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Decisions... and just how do you make them

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Are you a head or a heart person? By that I mean when you have to make up your mind about something, what is the greater influence - the rational or your emotional part? I dont think there is a right or wrong in this... just different people having different preferences. A bit like psychometrics - only much simpler?

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

head

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Head. To practical to be ruled by my heart!

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

I like to think I am ruled equally by both, I try and be balanced in all parts of my life. I do the pro and cons and then also gut just to confuse me a bit more

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I am a head case (Seriously lol) and make most my decisions re finance, spending, practical things with my head. Relationships? I probably use both in varying proportions and depending on the problem, the people and the situation we are in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mostly head.sometimes heart.other times i just roll a dice

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"mostly head.sometimes heart.other times i just roll a dice"
Sometimes a head might roll in the process?

Only kidding I know what you mean about some things there has to be an element of chance.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"mostly head.sometimes heart.other times i just roll a diceSometimes a head might roll in the process?

Only kidding I know what you mean about some things there has to be an element of chance."

Element of chance that be a new relationship then

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"mostly head.sometimes heart.other times i just roll a diceSometimes a head might roll in the process?

Only kidding I know what you mean about some things there has to be an element of chance.

Element of chance that be a new relationship then "
Quite possibly - I do believe in life that sometimes you hvae to go with the flow and sometimes the very things you want to happen most... do not happen and while you are disappointed at the time, often hindsight will reveal that it was actually for the better. Jeeze this wine is good... makes me all philosophical

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"mostly head.sometimes heart.other times i just roll a diceSometimes a head might roll in the process?

Only kidding I know what you mean about some things there has to be an element of chance.

Element of chance that be a new relationship then Quite possibly - I do believe in life that sometimes you hvae to go with the flow and sometimes the very things you want to happen most... do not happen and while you are disappointed at the time, often hindsight will reveal that it was actually for the better. Jeeze this wine is good... makes me all philosophical "

It was in there all along the wine just brings it out

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"mostly head.sometimes heart.other times i just roll a diceSometimes a head might roll in the process?

Only kidding I know what you mean about some things there has to be an element of chance.

Element of chance that be a new relationship then Quite possibly - I do believe in life that sometimes you hvae to go with the flow and sometimes the very things you want to happen most... do not happen and while you are disappointed at the time, often hindsight will reveal that it was actually for the better. Jeeze this wine is good... makes me all philosophical

It was in there all along the wine just brings it out"
Trouble is... it brings out loads more...;-)

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"mostly head.sometimes heart.other times i just roll a diceSometimes a head might roll in the process?

Only kidding I know what you mean about some things there has to be an element of chance.

Element of chance that be a new relationship then Quite possibly - I do believe in life that sometimes you hvae to go with the flow and sometimes the very things you want to happen most... do not happen and while you are disappointed at the time, often hindsight will reveal that it was actually for the better. Jeeze this wine is good... makes me all philosophical

It was in there all along the wine just brings it outTrouble is... it brings out loads more...;-)"

Now there's a thought

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rely on my gut feel first, then look for evidence/data for verification purposes.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

majority head but depends on the situation and the decision to be made.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My head... I think

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

Definitely a crash and burn decision maker...throw all caution to the wind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go by gut instinct and heart..sometimes this causes me to make rash decisions that don't work out, but at other times it has led to some great things and people in my life that if I had used my head I would probably have missed out on.

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