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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Anyone got any thoughts?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

What is it?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes .... I have no idea what you are asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another label?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that like, doing cars?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

At least they'll never be disappointed

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Is that like, doing cars?"

I'm an old banger

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"What is it?."

People that are attracted to them selfs

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Lol you can look it up yourselves

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Umm ok…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a posh name for a wanker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So like Ronaldo having a half time tug?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol you can look it up yourselves "

I doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that like, doing cars?

I'm an old banger"

You are a veritable stylish classic, nowhere near an old banger!!

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Some Wannabe comedians in the pack I see, good place to try out material I guess lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know what you expected with a vague post.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I googled it but had never heard of it before. Learn something new every day.

I don’t think I am that way inclined though.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

People who are more attracted to them selves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who are more attracted to them selves "

Thank you for clarifying

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"People who are more attracted to them selves

Thank you for clarifying "

Xx

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Loads of them on here

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Ok lowdown is, I have had autosexual fantasies and have masterbated to pictures of myself, but I have a girlfriend and am bi too...just all adds up to one great old time! Message me if you have had similar thoughts but also be nice, some get a bit funny with this one and not comedian funny like some of yall but just mean for fun haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ilo_Stitch69Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Aint it also people who much prefer masturbation as to sex with there partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ I'm not sure if that last input is, sarky, touchy or bitchy....

My helpful skills won't stretch to that this time...

Good luck

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Aint it also people who much prefer masturbation as to sex with there partner. "

Possibly

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

I don’t think thats quite enough to qualify it....but maybe I’m wrong! I personally will always pic sex with my partner over masterbating if given a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aint it also people who much prefer masturbation as to sex with there partner. "

Correct

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By *ilo_Stitch69Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

I personally couldn’t imagine only having foreplay with my partner and not actually sex

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally couldn’t imagine only having foreplay with my partner and not actually sex "

You are both missing out

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

I think that preferring masterbating over having sex is slightly different, I understand it that autosexuality is sexual attraction to yourself

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Judging by the self obsessed arseholes who polite Tick Tock every day I would say it is another consequence of social media

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that preferring masterbating over having sex is slightly different, I understand it that autosexuality is sexual attraction to yourself "

I'm with you on that, nothing better than mirror play

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By *ilo_Stitch69Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM


"I personally couldn’t imagine only having foreplay with my partner and not actually sex

You are both missing out "

Oh dont get me wrong we have ALOT of foreplay & actually can go with out sex but to only ever have foreplay and no sex i couldnt

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Well I’ve had these thoughts and fantasies since I was about 12.... pre bebo days let alone MySpace lol

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

Is that like James May’s thing where certain cars give him a fizzing sensation in the root of his penis?

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By *uke DuchessCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Autosexuality means people more interested in themselves than other people,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Balls who needs them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Autosexuality means people more interested in themselves than other people,"

.....people more interested in themselves........Certainly met enough of those in my life, unfortunately!

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

It’s nothing new, it’s the original definition of narcissism, although that has quite different meanings now. In Greek mythology, Narcissus was a hunter who was known for his beauty. According to the myth, he rejected all romantic advances, eventually falling in love with his own reflection in a pool of water, staring at it for the remainder of his life

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

I don’t think it’s strictly narcissism as the story of narcissus is about self obsession at the behest of other people whereas I think it is just sexual attraction to yourself that can be coupled with other sexual orientations...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone got any thoughts? "

Yeah, I tried it once but went back to manual.

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Haha Thoughts are lame lol

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Oh unless you mean you tried autosexuality once... getting confused it’s that time of night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha. Even though I have problems with my clutch control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh unless you mean you tried autosexuality once... getting confused it’s that time of night "

Yes very confused, it’s the morning.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Lol you can look it up yourselves "

Why start a topic of conversation with no context to it?

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth


"Lol you can look it up yourselves

Why start a topic of conversation with no context to it? "

Well it’s started now hasn’t it lol sorry I’m not versed in the arts of starting a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s nothing new, it’s the original definition of narcissism, although that has quite different meanings now. In Greek mythology, Narcissus was a hunter who was known for his beauty. According to the myth, he rejected all romantic advances, eventually falling in love with his own reflection in a pool of water, staring at it for the remainder of his life"

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This sprang to my mind except that the term 'Narcissism' has been usurped by Psychologists, hence a different one, with less negative connotations, be used for sexual self-love.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

We are all this to a degree? X

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Judging by the self obsessed arseholes who polite Tick Tock every day I would say it is another consequence of social media "

Love tick tock !x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok lowdown is, I have had autosexual fantasies and have masterbated to pictures of myself, but I have a girlfriend and am bi too...just all adds up to one great old time! Message me if you have had similar thoughts but also be nice, some get a bit funny with this one and not comedian funny like some of yall but just mean for fun haha! "

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This is very interesting. Having had a very cursory look at it, it seems to suggest that if we can love our own sexuality, we are better able to share in a more gratifying sexual experience, whether alone or with others. That's at a very basic level and something we can all understand.

OP, in terms of masturbating to pictures of yourself, what is it that you 'see'?

Are you generally, very self confident?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Autosexuality means people more interested in themselves than other people,

.....people more interested in themselves........Certainly met enough of those in my life, unfortunately!"

Hahaha

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth


"Ok lowdown is, I have had autosexual fantasies and have masterbated to pictures of myself, but I have a girlfriend and am bi too...just all adds up to one great old time! Message me if you have had similar thoughts but also be nice, some get a bit funny with this one and not comedian funny like some of yall but just mean for fun haha!

.

This is very interesting. Having had a very cursory look at it, it seems to suggest that if we can love our own sexuality, we are better able to share in a more gratifying sexual experience, whether alone or with others. That's at a very basic level and something we can all understand.

OP, in terms of masturbating to pictures of yourself, what is it that you 'see'?

Are you generally, very self confident?"

No I’m not which is strange, I’ve done it long before I was even confident in my own body, but now I am it’s really not changed...hehe strange but it’s fun, never really been open about it until now

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

OP I know of this. Didn’t know it had a name.

I’ve long been open about the fact that I love nothing more than a mirror or watching my own videos whilst having sex or indulging in self pleasure. I find myself really bloody sexy

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth


"OP I know of this. Didn’t know it had a name.

I’ve long been open about the fact that I love nothing more than a mirror or watching my own videos whilst having sex or indulging in self pleasure. I find myself really bloody sexy

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As you should! You are xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s nothing new, it’s the original definition of narcissism, although that has quite different meanings now. In Greek mythology, Narcissus was a hunter who was known for his beauty. According to the myth, he rejected all romantic advances, eventually falling in love with his own reflection in a pool of water, staring at it for the remainder of his life"

I don't think Narcissus stroked one out while looking at his reflection though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Autosexuality means people more interested in themselves than other people,"

I think it's rather more that they are better able to sexualise themselves, in part because they understand their sexual desires and are able to accept that the pleasure they derive from it comes from within themselves to enjoy the experience, regardless of who is pleasuring them.

It sounds selfish. Of course, many factors in their personality would come into play but if stripped to only this feature, I would imagine it could make them more likely to be a giving and sharing sexual partner for mutual pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok lowdown is, I have had autosexual fantasies and have masterbated to pictures of myself, but I have a girlfriend and am bi too...just all adds up to one great old time! Message me if you have had similar thoughts but also be nice, some get a bit funny with this one and not comedian funny like some of yall but just mean for fun haha!

.

This is very interesting. Having had a very cursory look at it, it seems to suggest that if we can love our own sexuality, we are better able to share in a more gratifying sexual experience, whether alone or with others. That's at a very basic level and something we can all understand.

OP, in terms of masturbating to pictures of yourself, what is it that you 'see'?

Are you generally, very self confident?

No I’m not which is strange, I’ve done it long before I was even confident in my own body, but now I am it’s really not changed...hehe strange but it’s fun, never really been open about it until now "

That's fascinating. Perhaps that would be more a mix of extreme narcissism and not in line with autosexuality. That is where the difference lies, perhaps.

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Yeah I think so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I think so!"

OP, click on +quote to answer a particular post, like I have here.

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth


"Yeah I think so!

OP, click on +quote to answer a particular post, like I have here."

Ok got it

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"So like Ronaldo having a half time tug?"

That made me really laugh more than it should

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"It’s nothing new, it’s the original definition of narcissism, although that has quite different meanings now. In Greek mythology, Narcissus was a hunter who was known for his beauty. According to the myth, he rejected all romantic advances, eventually falling in love with his own reflection in a pool of water, staring at it for the remainder of his life

I don't think Narcissus stroked one out while looking at his reflection though."

He probably did though, eh

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth


"It’s nothing new, it’s the original definition of narcissism, although that has quite different meanings now. In Greek mythology, Narcissus was a hunter who was known for his beauty. According to the myth, he rejected all romantic advances, eventually falling in love with his own reflection in a pool of water, staring at it for the remainder of his life

I don't think Narcissus stroked one out while looking at his reflection though.

He probably did though, eh "

It’s all there written between the lines lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I don’t think it’s strictly narcissism as the story of narcissus is about self obsession at the behest of other people whereas I think it is just sexual attraction to yourself that can be coupled with other sexual orientations..."

Maybe it's that they lack trust in others?

If I saw a photo of someone who looked exactly like me I'd not get turned on.

What can happen tho, is I look through photos and remember who I was back then, how I was filled with hope, how I was carefree, sexually confident etc and there are times when I try to get back into that mindset but in a safe way. I wank because I no longer get turned on by other people, and the only person I trust in a sexual sense is myself.

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth


"I don’t think it’s strictly narcissism as the story of narcissus is about self obsession at the behest of other people whereas I think it is just sexual attraction to yourself that can be coupled with other sexual orientations...

Maybe it's that they lack trust in others?

If I saw a photo of someone who looked exactly like me I'd not get turned on.

What can happen tho, is I look through photos and remember who I was back then, how I was filled with hope, how I was carefree, sexually confident etc and there are times when I try to get back into that mindset but in a safe way. I wank because I no longer get turned on by other people, and the only person I trust in a sexual sense is myself."

I did think it was initially to do with not feeling confident enough to be with others...but I’m really not sure, I’ve been masterbating to pictures and videos of myself, some incredibly erotic and x rated, for long over a decade! And what’s interesting is that I’ve only recently in the last couple years entertained the idea I might be Bi! I thought I was straight but just also wanted to fuck myself...for the most part that’s still true!

I’ve kept this all a secret for about fifteen years! This thread is my first time telling anyone

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By *oshu0 OP   Man
over a year ago

Falmouth

Bumping this up just once to see if anyone else masterbates in front of the mirror or the like, and has been curious about it...might be a touch Autosexual...I’ve been partly autosexual my whole life but have kept it secret until about a week ago (well I told my girlfriend once on an acid trip but don’t think that counts)... just curious to know and chat to similar have a grand day xxx

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