FabSwingers.com forum: Hygeine

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm someone who takes hygiene very seriously, I like to shower before a meet. If you were about to have sex with someone and found out their hygiene resembles that of Oscar the Grouch. What would you do? Do you just bare with it or would you say something but that could possibly hurt feelings.

Let's have a discussion about it.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd probably find an excuse to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think I found out about their hygiene well before we got to the stripping off stage. Hopefully I'd be able to tell from first impressions.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I'd order him into the shower before he got anywhere near me

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Everyone I've met have been clean and smelling divine! Not sure what I would say if anything if they wernt! I wouldnt want to offend! Why it's best to social meet first x

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I'd like to think I found out about their hygiene well before we got to the stripping off stage. Hopefully I'd be able to tell from first impressions."
Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id have to make a excuse up. Its a fear of mine!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'd like to think I found out about their hygiene well before we got to the stripping off stage. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god, we've never been in this situation

I really don't know what i'd do. Probably adopt a British Stiff upper lip and just grin and bear it! Oral would be minimal/avoided

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It has happened to me. Hygiene level on two socials was hugely different to hygiene level when I went to his house.

It was extremely awkward but I explained that there was a level of odour I wasn't comfortable with and I left. Even had he offered to shower (he didn't) I'd have been concerned about crusty bedding - there was no way I would've been willing to carry on.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I would talk about how turned on I get by soaping each other up in the shower

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I guess the kindest would be to wash them gently.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

This is why I always do socials first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it to the shower and make sure they were cleaned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hygiene is something we would have already talked about. I would have mentioned it's importance to me..

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By *he Cram-BetweensCouple
over a year ago

A Club or Your Bedroom!

"I'm someone who takes hygiene very seriously, I like to shower before a meet. If you were about to have sex with someone and found out their hygiene resembles that of Oscar the Grouch. What would you do? Do you just bare with it or would you say something but that could possibly hurt feelings.

Let's have a discussion about it."

I would excuse myself and leave

I also love clean smelling people to play with, I put in the effort so expect the same. God nothing worse then playing with the stench yuk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled 3 hours on the coach then an hour on the tube straight after work this weekend for a meet so I stank - so I made it clear I need to pop in the shower before we play! I’m nowhere near ocd about cleanliness but I don’t understand how people wouldn’t want to be fresh and clean. I’ve had guys ask for ass play and it was NOT fresh and clean. Like ffs if I wanted to ask for that, I’d be scrubbing myself in the shower for 20 mins first!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Never been in this situation thank goodness. I’d be off though. Couldn’t do it. Not sure what I’d say but I wouldn’t stay. I can’t see it happening though as I would have always met someone first before it got to anything else.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

What does oscar smell like

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I guess the kindest would be to wash them gently."

I’m not that kind I’m afraid

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

It takes me 2 to 3 hours getting ready

So if a guy turned up smelly I would tell him

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I'd order him into the shower before he got anywhere near me"

I'd order him to leave as he had not bothered to shower before meeting me.

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"It has happened to me. Hygiene level on two socials was hugely different to hygiene level when I went to his house.

Eeeeewwww....what is wrong with some people...

Can't stand bad hygiene

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Id have to make a excuse up. Its a fear of mine!

What fear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take it to the shower and make sure they were cleaned up

No chance. If she turned up minging, you don't know when she last showered. A lack of personal hygiene does not bode well.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Take it to the shower and make sure they were cleaned up

What you shagging an

Alien?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I guess the kindest would be to wash them gently.

I’m not that kind I’m afraid

Me neither… shocking I know..

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