Friendly? Amicable? Would she be receptive if you saw her in the street and said hi?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What was the break up like? Friendly? Amicable? Would she be receptive if you saw her in the street and said hi? "

So wasnt friendly to begin with as I was pretty devastated etc. But now I would definitely be happy to see her in the street to say hi

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Oh she would definitely know who I was too for sure so I'm not worried about that part coming off creepy. "

Good

. If you think it would go well message her, you might have a lot of fun

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"What was the break up like? Friendly? Amicable? Would she be receptive if you saw her in the street and said hi?

So wasnt friendly to begin with as I was pretty devastated etc. But now I would definitely be happy to see her in the street to say hi "

That wasn't the question. How would SHE feel?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Sounds like you have made your mind up hopeful it workouts the way you hope and she doesn't leave the site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's your ex. Just move on. If she wasn't on here, you wouldn't ask her to hook up for sex.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

The worse thst can happen is she says no I guess. Or denied its her. Just be clear on your intentions from the outset if you don't want to rekindle anything.

If she does say no, leave it there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What was the break up like? Friendly? Amicable? Would she be receptive if you saw her in the street and said hi?

So wasnt friendly to begin with as I was pretty devastated etc. But now I would definitely be happy to see her in the street to say hi

That wasn't the question. How would SHE feel? "

Fair point. Honestly, I think she would be happy to see me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She's your ex. Just move on. If she wasn't on here, you wouldn't ask her to hook up for sex. "

I probably would tbf if i knew she wanted NSA sex

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

No leave her alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No leave her alone "

Shit. Too late

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why do people do this...she is an ex for a reason!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"What was the break up like? Friendly? Amicable? Would she be receptive if you saw her in the street and said hi?

So wasnt friendly to begin with as I was pretty devastated etc. But now I would definitely be happy to see her in the street to say hi

That wasn't the question. How would SHE feel? "

Exactly...

no thought for how she would feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly feel its people like this that give men a bad name

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

An ex is an ex for a reason.

I made the mistake of giving in to an ex's request for a meet on here and really wish I hadn't.

From your previous comments it sounds like she has hurt you once don't put yourself in that position again.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Clearly regretted the action!

This thread was like a short story!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Sounds like your mind is made up but as two women can't have the same looking tits and as she's not registered as birdy89_ex .. I'd say messaging her with "we're gonna be fucking very soon", you might not get you the reaction you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clearly regretted the action!

This thread was like a short story! "

Yes, it doesn’t appear to have gone well……

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Clearly regretted the action!

This thread was like a short story!

Yes, it doesn’t appear to have gone well……

Some woman in a few days/hours is going to sift through her messages and wonder wft

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

That was short and sweet

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By *ver the hill for fabMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"Why do people do this...she is an ex for a reason!"
many ex,s get back together weeks months years later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am guessing she said she’s not interested

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"That was short and sweet

Yeah, the mind boggles

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Perhaps they’re making a couples profile.

Oops.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Perhaps they’re making a couples profile.

Oops. "

He'll be rejoining just to look at her tits again

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Rumour has it was his sister.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Leave her to get on with her life.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Sweet! Guess they are running like mad to Wetherspoons for a fuck and a frolic.

I do love a good love story.

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

She obviously told you to F**k off op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex reaches out to me on multiple new profiles regularly, and does not take no for an answer.

It's really horrible.. Leave her alone to do her thing, enjoying the supposed anonymity to express /enjoy herself

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If in doubt, leave it

Just because one party feels like “Party on” doesn’t mean the other party feels that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That was short and sweet

Just like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think that they made contact, agreed to meet and he's now knuckles deep in her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clearly regretted the action!

This thread was like a short story!

Yes, it doesn’t appear to have gone well……

Some woman in a few days/hours is going to sift through her messages and wonder wft"

Nah once you leave your messages disappear so if she hasn’t seen the message yet it would have gone when he left.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I'd like to think that they made contact, agreed to meet and he's now knuckles deep in her

You're such a romantic

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Sweet! Guess they are running like mad to Wetherspoons for a fuck and a frolic.

I do love a good love story."

Curry night tonight! Curry and a drink £6.95

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

That went well for him then

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