FabSwingers.com forum: What makes an amazing blowjob

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reading the post about not being able to cum from a blowjob it got me thinking. So from a guys view what makes an amazing blowjob? Always good to get new tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having to say what I like, and letting the person work it out through correctly understanding the subtle cues and body language. Last thing I ever want to hear is "Do you like that?" or "Tell me what you want me to do" - just not how I like it, I'll obviously say if I'm not enjoying something, but fill your boots and do what you like, it's not just for my enjoyment after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone else, no teeth!

I complimented someone on her technique not long ago and she said, "Well, it's common sense isn't it?"... And went on to explain that giving a great blowjob is rooted in empathy and intuitive reaction.

Ultimately, you have to think about maximising the man's pleasure using your mouth - so teasing, good suction and rhythm, attention to different parts of the cock (shaft, tip, frenulum etc), good amount of saliva, so it's nice and smooth and a good amount edging/build up. Treat it with care, not too rough, but a nice strong increase in velocity as he's reaching climax.

Pay attention to his reactions - vocal and physical - as well.

Also, works a treat if the person giving the blowjob is enjoying it too and not just going through the motions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate telling them how to do it, from previous experience they didnt like being told how to do it in a way i liked. So now i just let them do it to avoid the grief and just try to enjoy it for how it comes (no pun intended).

Ideally though, plenty of tongue contact from the tip to the back, it just feels better getting a better "wrap" around my cock when theres more tongue touching. A little teeth is okay but i dont want to feel them scrapping past the tip rim, its sorta like the equivalent of a woman feeling nails scratching the inside of their pussy. And obviously the deeper the better, more sensations to be felt along my cock

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"As someone else, no teeth!

Pay attention to his reactions - vocal and physical - as well.

Also, works a treat if the person giving the blowjob is enjoying it too and not just going through the motions. "

This Is a great response. A lot of women just suck and don’t pay attention to these things. I would add don’t forget his balls and perineum both amazing being licked. While you’re there use your hands to stroke his dick . If you’re a dirty girl get your tongue in his arse too. A great blow job is a mixture of all these elements. And done with enthusiasm and eye contact is guaranteed satisfaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as everything, communication. Everyone likes different things, ask/tell your partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would add don’t forget his balls and perineum both amazing being licked. While you’re there use your hands to stroke his dick . If you’re a dirty girl get your tongue in his arse too. A great blow job is a mixture of all these elements. And done with enthusiasm and eye contact is guaranteed satisfaction "

Yes mate, exactly. Great additions.

I'm not AS keen on hands being involved because women can be sometimes quite insenstive when handling a cock, but when done properly it definitely adds to the whole thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good tug on the balls works wonders too.

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

Herts

To paraphrase Al Capone in The Untouchables:

“Enthusiasm, Enthusiasm…Enthusiasm”

That and spit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of saliva, nice and sloppy

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

A woman who enjoys what shes doing xx if its a chore its a bore xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving head haha. This thread just reassures me I’m doing ok.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Eye contact. Sexy as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a bad one? Jokes tbf the only one I've not enjoyed was from a straight guy who said it was his first time and a bit toothy so the biggest thing is getting the teeth out of the way

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It really helps us women if the guy is very voc. Not only is this a turn on in itself but then the cues are more obvious.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

A mouth and a penis ?

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By *inkunicorn2021Woman
over a year ago

Downham Market

"I love giving head haha. This thread just reassures me I’m doing ok. "

I was thinking the same thing

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I love giving head haha. This thread just reassures me I’m doing ok.

I was thinking the same thing

Anything you want to know ladies just ask. I don’t charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, keep a consistent rhythm with it. Don't chop and change what you're doing too much too soon because I can't get turned on that way. It's frustrating as fuck haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love giving head haha. This thread just reassures me I’m doing ok. "

Exactly lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nice read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any guys here believe the myth that men are better at it than women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading the guy your with. Id go as far as say probably aroun 90% ive had a bad.

The best ive had are from relatively inexperienced women. The worst have been from the 'i give the best blowjob' brigade.

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

Lots of eye contact

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Reading the guy your with. Id go as far as say probably aroun 90% ive had a bad.

The best ive had are from relatively inexperienced women. The worst have been from the 'i give the best blowjob' brigade.

The guy I’m seeing tells me I give the best but I’m sure that’s not the case lol I just wondered if there was any other tricks I could pull out of the bag next time

. Seems from all these posts maybe not x

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"Reading the guy your with. Id go as far as say probably aroun 90% ive had a bad.

The best ive had are from relatively inexperienced women. The worst have been from the 'i give the best blowjob' brigade.

The guy I’m seeing tells me I give the best but I’m sure that’s not the case lol I just wondered if there was any other tricks I could pull out of the bag next time

. Seems from all these posts maybe not x"
every day is a school day xxx

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading the guy your with. Id go as far as say probably aroun 90% ive had a bad.

The best ive had are from relatively inexperienced women. The worst have been from the 'i give the best blowjob' brigade.

The guy I’m seeing tells me I give the best but I’m sure that’s not the case lol I just wondered if there was any other tricks I could pull out of the bag next time

. Seems from all these posts maybe not x"

Thats all that matters, as long as you both enjoy it and he loves it your doing a fab job.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Plenty of licking as well as sucking. Specially the underside. Proper deep throat. I've only met one woman who did all this.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Someone who has experience of circumcised guy's is best, and who is acutely aware of the fact that cut guys have a far less sensitive bell end than the average guy who often explodes seconds after pulling back his foreskin. Gripping the base of the shaft tightly and wanking, with the lips and tongue round the bell end is the way to blow the mind of a circumcised guy till he loses control and just lets his load go. It never ceases to amaze how few women have never experienced a circumcised guy to actually know this!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Someone who has experience of circumcised guy's is best, and who is acutely aware of the fact that cut guys have a far less sensitive bell end than the average guy who often explodes seconds after pulling back his foreskin. Gripping the base of the shaft tightly and wanking, with the lips and tongue round the bell end is the way to blow the mind of a circumcised guy till he loses control and just lets his load go. It never ceases to amaze how few women have never experienced a circumcised guy to actually know this! "

Why does it amaze you? I haven’t.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

maybe I’ll try that

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

I’m so doing this!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

I’m so doing this!"

You mean you don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband was circumcised and was the opposite,came really quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like these threads. I am out of practise.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Plenty of saliva coupled with mouth and hand action! The wife has it down to a fine art

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"I like these threads. I am out of practise. "
i’ll just say Alder 3x and hope you appear xx

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Tbh for me it's less technique it's more important to me to know the gal/guy is actually enjoying giving it ..

And you can tell haha

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Are you circumcised by any small chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not having to say what I like, and letting the person work it out through correctly understanding the subtle cues and body language. Last thing I ever want to hear is "Do you like that?" or "Tell me what you want me to do" - just not how I like it, I'll obviously say if I'm not enjoying something, but fill your boots and do what you like, it's not just for my enjoyment after all."

I don't think I've ever asked a guy if they like it. My issue isn't getting them to cum, it's edging them quickly enough to stop them cumming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I reply to a message first

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Eye contact, communication and the giver enjoying giving as much as the receiver is enjoying receiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't know ?

i'll take anyone

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By *raggyjackMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Tongue teasing the rim of the helmet.... and a good squeeze of my balls when I'm about to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

I’m so doing this!"

Oh I’m definitely going to do this

even add on a congratulations you’ve cum

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

I’m so doing this!

Oh I’m definitely going to do this

even add on a congratulations you’ve cum "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

I’m so doing this!

Oh I’m definitely going to do this

even add on a congratulations you’ve cum "

I think I'm going to try this too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

I’m so doing this!

Oh I’m definitely going to do this

even add on a congratulations you’ve cum

I think I'm going to try this too lol"

Very good I'm going to suggest this to all that give me a BJ from now on ....lol

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

"Any guys here believe the myth that men are better at it than women? "

That arguments works both ways..... are women better at licking pussy than men? Sometimes yes ... sometimes no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any guys here believe the myth that men are better at it than women?

That arguments works both ways..... are women better at licking pussy than men? Sometimes yes ... sometimes no "

Yeah true I've had good and bad from both I suppose

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

How I would like it, but not limited too; eye contact, careful positioning of teeth, bit of deep swallow action, longue lashing, lot's and lot's of saliva (keep bottle of water nearby if you get dehydrated ladies). Variation of rhythms.

Also when I'm on the home stretch I like her to interlock her hands onto mine... or I'll grab hers. I find it intensifies the connection just at the right time... A nice gulp, a quick peck on the tip and then passing of the wet wipe and viola I am left with a warm fuzzy feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

I’m so doing this!

You mean you don’t

I tend to look all pleased with myself. Lick the tip. Give it a kiss and say “oops” as I briefly raise one eyebrow. Then smile like the cat who got all the cream

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

I’m so doing this!

You mean you don’t

I tend to look all pleased with myself. Lick the tip. Give it a kiss and say “oops” as I briefly raise one eyebrow. Then smile like the cat who got all the cream

Stop it

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Controlled enthusiasm, eye contact, not neglecting the balls, tongue action, your ability to read there body language, mutual enjoyment…spit, taking your time, little moans with your mouthful xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it’s important that after a lady has made me cum from a blow job that she stands up holds her hands out and says

Tah-dahhhhhhhhh

I’m so doing this!

You mean you don’t

I tend to look all pleased with myself. Lick the tip. Give it a kiss and say “oops” as I briefly raise one eyebrow. Then smile like the cat who got all the cream

Stop it

You wouldn’t like that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading the guy your with. Id go as far as say probably aroun 90% ive had a bad.

The best ive had are from relatively inexperienced women. The worst have been from the 'i give the best blowjob' brigade.

The guy I’m seeing tells me I give the best but I’m sure that’s not the case lol I just wondered if there was any other tricks I could pull out of the bag next time

. Seems from all these posts maybe not x"

Exactly, it’s based from the feedback we get .

I’d never make those claims

But I do wonder if some people say “I give amazing head” based on their own judgement?!

Hmmmm

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Stop it

You wouldn’t like that then?

I have to go to work now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop it

You wouldn’t like that then?

I have to go to work now

I’ll have tea ready when you return

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Stop it

You wouldn’t like that then?

I have to go to work now

I’ll have tea ready when you return

you treat me like a King

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How I would like it, but not limited too; eye contact, careful positioning of teeth, bit of deep swallow action, longue lashing, lot's and lot's of saliva (keep bottle of water nearby if you get dehydrated ladies). Variation of rhythms.

This, definitely. Locking hands is just ..... oh my!!!!!

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By *it-chrissyTV/TS
over a year ago

sw. london

Slow down !

going at it hammer and tongs from the get go is quite distracting.

Its not a race, its not a porno x

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Controlled enthusiasm, eye contact, not neglecting the balls, tongue action, your ability to read there body language, mutual enjoyment…spit, taking your time, little moans with your mouthful xx"

She’s good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hands.

Slow.

Not too wet, not too dry.

Lots of tongue

No, or limited use of teeth

Maintain eye contact

Did I say no hands? Yea, NO HANDS

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By *art123Man
over a year ago

Stoke

A mouth

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By *ver the hill for fabMan
over a year ago

LONDON

When you cum

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