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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning

Is there anything that sinks the heart as much as clicking to message someone

Only to realise you’re out of age range?

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

By only a year too. Have to wait a whole year to message them

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

for some of us its the other way around... just a year or two too old..

Frustrating as some people act and look differently from their age.. How many people are really truthful on here about their age anyway..

I have seen a woman on here, when she first came on was sixty something, then a few years later she was 50 something, now she is with a guy she is trying to pass herself off as 45, she's at least 20 years older than that..

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Absolutely. There’s a particular lady that I’m 3 years plus for but when you’re my age three years is next to nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most just message anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s whare Advanced Search is your friend you can set a age group and also tick a box that say only return profile that I am in they age group

No more problems off that happening

I see a lot off these things but and people complaining but no one talers they searchs to suit they profile and age range

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not many men have age limits. There’s been a few women I’d like to have messaged though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, being rejected after messaging for a while!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Most just message anyway "

Not possible??

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By *inch PaulMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

Agreed, not possible if you are outside the age range.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"for some of us its the other way around... just a year or two too old..

Frustrating as some people act and look differently from their age.. How many people are really truthful on here about their age anyway..

I have seen a woman on here, when she first came on was sixty something, then a few years later she was 50 something, now she is with a guy she is trying to pass herself off as 45, she's at least 20 years older than that.. "

I am 100% truthful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having now clicked over to 50 I’m sure it will narrow things down

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By *inch PaulMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

Your age range is 99 to 99! For once I'm too young!!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Having now clicked over to 50 I’m sure it will narrow things down "

You 50! No way

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Very frustrating!!! And such an arbitrary setting ! I’m the wrong side of 50 for most but I’m sure I’d be better than a lot who are younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your age range is 99 to 99! For once I'm too young!!"

Oh I forgot about that haha

I change filters sometimes to rest my inbox for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having now clicked over to 50 I’m sure it will narrow things down

You 50! No way "

Flattery, as you know, will get you everywhere Mr Fiddler

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Morning

Is there anything that sinks the heart as much as clicking to message someone

Only to realise you’re out of age range?

"

Yes, creating an interesting message and getting it ignored. But there ain't much in it!

However that is Fab for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s whare Advanced Search is your friend you can set a age group and also tick a box that say only return profile that I am in they age group

No more problems off that happening

I see a lot off these things but and people complaining but no one talers they searchs to suit they profile and age range "

Yeah more talking about when you’ve been fabbed for instance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having now clicked over to 50 I’m sure it will narrow things down "
lol you’re age band is impossible

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Thank goodness a number of people on here still keep the default setting (18 - 99)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most just message anyway

Not possible?? "

We get loads of messages from people outside our age range so it is very much possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed, not possible if you are outside the age range.

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Again it is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most just message anyway

Not possible??

We get loads of messages from people outside our age range so it is very much possible "

You can put a filter on to stop that but if they've messaged before then they can still get through.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's more annoying when people lie about their age on their profile. Double disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most just message anyway

Not possible??

We get loads of messages from people outside our age range so it is very much possible

You can put a filter on to stop that but if they've messaged before then they can still get through. "

We’re active on the forums so don’t want to block anyone from messaging

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill


"Morning

Is there anything that sinks the heart as much as clicking to message someone

Only to realise you’re out of age range?

"

Not if you’ve read their age range and their profile first!

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea


"It's more annoying when people lie about their age on their profile. Double disappointing."

I couldn't agree with you more! People have the option on here to actually change their just once, but I could never see the point in that because, if a guy makes out in his profile that he is the 21st century John Travolta, and he turns up looking like Victor Meldrew, he hardly going get a result. I can't message a vast majority of the site these days, so I take the laid back view that if they are interested, despite their age criteria, they will find me, and believe me that honesty works better than bullshit because, trust is like virginity, you only lose it once.

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